We commuted together. He caught my attention then he started convo. Without him knowing in the first place, I was head over heels when he approached me. After a while, I invited him to lunch on my birthday, he treated. He hardly mentioned anything about his wife or his little boy..I only noticed from his wedding band that he's married. I am sure he can tell that he's special to me through my cards and emails.. I call him once in a while and email him every now and then just to keep in touch. He moved and we are not travelling together anymore for almost a year now. I still have this strong feeling of liking him. My face brightens if I see him ... He never initiates any calls or emails but if I call or write, he reponded warmly and interestingly. What's on his mind? Why didnt he just give me cold shoulder or ignore my calls or emails so I can get the message "it's time to stop !" HELP !!
2006-12-17 15:14:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not happy in your marriage then why stay married...your looking for something that you know you cant have...so why even chase it...work on your current marriage_
2006-12-17 15:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probabally kind hearted, maybe thats what his wife finds attractive about him. Why do you think this is okay? Even though I am a firm supporter of love on sight, and love knows no boundries. Love also commands a certain sort of respect. Love bound by marriage should be left alone. If ur unhappy, or out of love, get a divorce and start over. Don't dabble in infidelity, too many people still believe in shotgun justice, and too much innocence is sacraficed.
2006-12-17 15:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First not a good sign if you haven't been honest. Honesty is the first step in any relationship. I wouldn't be pursueing a married man unless he's confessed his unhappiness. He's probably being friendly and that's how you should look at it for now unless he gives you an invitation for more.
2006-12-17 15:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he responds warmly to your emails, but has he ever flirted??
I think you should leave it alone. This is nothing but a trainwreck waiting to happen.
2006-12-17 15:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes the attention, but isn't willing to cheat on his wife or he would have made a move already.
2006-12-17 15:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Clueless 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are a stalker.
Really a stellar kinda gal.
Go home to your husband, and ask him. I'll bet you get a really cool Christmas gift.
can someone say supoena??
2006-12-17 15:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Beck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stooppp being a homewrecker.
Be faithful to your husband
and stop causing divorces.
2006-12-17 15:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by T <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best and safety's thing to do is leave this guy alone and get back to your own marriage while you still have one.
2006-12-17 15:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please just stop. My husband of nine years just moved in with another woman two weeks ago. I am sick. Things like this hurt other people involved. It breaks hearts, wrecks homes, and breaks up families. Don't contribute to the pain. Please.
2006-12-17 15:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pooh-Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to stop NOW!!!!! This is an infatuation. you owe your husband more loyalty than that. Grow up and live up to your responsibilities.
2006-12-17 15:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋