Singles & Dating - 15 December 2006

My girlfriend and I tried to have sex last night for the first time (for both of us). It was a disaster, I couldn't get the condom on, and then when I did get it on, I didn't know where to put it! I feel like a total idiot, and she finds the whole thing hilarious, and I don't. What would you do in this situation as it's so embarrassing!

2006-12-15 21:53:42 · 4 answers · asked by g s 1

my boyfriend told me he was staying at his ex wifes house on christmas eve for the kids i flipped my lid and left loads of horrible messages on his phone and when i did find him i ramed his van with my car! now he is scared of me thinks i am mentally disturbed and is thinking of leaving me it was a silly mistake i totally regret what shall i do

2006-12-15 21:52:43 · 24 answers · asked by purdy 1

ok, so i have had signs that my friend likes me even thou she is seeing someone..she says she isnt planning on gettin serious w/ him..how do i figure out she likes me in that way? i dont wanna lose her as a friend so

2006-12-15 21:50:49 · 6 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

ok so i hungout w/ a friend today...she has a man, but we hangout...she said she doesnt intend on gettin serious w/ her guy...today she was w/ me all day...during the day,she asked me if i liked her friend, asked what my type is and what my astrological sign is...she also was bored so she was writing my name in a notebook and was making designs around it and stuff..are these signs of interest or not really?shes been on and off on interest and at this point i dont know what she has up her sleeves..she talks bout her bf or whatever he is every now and then and pointed out there could be no direction in her ordeal w/ him. plz help.

2006-12-15 21:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

My ex keeps on sending me a busive messages and telling me to drop dead why would someone do this?
i dated him for two and a half years he use to hit me when drunk...and metally abuse me and say i was fat. He says he is happy with his current girlfriend but keeps on being so abusive why would aomeone do this can any one explain. last text he sent was that he cheated on me the whole time we were to gether and got a ******** inthe toilet whilt we were at the cinema when dating. why does someone feel the need to be so abusive what motivates such behaviour? Sorry to ask twice but its really upsetting me...i did text him to say i was pregnant and he jus sent abuse back i just wanted to make peace after so much turmoil? Am i in the wrong why is he doing this?

2006-12-15 21:48:59 · 12 answers · asked by eli g 1

suppose,
i m very upset,i hav gt depression due to thinking,i can't sleep at night,havin no friends,tried to find a close friend bt all in vain,jus som relatives,with whom i m nt frank n don wana frank with them,i don wana disturb and hurt any body,but if there is nobaody to share any thing,except my computer and internet........then
wat to do?
plz don giud me for doctor or excersices,i already did it......

2006-12-15 21:48:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-15 21:47:58 · 15 answers · asked by eli g 1

What three or more things would keep you interested and deeply in love with your significant other? Deep thinkers who are capable of being serious please answer....

2006-12-15 21:41:31 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia S 4

2006-12-15 21:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by jenboshelby 1

My boyfreind of only ten months has suggested numerous times that I should move in to his house . I have two kids age 12 and 18 only my youngest remains at home the oldest in college I am not ready for cohabitation and as well for my son I feel that it wouldn,t be wise to move him to strange house new rules ,school friends ect. but my boyfreind doesn,t really see these as reasons not to move in and now he has asked for marrage and I,m not ready at all not because i don,t love him ,I do and maybe a couple years I could see this happining but I have been divorced for ten years and worked hard for my independance and to bring up my two sons so I feel that Im very happy and comfortable with the way things are .I spend alot of my free time with him at his home and he always want me to come there and he doesn,t spend any time at my home he always has some lame excuse . but when I told him i,m not ready he thinks Im just with him till someone better comes around ,any suggestions or advise plz

2006-12-15 21:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by masterdisaster 2

2006-12-15 21:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by simply me 1

My neighbour recently asked me around to fix his computer. While I was there his girlfriend repeatedly made comments to me like 'oh I love you' & 'cant we get mark to live in your house and you move in here'. All the time IM politley not reacting to any of this but my neighbour is hearing it. I know as a couple they are having big problems. As IM leaving she asks me round for dinner the following night & I accept. On the night I find a note pushed through the door saying something has come up and dinner is canceled, signed love Jane.
What am I to make of all this? Is she just flirting with me to upset him? I don't want to get involved just curious what is happening.

2006-12-15 21:25:22 · 15 answers · asked by not_really_a_football_fan 1

ok it went down like this, I live with my girlfriend and my two best friends, one is my best guy friend and the other my best 'friend who is a girl.' We are fairly relaxed around each other and walk around the house naked if we have just had a shower or played strip poker or any other fun and sexy games. A few weeks ago I took a picture of my best mate in the shower and threatened to show people, he shouldnt have been worried, he has nothing to worry about in that department. But I left it on my digital camera and then someone broke into our house while we were out clubbing and stole my camera. The other day my best friend who is a girl, who must have been looking at naughty things on the internet, stumbled across the picture i had taken on a rudey website. She told everyone and they think it is really funny. This isnt really my fault is it, I didnt mean for this to happen. What should I do? He isnt very happy with me, and they wont reply to emails or take it down. What should I do?

2006-12-15 21:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you tell when you have someone wrapped around your finger?


BTW, I like it! I'm just asking if that may be what's happening here and if it has happened in your life...

I don't feel like a servant as some of y'all suggested in an earlier question. I just bet some of the guys can tell me what motivates them to use the wrap/finger technique. Is it "power" over the girl or is it a way to feel closer to her?
Do you use it on friends or just girlfriends?
Which am I if I am in this situation?

2006-12-15 21:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

"People will only treat you as good as you treat yourself."

2006-12-15 21:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Laura 1

Do older women like younger men? What's with in dating range and whats not?
When I was 18I had a sexual relationship with a 34 year old woman, she broke up with me because I told her my real age. I met her at a bar( How I got in- Fake I.D) and we kicked it off ever since. We both shared the same level of intellect, independence and maturity...so then why when she found out I wasn't 22 but 18 she broke it off and told me to never contact her ever? I mean I know a lot of men whom are 30,36,45 years old whom could never call themselves half the man I was at 16, 18, 19 years old.. 18 and 22 are only 4 years apart, whats the big deal? Is maturity soley defined by age?

2006-12-15 21:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by yellowmedia 3

2006-12-15 21:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by sactownguy 1

when he stares he doesnt u to see him and sometimes does some things to impress u wen he sees dat ur looking at him.one time to i was with a pal n he came their 2 speak to ma pal n was just lokin at me.he has a girlfriend on top of it

2006-12-15 21:12:22 · 4 answers · asked by XXxxFaNtAsIcxxXX 1

if a woman knows exactly how she wants to be treated and won't accept anything less than her standard from men she is sometimes considered as being needy .why?

2006-12-15 21:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by marysunshine 2

I'm a married woman, but I'm attracted like hell to a bloke slightly younger than myself.
Every now and then he approaches me in a flirtatious manner and his eyes just fixate onto me everytime our eyes meet, does that mean he's interested in me too?
He is dating someone at the moment, but when we happen to be hanging out in the same places, he turns from his date to speak to me. Why? Why are you guys so complicated? I bet it's all ego!

2006-12-15 21:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2

My Husband of 5 years and I are trying to have a baby,But I can't conceive because i was born a Male had the operation done 4 years before i met him...and i've never told him that i was born a male,should and how do i tell him? he's pressing me to look into artificial insemination....or should i just try and convince him to adopt

2006-12-15 21:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by Nol 1

im known as a man hoe because they think imma screw the next girl i wanna talk to...back then i did bad things but now im a changed man but the think im a man hoe...what can i do to make the realize that i changed?

2006-12-15 21:06:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-15 21:04:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i saw a pic of a girl on my friends myspace and shes BEAUTIFUL as hellllllllllllllllllll....... she set her site to private i only can send her a message but i want it to be a diff sepcial msg than the others im sure she gets a lots of e-mails from boys saying they want her
im sending her an e-mail or a msg(w.e) what should i write in it ?
but i dont wanna sound like a perv or like a desperte person,

2006-12-15 21:04:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-15 21:03:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately i have lost just about all interest in food. I'm not worried about my weight so i'm not deliberately not eating i just don't feel like it. I've lost interest in things i like and i love christmas but i'm just not interested this year. Usually i'm the one to put up the tree and love the shopping but i'm really hating it. What do you think?

2006-12-15 21:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by debra 2

We hooked up oh yeah, and we had some sex, but after she told me, that she was taken, and then I found out, she was with my friend, my best friend that is, what do I do now? Come on now baby, I didn't know didn't know you were his, and its not my fault, that I like hot girls, please dont tell him, he is my best mate, oh what can I do please help me

2006-12-15 20:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is a sales/business development manager.Aged around 30,single and is pretty attractive.I am a 27 Year software developer.Most of my life i have spent around books and technicalities...Until one day i went to breakfast where she also used to come for having break fast.I saw her a couple of times...and i do not know how it happened..but my heart used to beat fast when i see her.In a matter of couple of months she and i both started recongnzing each other...She and i both used to look at each other and smile...by now i really wanted to go and talk to her...but not sure how.Well well...God worked it out for me...my company had arranged an expo event where she had come and voila!!! there i saw her...I found a situation and went and talked to her finally when she was alone.Later we met couple of times at break fast...talked about all kind of things she asked me questions like am i married...Will i marry same girl of my cast what do i/ususally my parents

2006-12-15 20:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anand Kulkarni 1

do i sound dumb to you cuz like all the boys r mean because im not that smart ND I AM BLOND but not all blondes r dumb....do you like dumb blondes?

2006-12-15 20:54:43 · 2 answers · asked by HKlover 2

Does he have me wrapped around his little finger or what?


Or was it a slip of the tongue and it doesn't mean anything?

He told me to bring his stuff to him after work. He has already asked me to say good bye to him every night. And I do. Am I under his spell or what?

And what's his position in all this...just friends or what?

2006-12-15 20:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous