my boyfriend told me he was staying at his ex wifes house on christmas eve for the kids i flipped my lid and left loads of horrible messages on his phone and when i did find him i ramed his van with my car! now he is scared of me thinks i am mentally disturbed and is thinking of leaving me it was a silly mistake i totally regret what shall i do
2006-12-15 21:52:43 · 24 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-15 21:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by jac 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are mentally disturbed. Get some help. Then find out how much the van damage costs and quietly pay it back. Sure he had to spend Christmas at his ex wife's place. It is the mother of his children. If he forgives you for this you are lucky. What if his children were in the van? Are you going to think for one moment he would want to be with someone so dangerous? He has his kids to worry about too. You could have seriously hurt someone or killed them. Would that have made you feel better? I don't think so. You have serious anger issues and you need professional help.
2006-12-15 21:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you can not stay with your boyfriend on Christmas Day. I think you much have been very upset when you heard this. Christmas is a very lonely time if you are on your own and you are bound to be jealous as well of his ex. And you lost control. But can you see his point of view? He has to be a responsible parent and be with his kids. But you need to own your feelings and not take them out on other people. If this is something you do a lot yes, go to your doctor and ask for anger management. If it was a one off, just learn from it and move on.
2006-12-15 22:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was illegal. I hope you get caught and then get some help - psychiatric or counselling for jealousy. Of course he should stay some time with his Kids. It is Christmas time for goodness sake. Get a life and act like an adult.
Write him a letter. And then get your own life in order. Volunteer at a soup kitchen or something. Then you will know what suffering is like.
2006-12-15 22:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by zakiit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your actions were totally out of of order, but!!! he caused them, he doesn't need to stay at his ex's house Christmas eve, he could go first thing Christmas morning. I think he is out of order too putting you through that?? xx
2006-12-15 22:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by RUTH M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical Woman driver lol :) (Joke)
You sound like a lovely woman - Just with an anger managment issue
Make sure you keep away from the kitchen knives lol
2006-12-15 22:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn right it was irresponsible of you to act like you did.Have you tried the little word SORRY & really mean it,obviously you love him your actions speak louder than words but maybe for the future you should think of all reasons before jumping to a wrong conclusion.
2006-12-15 22:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow
See a Mental Help Professional. You need help.
2006-12-15 22:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just mad - it's alright for him to stay at ex's Christmas eve though - dont think it's you who's disturbed though - he just wants his cake and eat it
2006-12-15 22:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Me xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has made a very accurate assessment of you, you're a complete fu*cking nutter. He's better off without a loony old tart like you.
2006-12-15 22:42:43 · answer #11 · answered by Phish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋