What three or more things would keep you interested and deeply in love with your significant other? Deep thinkers who are capable of being serious please answer....
2006-12-15 21:41:31 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Intelligent conversation would have to be a winner, If i cant talk seriously to my partner without having to shove a dictionary in her face to translate what I am saying then I can't be bothered to talk at all.
Spontanious actions, By this i mean not being boring. There is always a danger that after a while things go stagnant and you fall into a routine, both parties have to work hard at this to ensure this doesnt happen.
Affection and a show of feelings, they must not be afraid to show and say how they feel, now i dont mean over the top lovey dovey stuff, but just enough to let you know that its still there...
Good sense of humour is an absolute must, i dont mean laugh at all my jokes, but be able to crack a gag and take a joke....
Finally, the last thing i can think of is a good sexual relationship. If all of the above are all good, but its not happening when the sun goes down then things will go stale. Spice is the variety of life, again, the spontinuity comes into play here, be varied and above all have fun!!!!
2006-12-15 21:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can tell you only two things that will help you keep any man in any relationship. Are you ready? This is the absolute truth about men.
1. Sex
2. Food
If you give a man good sex, and you give a man good food, he will be yours forever. I am not kidding. I don't know why women make this issue so complicated. Men are simple. Women are complicated and dumb. Men just want food and sex. Women think that we need this and that and "deep thinkers" to solve this question. What a frikking joke! There is nothing "deep" about this.
If you are a woman who is consistently satisfying her man sexually and feeding him good meals every day, your man will be the most grateful man on the face of this earth. It's always been that way, and it always will be that way in the future. Remember, it's sex and food. Sex and food. Got it? No? Still can't get that through your head? It's SEX and FOOD.
2006-12-16 05:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) A multi faceted personality with more than one element that interests me, this should also allow for conversations beyond what is on TV. in the evening and what to buy from the supermarket next.
2) An ability to engage and share ones own interests, whilst understanding and participating in my own - this help forge bonds, especially in things that involve team work. This should be within the bedroom as much as it is outside.
3) The ability to respect and understand my actions, and the trust (both ways) that there will be no intentional effort made to hurt the other party. I need to know that if no one else has my back at least I can turn to my girl and she can do the same - any time of the night or day.
2006-12-16 05:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Humor, we all like the person who smiles and makes us smile. It works both ways, men like women who laugh and vise versa, No body likes the guy (or girl) who tell everyone to **** off. Smile!
2) Feminine clothing and attitude, don’t have the suit with the built in shoulders. Where "girl cloths" (I am not saying t-shirts or jeans are forbidden, Im saying don’t look like a she-male) If you come out as to masculine or aggressive we think you may kill us in our sleep, and you are arrogant. So put on makeup once in a while and add that skirt.
3) Be sure you and your lover UNDERSTAND each other. Do you want kids? Will you spank them? A pet? And to avoid the common communication Mistakes that pull marriages apart. What "communication mistakes"? Men and Women think differently... if you want to see a movie with a girlfriend, you say "Would you like to see a movie?" she understands and says yes, knowing you mean "I would like to see one, please come with me" Men, however, take "Would you like to see a movie" as "Would you like to see a movie". Most, (not me, I get it) think because you are asking him, it is up to him ONLY. And may say no. Read the books by Allen and Barbra. They have great things on how to avoid it all.
4) Sex, you knew it was comming, and its true, men love it.
5) Do not stop grooming yourself after marrage, yes, you belive that your married and he will not care, he does. If you stop he thinks you just dont care any more.
Did I not give exactly what you wanted? Email me at nmmgb1993@yahoo.com, I think of myself as a male-female guru.... So if you wanted some other response, LET ME KNOW!
2006-12-16 06:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by nmmgb1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) She keep her looks by looking after herself. Nothing worse than a wife becoming sloppy and fat after getting married because she feel secure in the knowledge that she is married.
2) That our sex life remains as good as it was when we first met.
3) That she continue to act in love like she did when we got married. Being in love is one thing. But if you don't show it...it does not mean much...as some people are in love for all the wrong reasons...like financial security.
2006-12-16 05:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lots of sex,honesty,friendship
2006-12-16 09:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nevada S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty of face slim and smart well dressed and caring the guy and give him the importance that he is the only care able for you and during sex be flexible and the demands . and main thing is to be sincere and commited.
2006-12-16 05:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by creed 1 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Share his interests, do new things, plan future trips together, maybe try new restaurants
2006-12-16 05:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by nbr660 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when she is still happy just holding hands, when just seeing her makes me smile, and the same for her. know when one gos to things not because we want to go to it, but going just so her? well still being like that, still flirting with each other. still going to see the movies, just being happy to see eatch other really.
2006-12-16 05:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by fallen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
credit card
assets
over seas holidays
2006-12-16 05:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋