Singles & Dating - 14 December 2006

2006-12-14 05:46:31 · 24 answers · asked by David L 1

why cant i get a decent man to like me. all my friends are in love and have been engaged for a while or have a bf and kids and all that. i am tired of always being the third wheel and feeling left out because i dont have a bf. i want to be happy and feel good about myself but every time we go out i m left alone bec they wanna go off and do something. i want to be in love and get married and have kids. i am only 19 but when is it my turn . i feel pressure everyday to look like these models on tv. bec i dont i feel fat and ugly and they tell me that everyday. when is it my turn and when is it okay to tell my friends i am feed up. i dont want them to get mad. help someone

2006-12-14 05:45:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need help a dance is coming up and i need a boyfriend

2006-12-14 05:44:00 · 12 answers · asked by alexis p 1

I've been with my boyfriend for four years and he moved away for a year and just recently moved back to be with me. He's recently proposed to me and of course I said "YES"! For a while I've been curious about the other sex. He knows that I like females but I told him that I've left girls alone. But to make a long story short- I LOVE HIM but I have sexual feelings for the other sex. I just met a girl at my high school and I've been talking to her for a few days now. I'm really feeling her. I know that I should tell my boyfriend but I also know that Its going to break his heart in two! My boyfriend and I also have a son together. I've never meant to hurt him its just something that's happened. I don't plan on being with a female for the rest of my life I'm just curious! I want to be with my fiance but I don't know wat to do about this situation. Is this just a phase that I'm going through?

2006-12-14 05:43:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay guys...I need some advice.
My boyfriend and I broke up because he has been super stressed out lately. We had been together almost a year. He is failing his classes and had finals this week, plus this is the second time he has taken all of these classes and failed them. We got into an argument and have been broken up for two weeks. His last final is today. I am just wondering what is the best way to get him to thinking and regretting his decision to break-up...In other words what's the best way to "get to him"? Should I just act like I"m not affected by it, not call him/text him, etc...or should I let him know how upset and I am and act depressed when I see him?? The thing is that his best friend told me a few days ago that about a month ago my ex had told him that he thought I was "the one" and that he couldn't wait to finish school so we could get married. By the way, we go to church together and have most of the same friends, so I have to see him at least once a week.

2006-12-14 05:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by missinghim 1

2006-12-14 05:38:54 · 16 answers · asked by babiigurlluvnalex 1

why or why not?

2006-12-14 05:37:50 · 26 answers · asked by bubbles_n_ar 2

looking at me while I was on the train and than when I caught her she turned away quickly and had a smile on her face and than I caught her again and she did the same thing should I have got up and gone and sat next to her and started chatting

2006-12-14 05:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do,,,, she left me for no reason

2006-12-14 05:37:10 · 13 answers · asked by stanley 1

cell phone and he has been coming up to her work. i felt something was up and we got into an argument and i kicked her out. That was when she started sleeping w/him. She broke it off w/him and a few days later he went back to jail...his second home... The guy she screwed is a loser kid ..like 21 or something..We are both in our late 20's. She begged me to take her back. Which i reluctently did. i still love her very much...and was going good unitl i found out she is writing him from work and having somebody mail it to the jail where he is at. He has wrote her back too. I told her whatever happens, he is not gonna be able to talk when he gets out, much less write!!!! I feel as if i've been betrayed not once but twice!!! she promised it wouldn't happen again. I want to believe her but......I never gave her a reason to cheat in the first place. She had nothing when i me her. I've given her everything i can. I told her i'm not stupid. I'm not putting up w/b s!! what should i do?

2006-12-14 05:37:03 · 45 answers · asked by brien w 1

that you have a crush on them. I ride what they call a dollar van alomost everyday and their is one van driver that i think is hot. I think he wants to say something to me because he ALWAYS stares at me ( i noticed he doesn't do the same to the other passengers).

How do i tell them i think he is cute, without being too pushy

2006-12-14 05:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by queenzhottie78 2

2006-12-14 05:35:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex broke up w/ me 2 months ago. Though I suspect he may still have feelings.

When we were together we shared e-mail addresses and passwords to eachothers accounts.

I checked his e-mail the other day and he is still saving all the old e-mails that I wrote him saying how much I loved him etc.

This is a current account that I know he uses all the time.

Why would he be keeping these? Would he have deleted them if he was over me?

2006-12-14 05:35:23 · 7 answers · asked by jane d 1

2006-12-14 05:34:48 · 22 answers · asked by natalie 1

2006-12-14 05:33:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a new girlfriend who is 200 pounds and they tell me i could do better! Are they right? Iam 5'5 160lbs and she is 4'11 200lbs. what do you think?

2006-12-14 05:31:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tonight my daughters pre-school is having their Christmas party for the kids and parents. Would this be a good time to try and hit on some of the young hot single moms that have their kids go there too?

I am a 26 year old single dad, so I would not be cheating if you were thinking that. But I have seen some of the moms that drop their kids off, and some of them are really cute!

What do you all think?

Ok, by "hit on them" I do not mean walking up and saying "If I could change the alphabet I would put U and I together"!

I do mean startigng up a conversation and seeing if they would like to get coffee or something. This question was really more of would this be a good time and place type thing.

And I will NOT be ignoring my daughter for this, she is my little 3 foot nothing world! She will always be the #1 girl in my life, but after being a single dad for about a year now I feel that at least a date wouldn't hurt.

2006-12-14 05:30:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Somewhere romantic, warm, or to party

2006-12-14 05:30:32 · 1 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2

2006-12-14 05:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by anjel m 2

OK so I go to college full time and work part time. My job consists of working with about 40, 1-4 year olds, and by the end of my shift, I am quite tired. I have 3 days of classes (MWF from about 8 am to 430pm with all my classes back to back), and on T/R I work (have to be at work by 730am). Well, he had the nerve to tell me that i was "recluse" because i "stay at home all day and watch tv". I dont know why he thinks I do nothing all day, just because I dont have a full time job. He tells me I should be able to go to school, work, and have time to go out with friends. I do go out with my friends, but not all of the time because i am very tired when I get home and I have to be up early most of the time. Besides that, I have never been a partier, and probably never will be, but he is trying to make me into that.

How do I get him to understand I am very busy and I do not want to go out? He just doesnt get it! What do I say to him? ...im tired of our fights over this topic

2006-12-14 05:28:36 · 1 answers · asked by swtgrlm 1

2006-12-14 05:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Charissa M 1

Thats not my only problem,i've recently came to the realisation i'm bisexual,since i fell for a close frend of mine,i dnt feel lyk i can tell him this either as when i asked his advice sayin it woz for a guy frend of mine to see his reaction,it weren't good at all,but i dnt feel comfortable lying to him.
Should i still go for him or should i give up now?
and should i wait for him to dump his gal or should what should i say to him bout it???
HELP ME!!!

2006-12-14 05:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by SecondhandTink. 2

2006-12-14 05:26:37 · 9 answers · asked by spunky.ragz 1

Come on spill the beans!


I have a few I could tell you...


My freshman year of high school, I was dating this boy. One day we had a fire drill outside. After the drill when all the students walk back into the building. I waited for him to walk by. When I saw him walking up, I walked towards him, and all of a sudden, I feel, like right in front of him. I missed him about an inch, lol! And yes, he laughed, and I was mad! To make it worse, geese poop all over the field, and it was all over my coat, and in my hair!


Here's another...

There was this dance back in 8th grade. This boy I liked, grabbed a microphone and anounced he was going to dance with a girl he had a crush on. He said "Latoya Brown!" which is my name, but when I went up there, he looked at me like "what the hell?" There was another girl named Latoya Brown, and she was the one he was talking about. I ran out of there so fast, EMBARRASSED!



Any Embarrassing moments you want to share?

2006-12-14 05:26:26 · 2 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5

for christmas, I like him, and want to express that but I am not sure how much I like him and I don't want to give him the wrong impression only to end up not being that into him, but then again, I do like him so I don't want him to think that I am not into him,,, I can't remember but was dating this hard when I was in my twenties

2006-12-14 05:25:46 · 9 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3

i am sorry for asking such a stupid question but itsjust tha i just turned 18 i am in the navy . when i talk to girls and i tell them they do a wierd look i dont know if they are impreassed or they think im supid for that or they dont bealive me WHAT CAN IT BE?
so if you dont mind tellin me please what do you think of this situation

2006-12-14 05:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 05:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by Confuse_Guy 1

I am a single, twenty-something female, and my coworker is a single, twenty-something guy. We don't work together directly, but he is always, always stopping at my cubicle to talk and laugh. At first I didn't think much of it, but lately, I have been daydreaming about kissing him. He doesn't want a relationship with anyone, and neither do I. I just htink it would be awesome to make-up with him (obviously NOT at work!). We have our company's holiday party coming up - can I make a move? We have been talking a lot at work for the past 6 months or so. When we talk, he looks at me directly. He does talk a lot about girls he has fooled around with, though. I can't tell if that is a good sign, or a bad sign. He often asks for advice. Damn, I would love to make out with him. Should I risk looking like a complete fool and messing up our fun talk at work by leaning over and kissing him? What do I have to lose? Well, I would miss hanging out with him at work. But maybe he would kiss back... Help!

2006-12-14 05:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by A.G. 1

seriously i am getting to friggen annoyed with girls at my school they are rediculously annoying and ***** about every little single thing if some ones says something and someone else hears about it it becomes a she said this and she said that and its so annoying and then everone gets mad about everything

2006-12-14 05:19:44 · 4 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2

it seems like other races of men don't like black women. I'm mixed and my dad was black. He said he never loved black women and now I'm starting to see it everywhere. What' wrong with this? I know race shouldn't matter. But that's not how men see it.

2006-12-14 05:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by tepiatee 1