I've been with my boyfriend for four years and he moved away for a year and just recently moved back to be with me. He's recently proposed to me and of course I said "YES"! For a while I've been curious about the other sex. He knows that I like females but I told him that I've left girls alone. But to make a long story short- I LOVE HIM but I have sexual feelings for the other sex. I just met a girl at my high school and I've been talking to her for a few days now. I'm really feeling her. I know that I should tell my boyfriend but I also know that Its going to break his heart in two! My boyfriend and I also have a son together. I've never meant to hurt him its just something that's happened. I don't plan on being with a female for the rest of my life I'm just curious! I want to be with my fiance but I don't know wat to do about this situation. Is this just a phase that I'm going through?
2006-12-14 05:43:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're still in high school you're way too young to get married, and if you're having feelings for someone else you're not ready to commit.
you shouldn't settle down until you are ready... you're young and you still need to grow on your own before making a commitment like that.
2006-12-14 05:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by maccagirl64 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is probably not as big of an issue as you are making it seem. Most guys don't mind female's who are curious about other females, especially if they can participate. My advice is to talk with him about your sexual fantasy of being with a woman. You may find this to be a catalyst for being closer to him. However, if you want to persue a relationship that is separate from your fiance/boyfriend that is another story. He may feel a bit jealous about that . If he realy loves you, he will understand, and let you play out your curiousity while you have it.
2006-12-14 05:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you 80% of girls are "curious" about girls. Listen its ok to feel this way but to be honest I think you should just go and sleep with a girl to get it over with and then you wont be curious any more. Thats all it is, is just you wanting to do that whether you know it. But if you already have done it with girls before then maybe you are just on the other side of the fence then. I mean your always goign to love him you and him have a child, so If you prefer girls over guys then I think you should just tell him. He will be hurt but he will understand, its not like your leaving him for a nother guy!
2006-12-14 06:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him aobut. Most real men can handle it. My wife was curious for a while and I let her pursue it on her own. She found out that shejust cuoldn't do it with another woman. And also don't let him join in (right away) This your journey to satisfy the curiousity not his chance to live a fantasy.
2006-12-14 05:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if u really love your FIANCE i think that u should just stop the urges for being wit girls and i think that u should tell him and stop talking to the girls because ur just getting confussed and trust me i dont think that u would want to lose ur babys dad and the love of ur life over a stupid phase!
2006-12-14 05:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.garcia16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth,who knows he may go along with the idea. You really need to experience eating pu$$y,you'll see how great it is. Get it out of your system,I want to experience men and I'm a 37/m.
2006-12-14 05:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a big step! the qestion is is he okay with bi pepole does he have any bi friends that you dont know about but he does. just say " what if i were bi would you still dateme marryme" IF HE SAYS WHY? THEN MAKE UP A STORY AND SAY THIS GRIL AT THE JOB TOLD ME SHE WAS BI. GOOD CHANCE HE would probaly give you a ansewr or some advince to give your made up friend >
2006-12-14 05:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by applepeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a phase, really. You said you're curious, right? How does he feels about you with other women?
2006-12-14 05:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stick with your fiance, forget about girls...and now that you have a son you should be happy not curious! have fun and remain with your fiance and son...get married and move n with your life
2006-12-14 05:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I fail to believe that you can't control your sexuality. You should stay strickly dickly, like all the other straight girls. You have a hole, we have a stick...
2006-12-14 05:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋