why are girls so petty & annoying ?

Question

seriously i am getting to friggen annoyed with girls at my school they are rediculously annoying and ***** about every little single thing if some ones says something and someone else hears about it it becomes a she said this and she said that and its so annoying and then everone gets mad about everything

Answer 1

They are petty and annoying because you don't value or understand them. If you valued them, then you would be interested in their interests. If you understood them, then you would listen to and empathize with them.

Most of what you describe are immaturity and insecurity issues, which are both easily resolved with responsibility inherent in freedom, and confidence derived from inspiration.

Answer 2

You are so not alone in feeling this way! Trust me, it gets better, but girls will always be that way to some extent, as much as it sucks. I'm not sure how old you are now, but I know junior high and high school were the times when it was the worst for me.

My clique used to make us not wear the same hairstyle two days in a row, they'd go after a guy that another girl in our group already expressed interest in, crap like that.

BUT hang in there, b/c eventually they grow up a little bit and you'll become more of your own person, and you'll learn how to live with the evilness of women and not care about the tricks they pull! Trust me, I'm glad I still have the girl friends I do (some sort of female interaction is always good), even though to this day most of my closer friends are all guys.

Answer 3

That depends on if you're still in high school or below. I think those girls just haven't grown up yet. Now some never grow out of gossiping and fussing over everything, but a lot do. It's pretty bad in high school but since I graduated all that has calmed down and most of the girls are know aren't like that anymore.

Answer 4

Ignore them then!
That's the first thing you should do.