Singles & Dating - 3 December 2006

im trying to figure out this girl...but everytime i talk to her straight forward..she always hesitates and often uses "i dont know" to aviod the conversation...

2006-12-03 10:39:33 · 15 answers · asked by oOoViTrExoOo 2

i kind of know him, he kinda knows me... i mean, we call each other by name, and we tease each other, and we sit together in class sometimes too, but he has this group of friends that he's always with. and that group of friends? there's like 5 girls in there, and he's always really friendly with them, and even after he talks to me and teases me and stuff, i see him talking to them all friendly (he's known them since second grade, after all) and i always think... 'oh i'm never gonna get as close to him as they are', and it's just really depressing.
how do you think i can get close to my crush?
i'm not the kind of person that gets all nice and flirty and stuff when i like someone, so it'll seem kinda weird if i suddenly get all sappy on him.... i think maybe i wanna get really close to him, as a friend, before i go anywhere else...
so how can i be a better friend with my crush?

2006-12-03 10:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy and i like him and he likes me back. i am gunna see him next weekend and now whenever i see him i get like really nervous and it is hard to talk and i shake!! i know ir sounds retarded but i try so hard not to and i cant quit. and he told his friend the next time that he sees me that he is gunna ask me out !! i am really excited but when i say yes i dont wanna be to desprate and i dont wanna be like ooo i got to think about it cause than he might think i dont like him . so i have 2 questions how can i get rid of my nerves and wat do i say when he asks me out ?? PLEASE HELP !!!

2006-12-03 10:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been out a few times with this guy, and he hasn't made the first move. I think it's because he's gentlemanly (if thats a word) Have you ever been afraid to make the first move because you didn't find an appropriate time.... what are reasons for waiting?

2006-12-03 10:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find myself wanting to be alone more often. For some reason I just don't want to be around people. Does anybody else feel this way?

2006-12-03 10:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Richard H 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating a year, and the more time goes on the more frustrated I become with our one complete disconnect. It's like we speak two completely different languages--I'm tactile, he's verbal. He'll compliment me profusely on my beauty and other aspects, but I don't believe them if actions do not follow--it is not uncommon for us to go a month without even kissing each other. Conversely, he's confused why I am so physical--and often makes teases me because of it. I do feel shallow for being so frustrated, but it's becoming undeniable that chemistry is very important to me. We've never even had a fight, which I would love just as a revelation of passion!

Is it worth it to even try to work on it--or should it chemistry just naturally be present? Can chemistry be created?

2006-12-03 10:34:24 · 1 answers · asked by Issy 1

Im 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16...what should i get him for christmas?

2006-12-03 10:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley010 5

I cant stop thinking of this guy when he isnt near me but when he is near me i really dont care if he is there

2006-12-03 10:33:36 · 7 answers · asked by Ria V 1

I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year online. He has been in Iraq. He has called me from time to time during this year. Some of the conversations have been racey. He told me last week he was coming back soon and would like to meet. He called me this past friday when he was enroute to home and told me he wanted me to be one of the first phone calls he makes on American soil. I am wondering if he is just horny or looking for more?

2006-12-03 10:33:06 · 5 answers · asked by txnative1106 1

2006-12-03 10:32:34 · 19 answers · asked by carol s 1

I know this girl who is younger than me. im 17 turning 18 in may, and she is turning 14 in one week. all my friends say that i shouldnt be interested in her, but i am. nothing sexual, i just love to be around this girl. any feedback is appreciated.

2006-12-03 10:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated 2 years. He broke up with me 5 days after my birthday and 6 days before our 2 year anniversary. 1 year and 3 months into our relationship he broke up with me cause he liked another girl, Darlene. Break up lasted half a day cause I cried and convinced him why we belong together. 6 months later he breaks up with me, cause he liked Darlene again, break-up lasted 1 week, and he wanted me back. I took him back, stupid me.

2 months after that, he leaves me for a new girl, Farah. And now its been 2 months, and I havent seen him or talked to him.

I feel like a complete idiot, who is so insecure. I still love him and want me back, and he was just using me.

I know I'll find someone else who will love me, but, I dont get why I am so upset and sad over him? I truly feel like he is making a big mistake and he is the love of my life. Or am I just delerious?

2006-12-03 10:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2

I normaly only go out with 9th graders-10th graders, but I changed that bcuz I realy liked this 8th grade boy and he realy likes me butwhen we talk on the phone he never talks to me I always have to do all the talkin.It's like Im talking to myself sometimes.If that is the case I could call my friends and talk, I mean Im in 8th grade and is extremely mature I need some one on my level?What should I do should I try the change or break it off and stick to 9th and 10th graders?

2006-12-03 10:27:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 10:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by ponyexpress304 1

my boyfriend, who i love deeply and live a very involved life has recently been very hard to deal with.

To explain. I found out I was pregnant and we deciding an abortion was the right thing to do because of are careers. This was even after he was very against ever ending a life like that, because he recently lost his sister. I felt loved to know he would change his views because he cared about me. Well instead of being their through the process he was out every night at bars, lying advoiding hanging out with me, hanging out with girls behind my back, and than i became a *****, i was hormonal and felt cheated and alone, had no family or friends only he knew i was pregnant. Now that I had the abortion and have forgiven him, he has now continued to yell and pick fights with me ever day. he says i became such a ***** than, yells at me for getting the wrong thing at the store and accuses me cheating, most of all tells me i need to learn to just shut up every time i try to talk to him.

2006-12-03 10:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by bqbalchick 2

2006-12-03 10:24:05 · 9 answers · asked by that kid 2

I really like this girl....
we are seniors in high school... i see her in school and we know each other... she wave at me when she see me...
I have been liking her for over a year now...just never had the courage to act until now
Well she does seem to pay more attention to me now than before....

If she is sad.. i always try to comfort her.. trying to made her laugh.. Especially when she wanted to cry... if she seems bored i try to talk to her
I want to protect her.
I give her gifts
I just asked her out for movie next weekend with friends... how can i use this chance??

Does she not see i like her?
or does she see it but just ignoring me since she doesnt like me?
Or am i missing her hints?
Right now... the only thing i can think of left to do is say that "i love you"
I want her... each day is getting more and more painful. Now whenever i think of her, my whole body feels sore and suffocating

I really want her to be my prom partner in June.

2006-12-03 10:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am playing cool and not txting/calling my new bf. I been with him over two months. This week he has been busy with work and the only day i saw him was Monday. He promised to txt/ring and he hasnt. When i see him at work tomorrow should i play it cool and tell him i cant see him for a few days?(i cant anyway because i'm moving house)or do you think he will think i'm doing it on purpose because i hardly seen him?

2006-12-03 10:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

dating for 5ish months, xmas is comin up, girls what would you want from your bf? guys what would you get your girl?

2006-12-03 10:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by crosscheck 2

please tell me if u like this poem! thanks for taking your time out of your day to read this!


Love is such a rare thing
It should be put to use
Love should never be taken for granted
It should never be abused

Love is a quality
We must cultivate
Some people choose not to
Instead they hate

Love brings you closer together
Love brings you joy
Love brings you many things, O boy!

Yes, love is such a rare thing
It should be put to use
Love should never be taken for granted
It should never be abused


I hope u enjoyed my poem....if you would like to talk, i am on my yahoo messenger...i am really bored and have nothing else to do!

2006-12-03 10:19:41 · 14 answers · asked by hot_mama 3

I think I would. If my sister brought home a short guy (5'1" - 5'5") I would probably try to break them up - of course I'd make fun of the guy first.

Ladies, are you (in particular) overprotective of your sisters and would not want to see them dating a short guy? Explain.

Guys, wouldn't you do the same? - break up your sister with a short guy?

Wouldn't it be OK to break them up?

2006-12-03 10:19:02 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you tell your best friend not to like flirt with your b/f and not sound jeuols or make her think you want her to stay away from him totaly.

2006-12-03 10:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by 1sexybitch 1

My girlfriend is asleep. Do you think she would like it if i woke her up by going down on her??

2006-12-03 10:17:49 · 8 answers · asked by jcmfccgolfer3 1

alllright so I have a question and i would love and answer...me and my boyfriend both love to have sex.but the past weeek it's been ridiculous.Because we start getting horny and stuff and then he wants me and i want him but his friend just won't wake up at all...I thought it was just because we've had too much sex but it's been wayyyy to long now since we had sex.....does anyone know what it is?

2006-12-03 10:17:42 · 8 answers · asked by Uknwn 1

There is this boy i am sort of going out with and we have a long distance relationship. And there is this other guy that I like at my school and he likes me. I have no clue if I should stop going out with this guy i am sort of going out or go out with guy i like.

2006-12-03 10:17:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this guy but he likes this other girl rand i liked him first he sits next to me and not her but he still likes her!! and i give him the answers to math and stuff like that!! and he still likes her! what do i do??? help!

2006-12-03 10:16:28 · 10 answers · asked by Khrissa 1

I'm in love with this girl, I thought she liked me cause we used to hold hands and cuddle but now she hasn't held my hand anymore, I asked her to be my girl friend but she told me i would find out on her b-day which is on december 30th but i'm begining to think my answer will be a no, i want it to be a yes i pray for it and wish i could be her man. idk what to do anymore i need advice. please help

2006-12-03 10:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by sarge7826 2

Wanted to know esp what Hindi people thought - I like this girl a lot, but I'm worried some things I'll never understand about her culture/ the language problem, and things I can't even imagine yet!

A white guy with a Hindi girl isn't really something you see every day... so I wanted to know what others thought.

2006-12-03 10:15:11 · 20 answers · asked by needsadviceonlove 1

Also how can you tell if he emails other females?

2006-12-03 10:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by marisia 3

Is it right for a girl in 12th grade to date a guy in 9th? I know people do it anyways, but tell me if you would or not and explain why. Thanks.

2006-12-03 10:12:29 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 3