I've been out a few times with this guy, and he hasn't made the first move. I think it's because he's gentlemanly (if thats a word) Have you ever been afraid to make the first move because you didn't find an appropriate time.... what are reasons for waiting?
2006-12-03 10:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your beauty is probably intimidating him. You make the first move sweety.
2006-12-03 10:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even a Gentleman makes a first move. Hell someone has. If you feel that things could devlop between you two then why not take a chance and kiss him. So what, he is scared. If you want it then go for it when it feels right. Now as for the appropiate time, where are you guys going on dates to not have a moment to kiss. This makes me wonder how old you are. But neverless there is always the car or in the movies (my bf and I's first kiss on in the movies..lol ) there's always a moment. You just have to make one and take the chance.
2006-12-03 18:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what... My husband was the same way. And I was raised old fashioned as to where the guy always makes the first move. So I hinted. It was our 3rd date and he had left to go home and all I got was a hug!!!! So later that night I sent him a text message telling him goodnight and how much fun I had and told him how i really wanted to kiss him but didnt want to rush him. I thought maybe he just needed me to let him know that I was ok with it. So the next date I got my kiss and it was amazing. I literally got weak in the knees! I hope I helped and good luck!
2006-12-03 18:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by charmon5206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had trouble making the first move. In fact with the girl im dating now. I really liked her when after a couple weeks and i just couldnt make the move. I was scared and i didn't want her to feel uncomfortable. It finally happen a month later..Plus her friends bad mouthed me..but i think he just really likes you and wants you to feel comfortable and make sure it's the right time..He's probly scared which isn't a bad thing..=)
2006-12-03 18:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by xonexnxonlyandyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be afraid that you'll get mad if he makes a move on you. The next time you're together let him know it's OK for him to do whatever he wants.
2006-12-03 18:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you know or want him to make the first move...instead of waiting for him to act why dont you take it up one step further
2006-12-03 18:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES U HAVE 2 BE THE AGGRESSIVE ONE, IT WILL NOT HURT U TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
2006-12-03 18:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know i ever made the first move
maybe he's scared
2006-12-03 18:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by lilmama2346 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's scared. 89% of boys want YOU to make the first move.
2006-12-03 18:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by fachizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be shy, or you are not picking up his signals.
2006-12-03 18:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋