there is this guy and i like him and he likes me back. i am gunna see him next weekend and now whenever i see him i get like really nervous and it is hard to talk and i shake!! i know ir sounds retarded but i try so hard not to and i cant quit. and he told his friend the next time that he sees me that he is gunna ask me out !! i am really excited but when i say yes i dont wanna be to desprate and i dont wanna be like ooo i got to think about it cause than he might think i dont like him . so i have 2 questions how can i get rid of my nerves and wat do i say when he asks me out ?? PLEASE HELP !!!
2006-12-03 10:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel your pain! I used to get incredibly nervous: sweating palms, trembling lips, the works. But why are you so nervous? He might ask you out! This is something to be really excited about, and let it feed your courage. Don't worry about how appearing desperate, etc. , he obviously must have seen a great side of you already. Tell him how you feel when he asks--that you're excited to go out with him!
2006-12-03 11:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Issy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, to get rid of your nerves, you're just going to have to take a deep breath, and calm down!! There's absolutely no reason to get yourself so worked up! Just relax! I know it sounds silly and easier said than done, but talking about how nervous you are will make things worse, actually. Keep telling yourself you're NOT nervous, anxious, and that you ARE cool, calm and collected. Now, when (and IF) he does ask you out, just say something like "Sure, I'd really like to!" If you continue to get freeked out, though, he may change his mind! Just chill! Good luck!
2006-12-03 18:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your nerves might get the best of you. Sorry. But to not sound desperate or make him think that you don't like him, just when he ask, give him a smile and say a simple Yeah! Don't worry. You will be fine!
2006-12-03 18:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by MANDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you nervous? you should not be cuz he likes you just as much as you like him, and when he asks dont jump up and hell YES!!! just pause a second and smile (if you have enough guts look straight into his eyes and kiss him) and say of course than give him a big hug, cuz as much as guys appear all tough they really are not they want you to make the first move and they do actually like it when you say how much you like them(mind you not all the time that can get over whelming)
2006-12-03 18:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by jer325 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember those days. Your palms sweat, you don't know what to say and then when you do, it's something stupid. We all go thru it. It will pass. When he asks you out, just smile and say "I'd love to". Don't tell him you are nervous, I bet he won't even notice. You know you are nervous, but its hard for others to see it if you don't say anything. Don't play games, it shows your immaturity. He asked you out, that means he likes you, let nature take its course. You'll do fine. (When you've been dating awhile, you can tell him how nervous you were, he'll think that is sweet. )
2006-12-03 18:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start practicing....maybe in front of a mirror or a friend till you get comfortable.......if he asks you out and you want to go then just let him make the date and say that that sounds like a good time... dont act all goofy or he might change his mind..just be yourself. if you want let him call you on the phone....there is nothing to be nervous about.
2006-12-03 18:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the nerves it's all in your head. I can't help that. If he ask you out take a deep breath and say yeah that sounds fun. Don't forget to breathe. good luck
2006-12-03 18:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you have no idea whats gonna happen. (ha, wear something pretty so he REALLY REALLY wants to see you!!!) just act totally clueless. treating him as if you didnt like him that way, just as a friend, would help you nerves too. when he asks you, asks suprised, but not too suprised. then smile real cute like and say yes!!!
2006-12-03 18:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure about the nerves thing, but you could say "I would love to" or just simply hug him.....I suggest the latter, it will make him feel like you really like him.
2006-12-03 18:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calmly say "yeah, sure" with a smile. DONT HAVE CAFEENE. try to be calm and not so awake. but be awake enough to be able to listen to him.
2006-12-03 18:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋