I am playing cool and not txting/calling my new bf. I been with him over two months. This week he has been busy with work and the only day i saw him was Monday. He promised to txt/ring and he hasnt. When i see him at work tomorrow should i play it cool and tell him i cant see him for a few days?(i cant anyway because i'm moving house)or do you think he will think i'm doing it on purpose because i hardly seen him?
2006-12-03 10:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While sometimes its better not to play games and get straight to the point, every relationship is different and a girl has to have some sort of strategy, right!? Playing it cool is fun, but sometimes you end up being more frustrated in the end, especially if they dont take the bait. Since you will be busy anyway, its not a big deal! So if I were you I would hint that I would be busy, or just casually mention it. The other option would be to be upfront with him and let him know that you are a bit peeved. Some guys are really dense when it comes to playing games, so know who you are dealing with and choose the more effective strategy!! Good Luck!
2006-12-03 10:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with him over two months and are wondering about who should do the chasing then you need to grow up. I hate to be mean, but you are being childish and immature. You need to stop playing games. I do not know the reason why he has not called/txt you, but it could be for a number of reason. With reason number one, he has been busy. It is Christmas season and a lot of us have higher priorities than txt messaging. Please, grow up and stop playing games.
2006-12-03 18:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him chase u cause I no my old bf I didn't call him cause he kept saying he was busy so i stop callin him forlike a week and he actually came out lookin for me on halloween in his car with his friends and he found me and ask me y I wasn't callin him play it cool let him chase u to c if he's really worth ur time. good luck !!
2006-12-03 18:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~$Da princess$~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can send him a text just sayin that you miss him. Leave it at that. If your seeing him at work and he doesnt say nothing, then theres a good reason for doing so. Dont chase him. Let him do that.
2006-12-03 18:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always good to let him do the chasing. but 89% of guys want you to make the move. if you don't spend much time with him, you are the one who will end up getting hurt.
Good luck!
God bless you
2006-12-03 18:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by fachizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say not to play games. so he has a busy schedule, see him when you can, and dont play hard to get. it is easy to fall for someone else when your bf/gf doesnt even want you (or seems like it)
2006-12-03 18:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if he is true he will call!
2006-12-03 18:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋