There is this boy i am sort of going out with and we have a long distance relationship. And there is this other guy that I like at my school and he likes me. I have no clue if I should stop going out with this guy i am sort of going out or go out with guy i like.
2006-12-03 10:17:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dose the boy at your school want to go out with you? if he dose sorry if this sonds bad but dump the long distance one no matter what unless you know 110% that he is who he says he is and the only way that you know him is if you knew him before and he moved away. anyway if the boy at your school dose want to go out with you i would stay frinds with the distace one. if school dose not then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-12-03 10:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by son1of3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard that long distance relationships are almost impossible to maintain. If you're really feeling something for this guy at your school then you should probably end the lond-distance relationship unless you have some deep connection with him. Even if so, as long as the two of you agree to stay friends and keep in touch, you can get back together if this other relationship doesn't work out. Good Luck
2006-12-03 10:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Be self confident! Chose with where your heart tells you to go not what anyone else says or does! The choice is for you to make, be strong and sure of the answer since whatever you choose will effect the other and the outcome of possibilities in the relationship.
Answer these 2 questions and you will be able to make your choice very easily.
Would you want to find out your boyfriend chose to date while you were away? That's if you chose that way.
Would you want to be tied down to a distant relationship if your heart isn't into it? That's if you choose that way.
Good luck and best wishes!
2006-12-03 10:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but long distance relationships hardly ever last. So if yall ain't really going out tell the long distance guy that you think it won't work out and start dating that other guy that is closer.
2006-12-03 10:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go 4 the guy at school things might work out better 4 u and him and just b friends with your long distance guy
2006-12-03 10:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in school take the time to date around. Dont just settle with one guy so early. Learn what you like and dislike about relationships and about yourself. Then when you are older you will be a lot wiser with the time you put into a relationship saving yourself many unneccessary heartbreaks.
2006-12-03 10:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by sgarcia_con 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the guy at your school
2006-12-03 10:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, long distance relationships seldom work. why? cause you rarely see the person and contact is essential to a good relationship. so seeing the other guy close to you is probably better than trying to maintain this distant relationship. they say you usually find your true love closer than you think.
2006-12-03 10:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by ponyexpress304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go out with the one in your school cause you never know what the other boy is doing cause your not ther to know so go with the guy that is near you and that you know likes you.
2006-12-03 10:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by 1sexybitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no law that says you can't go out with both. But be sure that both guys know about the other guy. Once you have dated both of them, you should be able to choose one over the other.
2006-12-03 10:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋