Is it right for a girl in 12th grade to date a guy in 9th? I know people do it anyways, but tell me if you would or not and explain why. Thanks.
2006-12-03 10:12:29 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah.. I'm 16, supposed to be a junior, and I drive. Just wanted other points of view ^_^
2006-12-03 10:20:39 · update #1
I know girls who have, but me personally...if I felt like I liked him I might. The only thing I would be iffy about is having the feeling that people were talking about me behind my back, or even to my face, like "Oh my gosh! She's going out with a freshman! What a loser!" And think about what would happen after high school. There isn't really any point to it in my opinion, but then again, whatever floats your boat! ^_^ Good luck!
I'd say 2 years below at the most is my limit
2006-12-03 10:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not EVER date a guy that was more than 2 months younger than me! EVER!! Ok, but you want a reason right? Here it is: Maturity. Generally, guys that are younger than you (me in this case) are way less mature. They don't know how to take care of a girl. They can't possibly understand emotions (at least the ones exhibited by a girl) although most men have trouble understanding that too. lol Anyway, a freshman wouldn't even be able to drive you to a date!! Plus, don't you think its a bit weird? I mean, the kid's three years (at least) younger than you!!
2006-12-03 10:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said... If I was a "senior (female) in high school", I would only date a "freshman (male)" if any one of the following is true:
1.) I was in LOVE with him,
2.) The guy is the HOTTEST guy in the whole High School, and
3.) Because I just WANT to.
Clearly, if your asking this question, then you most likely WOULD date this guy; at the end, its your decision and you shouldn't let others influence it........ Hope this helps, Take care.
2006-12-03 11:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_m_espana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not, when you think about being a 17-18 yr old dating a boy who is still 14-15 it seems wrong mostly because guys are going through puberty at that age and they are very immature still.
2006-12-03 10:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by ~JORDY~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
guys are really immature for their age.
so when their a freshman they act like their in 5th grade.
and when their a senior they act like a freshman. haha
so normally girls date up because girls are more mature.
if i were to date a guy 4 years younger than me i'd feel like im babysitting or chaperoning a date the whole time.
it'd feel awkward.
but if you like him, then go for it.
2006-12-03 10:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by hey there 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might want to yet he might want to get in huge legal worry too. perfect to attend, or a minimum of make sensible it doesn't get sexual till the sophmore is eighteen. inspite of the actuality that if the lady does no longer document it, a jealous pal of the lady might want to...
2016-11-30 02:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is nice and considerate, go out with him. It's just a date; you're not getting married !!! Have fun and don't worry so much. godloveya.
2006-12-03 10:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are inmature and they can't drive yet. Not a good idea. Good Luck though:)
God Bless and Be Safe:)
2006-12-03 10:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in that posistion. and i didnt date him. mainly cuz i'm fixin to graduate and leave for college so it was stupid to start any thing. and he's so much younger, and immature, not in a bad way, but just too young.
2006-12-03 10:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by sr.07_who_loves_her_4x4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bet OLDER Women are much sexier and experienced
2006-12-03 11:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by loreign123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋