We dated 2 years. He broke up with me 5 days after my birthday and 6 days before our 2 year anniversary. 1 year and 3 months into our relationship he broke up with me cause he liked another girl, Darlene. Break up lasted half a day cause I cried and convinced him why we belong together. 6 months later he breaks up with me, cause he liked Darlene again, break-up lasted 1 week, and he wanted me back. I took him back, stupid me.
2 months after that, he leaves me for a new girl, Farah. And now its been 2 months, and I havent seen him or talked to him.
I feel like a complete idiot, who is so insecure. I still love him and want me back, and he was just using me.
I know I'll find someone else who will love me, but, I dont get why I am so upset and sad over him? I truly feel like he is making a big mistake and he is the love of my life. Or am I just delerious?
2006-12-03 10:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may be the love of your life, but neither of you can know that if you are both forcing yourselves to be in a relationship where you are not happy together. Even if he wanted you back right now, would you take him back? You shouldn't. From what I read, he didn't *technically* cheat because he left you before he went with the other girls, so at least he had that much presence of mind. But he obviously wants to play the field right now. Let him. You go play the field too. Maybe someday you'll meet again and find the hurt has gone and you really are meant to be. But you can't find that out until you let him go, and let all the hurt that is associated with him go, and build yourself up again. Don't let him determine how you feel. It is hard at first, but you will move on - you will reach a point where you can honestly say, "I just don't care if he calls or who he is with" anymore. Only at that point are you free of him, and able to start living for yourself again. And it is SOOO much better and more fun to live for yourself! Think about it, in a relationship you can't say "screw what he wants, I'm doing what I want"... but now you CAN. So go have some fun!
2006-12-03 10:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him. Easier said than done huh? Hes a cheater and always will be. Hes cheated on you several times and it hurts. Taking him back will only show him that your ready to be hurt again. Hes never going to change so theres no use in trying to change him. Take care of yourself and your needs. See how the single life is for yourself. Maybe there is someone else out there for you but you'll never find them while your still stuck up on your ex. I wish ya the best of luck!
2006-12-03 10:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 16:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him. He'll never stop, cuz he knows he can do it & his naive girlfriend will ALWAYS be there when the last hoe gets old.
stand up for yourself, & quit letting him treat you like an old pair underwear, he likes the snazzy print on the new pair, but always comes back to the comfort of the broken in pair.
2006-12-03 10:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u grow up ... you will realise how un-important this whole thing is ...
Dr BAd
ps ... you are delirious ...but you'll get over it .. ;-))
2006-12-03 10:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋