Singles & Dating - 30 November 2006

I met this girl at a hotel on business. She lives on west coast and I live on east coast. We clicked and had sex. Then she leaves to fly home. Then we text message each other back and forth and talk on phone for one a month and then she buys a plane ticket to see me. Then I run into hard times and I get defrauded out of 2400 bucks on ebay. Im upset and she asks if I still want her to come see me? I say I dont know. I just got taken on ebay for 2400 bucks. Then we both agree that she come. The next two weeks she text message me like crazy and gave me phone sex. Then the following day she tells me she has the flu. Then the day after she tells me dont be hurt but "im not coming to see you." I was cool and said ok hun. She is throwing away a 300 plane ticket instead of seeing me. Yet she still text messages me telling me she was afraid she would fall in love with me and didn't want to give her up her life out west. I think its valid. But it was only a visit to see me? What gives?

2006-11-30 15:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1

my boyfriend is really abusive sometimes, he puts me down about my career path, and my weight, he gets these really bad mood swings, but sometimes he is overly nice and does really sweet things for me.. how do i break up with him when he messes me up wit nice things once in a while..

2006-11-30 15:46:51 · 14 answers · asked by ladiilovee 1

2006-11-30 15:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by livinglarge25 1

What gift should i give her? I want it to show how i feel about her.

2006-11-30 15:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my boyfriend is from a set called thizz which is like blood and im not down for that and i dont want to endanger my life nor his what should i do??????

2006-11-30 15:44:44 · 24 answers · asked by tinkaboo 1

tomorrow is me and my boyfriend 1 year anniversary, well i was so happy this meant so much to me.. i even went out and bought him a gift that was over 200 dallors.. well we had plans to go to dinner and then to the movies, well today we got in a LITTLE fight and he said that he doesnt want to do **** for our anniversary now.. well this is the thing he never seem to happy about it anyways i had to make all the plan and he only got me roses and a bear.. and he already gave it to me.. now we are not even fighting and he still doesnt want to do anything.. im confused why he is acting like this. and it makes me mad that he is just smiling in my face, plus i act like its ok, but if he knew me he would know there was something wrong????

2006-11-30 15:43:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can not have the guy I love. I am a college student and he is a staff member. I am head over heels in love with him, but he said he had to remain professional at all times, this really hurt me. I would do anything for him, I would drop out of college or whatever just to be with him. I am so so sad, I dont know what to do.

2006-11-30 15:42:52 · 16 answers · asked by Bored&Broken 3

i don't reall mean anatomy!
I mean anything quirky!

2006-11-30 15:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl she is in a grade lower than me and she is same age as me we jsut started talking i asked her if she would do me and immediatly after sshe said how big is it i told her and i said enough to break you she saaid i bet and she said wen where i didnt say ne ting back what should i do

2006-11-30 15:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

this gir and i used to like each other and talk every other day but then she started going out with this guy. i think they broke up now and i want to ask her out but im having trouble approching her because i dont want to come out and ask her right away

2006-11-30 15:41:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 15:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if not, what percentage more?

2006-11-30 15:39:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

asked you out?

2006-11-30 15:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I´m clueless but how do you play hard to get? without being rude.

2006-11-30 15:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by jc pink 1

i don't care wat subject they are but if u mind, i would like some of ur lower bodyt if u know wat i mean.

2006-11-30 15:37:44 · 9 answers · asked by dncrella098 1

???

2006-11-30 15:37:18 · 2 answers · asked by naruto sakura 1

I am a lover of the doggy style. That way, you have better penetration in terms of length of insertion. You can cup your partners breasts and run your hands through the upper portion of the female' body with ease. My partners, I notice - move their hands upwards, folding them inwards to grab my hair.
One can even shift positions from doggy to other positions quite easily.
What do you people think? Is there anything better than this? What do you girls think? and what about the guys?

2006-11-30 15:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by Blue Boy 1

I'm 5 months pregnant and have been hearing from many people that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I know who they think he is cheating with and have point blank asked him about it. He says there is nothing going on and that I'm being paranoid. I just had a gut feeling that he was lying so I checked his e-mail to see if there was anything there. I found some topless pics of the woman that she had sent him. I know that I was wrong to snoop through his e-mail and feel horrible about it. I have never done anything like that before. Now I don't know what to do. I want to come clean and tell him what I've done and after what I saw I know that I should probably end the relationship. I just don't know what to do though cause of the baby. I love him to death but I know that without trust a relationship will never work. I could justify my snooping by what I found but I know it's still not right. What should I do now??

2006-11-30 15:35:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i want to give me girlfriend roses with a gift and was wondering if the color of them mean anything like red for blah blah and white for blah blah cause i dont want her to get the wrong idea if like i give her a white rose and it means like death or whatever lol so please help!

2006-11-30 15:34:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm posting this on behalf of a friend who desperately needs help.
Well he is a reasonably good-looking guy with a good sense of humour, but he is still single. He has lot of friends who are girls and somehow he always tend to become their best friends, someone they tell all their secrets, fantasies, and crushes to. No, he is not gay and don't look like one.
It has happened a lot of times that these girls have fallen for all kinds of Tom-Dick-Harry, but not me, they will fall for his bestfriends, but not him. Even after they come to know that he liked them they continue their friendship with him, their boyfriends feel sorry for him and never seem to mind when these girls hang-out with him more than they do with them! He has been in love thrice now(He is 24), and all the times the girl he liked fell for his best friends. This leaves him hurt and depressed, and he is going crazy thinking about it. I don't understand that despite being so likeable and respect why he is still single?

2006-11-30 15:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by prashantpachauri 2

Met this girl working on a community event. after the setup we went out to eat - not a full on date but felt like it and we had a blast.
few days later she came to a party i was having, once again TOTAL BLAST. as i was walking her to her car i asked her out to which she was into. went on the date last night....
Which had to be the best date ive ever been on with someone ive just met.
i walked her to the door she went in leaving the door open for me to follow.
i did.. DUH!!!!!!!!!
we talked on her couch for hours talking, laughing and making out, etc.
question is..... i happened to notice she still has her ring on.
while she IS seperated and tech still married.... wondering what i should take from that if anything.
i asked her out to a christmas party next sat which i got a yes to.
any thoughts, suggestions, personal experience........?

2006-11-30 15:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

hmmm???

2006-11-30 15:33:13 · 31 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3

so i have been ith my boyfriend for 1.5 years. he is the love of my life. we have broken up several times cuz of my jealousy. i believe ive kicked the habit. i even back home to visit his parents this summer. he broke up up with me again and this time i think its for good. he said in the last couple months he never loved me, and wanted to take things slow purposely. he gets very angry and says he never wants to see me again but then later apologizes for what he says. a month ago, we booked an xmas holiday together for 3 weeks. we were shaky, but he thought things were good and so we booked it. now he doesnt even know if he can be friends.he once told me that i was the love of his life and that is the reason why he kept trying to give it so many chances.but now, its like he is strong and is ready to date other people. im absolutely crushed.i keep thinking that this holiday will recreate a spark but he told me i have to realize that there is no longer a we.i dont know what to do.advice?

2006-11-30 15:32:21 · 2 answers · asked by krushed 1

LIKE HOW WE KNOW THAT ITS LOVE NOT FASCINATION

2006-11-30 15:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not urgent. I want to thank-you for setting this up first of
all. I really like this guy. I want to know if he likes me too, becuase I
have kinda got evidense.

He is really cute. He's got an emmo look going. We never talk to
eachother. I have heard him talking about his hair once around me, then
he stopped when my friends and I went away. I always catch him looking
at me. We do the eye-contact thing alot, but I always turn away after 5
secounds. He's not emmo he just wears dark cloths and his hair is long.
He doesn't cut himself. He got into trouble during PE today because he
didn't do an exercise. He had to sit out for the rest of the period. I
caught him looking at me tons of times and we made eyecontact, I don't
know if he looks away as well, I am normaly the first to.

I really like him, it's not an obsesion though. I knida want it to
go away, but I want to be his freind. I don't want to rush into dating
too soon. I have never dated and I am as my friends say a kiss-vergin. I
have never kissed anyone other than reletives. I have never gone out, I
am not poular and I have had multiple people like me. I have turned
them all down though. It seems that the people I like never like me back
but I thing this one might.

Could you tell me if he likes me or tell me how to get his
attention? I am too afriad to talk to him, the first time I saw him he was
looking at me. I became curious, and then pulled in. I am friends with his
friend. She is a good friend but she knows I like him. And her friends
knows. She keeps giving him clues and I think he may think I like him.
She teases me about it but other than that she is a great friend.

He is in 7th grade, I am in 8th. His friend told me that it's a big
problem and it will never work out. We see eachother in Pe and
inbetween two classes. Once I saw him going in circles around the spot where I
pass. He has his friend look behind him when I am around. He never
talkes around me, as do I. I have one friends that is in 8th grade, she is
really the only one I talk to when he is around. Once when he was
behind us, his friends said "hi dan!" and I turned and looked at him. He was
smiling but then we made eye contact and his smile went away but he
didn't go away. All the info is what I have gathered up in the last 3
months. I am wayyyyyyyyyyy too nervous to talk to him. Could you plz help
me? Some tips maybe? Thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-30 15:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a play right now, and I have a crush on one of my castmates. When he talks, he's one of the funniest guys I know. He's also intelligent, attractive, and by all accounts a great actor. The problem is when he doesn't talk. Sometimes when the cast gets together, he keeps his head down and doesn't say much.

My question is, how do you ask a shy guy out? Do you wait for him to make the first move? I don't want to scare him by admitting my feelings. What do I do?

2006-11-30 15:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by frodosgirl15 3

especially if you find out that you're not practically compatible in living with each other?

2006-11-30 15:31:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He goes out every day of the week. Mostly nightime only. I will call him & sometimes he answers & others he doesn't. I found out that when he doesn't answer is when he's at the dance. Which he denies. If I call him too much then he will hang up on me or just not answer the phone. He sleeps alot on the living room couch. On the weekends he goes out at Friday or Saturday at maybe 6PM & does not come back till the next day @ like 2,3, or 4PM. I am so tired of all this. I have tried to talk to him. I have asked him why & he doesn't want to talk & why he goes out so much, he just gets mad & leaves again. He is always telling me CLEAN THE HOUSE, do this or do that. I have told him that we have 4 kids & the house can not be spottless 24/7. I work full time & sell AVON also. He never wants to help me clean. I had made dinner in the oven the other day & he said that he didn't want to eat sh** from the oven. So what do you think? Should I try to go to the dance & confont him if he's with someone

2006-11-30 15:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by tigrababy2000 2

Pantyhose makes my legs look really smooth & silky & it drives my guy nutts. Other men always stare at my legs in pantyhose also. I even wear them durong sex- just cut out ahole in the
crotch . Any other women out there wear them alot?
I notice these girls at Hooters always wear them & guys love it !
I tease the men at work by slipping my pantyhose feet out of my shoes & they get all crazy- I just tease that's it.
Any other women out there tease guys with your stocking legs.
You should check out this website- there is this girl
called Sweet in pantyhose-& she supposedly wears them
24/7. What do you guys think of nylon covered legs vs bare
legs- does it get your engine running ???

2006-11-30 15:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my first boyfriend was in 5th grade and im still love him and i cant get over him i know im only 15 but i love him ALOTTT....why is that?

2006-11-30 15:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by **love_is_hard_2_find** 1