He goes out every day of the week. Mostly nightime only. I will call him & sometimes he answers & others he doesn't. I found out that when he doesn't answer is when he's at the dance. Which he denies. If I call him too much then he will hang up on me or just not answer the phone. He sleeps alot on the living room couch. On the weekends he goes out at Friday or Saturday at maybe 6PM & does not come back till the next day @ like 2,3, or 4PM. I am so tired of all this. I have tried to talk to him. I have asked him why & he doesn't want to talk & why he goes out so much, he just gets mad & leaves again. He is always telling me CLEAN THE HOUSE, do this or do that. I have told him that we have 4 kids & the house can not be spottless 24/7. I work full time & sell AVON also. He never wants to help me clean. I had made dinner in the oven the other day & he said that he didn't want to eat sh** from the oven. So what do you think? Should I try to go to the dance & confont him if he's with someone
2006-11-30 15:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by tigrababy2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ugh, what a jerk! I wish you lived near me cuz I go with you just to back you up. I would do it! Heck, I have done some stuff like that before. Listen you don't want to waste your time with a jerk. Show up there, catch him, and every time you miss him just picture him when you showed up there. It will help you get over him faster
2006-11-30 15:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hire a maid to clean the house (why does he have to know) I wouldn't put up with all of this neglect. His clothes would not be washed and there wouldn't be any dinner for him in the oven or anywhere unless it was left overs. When did all this garbage start? I would never have 4 kids with any man unless he acted a lot better than this. That is why God invented birth control. I would not go to the dance and confront him, that is childish. Keep your garbage in the house.
2006-11-30 23:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definatly up to something, u need to go to the dance and confront him and see who is with. U have 4 kids no guy should be out all weekend like that when he has responsibilities like that. and to get home at 2, 3, 4pm really where do u think he has been since 6pm the night b4?
2006-11-30 23:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my...why bother with the confront thing at the dance. You know in your Heart that he's messin around big time. Wake up and smell the cheater !!! I suggest you do what he asks....Clean The House.....throw out this trash of a husband and make a new life for you and the kids. Good Luck !
2006-11-30 23:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should send him to an eternal dance. You have four kids, and he is acting like if he was single. Believe me, with my experience I will think that he is very irresponsible. Do not put yourself at his level, you may get hurt. Prepare yourself to go ahead with the kids, do not count on him and get ready for the worst.
2006-11-30 23:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by God knows what 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's with someone. He has several classic signs of being abusive. You need to get out of this relationship, he will only get worse. Confronting him will only make him mad, not make him see reason. He's got no time for you, he puts you down, he isolates you from others. It will get worse, GET OUT NOW. Do not tell him where you are going.
2006-11-30 23:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you need to do what is best for you and take care of yourself. your only getting hurt and you deserve much better than this. i'm not sure if i'm a firm believer but i'm sure there is someone better for you out there. Dont give up on yourself, and if your not happy, get out.
2006-11-30 23:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i should be telling you to save your marriage for your kids' sake etc etc but hey seemed like he is more of a liability than an asset and you know what we do with liability right. we dispose it! wake up woman and start to love yourself more. You deserve better!
2006-11-30 23:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by labrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the sum bitc*, he needs to learn that a woman is a privalige and that it isint always there. go on a nice vacation in the country or see your mother. see how he reacts if he still has sand in his a** hole then dump him
2006-11-30 23:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is find his friends and invite them over and screw them in front of him if possible....
2006-11-30 23:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋