so i have been ith my boyfriend for 1.5 years. he is the love of my life. we have broken up several times cuz of my jealousy. i believe ive kicked the habit. i even back home to visit his parents this summer. he broke up up with me again and this time i think its for good. he said in the last couple months he never loved me, and wanted to take things slow purposely. he gets very angry and says he never wants to see me again but then later apologizes for what he says. a month ago, we booked an xmas holiday together for 3 weeks. we were shaky, but he thought things were good and so we booked it. now he doesnt even know if he can be friends.he once told me that i was the love of his life and that is the reason why he kept trying to give it so many chances.but now, its like he is strong and is ready to date other people. im absolutely crushed.i keep thinking that this holiday will recreate a spark but he told me i have to realize that there is no longer a we.i dont know what to do.advice?
2006-11-30 15:32:21 · 2 answers · asked by krushed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, the thing is that both of us still want to go on holiday, and we both have a lot of time off (we are expats) and we didnt want to travel alone. i honestly cant afford to cancel the ticket and if i dont go, i will be alone for xmas and new years for 3 weeks. what do to?
2006-11-30 17:08:33 · update #1
I guess the lesson here is, too little too late. Learn from your mistakes, people can only take so much emotional abuse.
2006-11-30 15:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that at this point it would be wise to cancel the vacation. I think you deserve a relationship that is not so tumultuous. I wish you all the best!
2006-11-30 15:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋