Met this girl working on a community event. after the setup we went out to eat - not a full on date but felt like it and we had a blast.
few days later she came to a party i was having, once again TOTAL BLAST. as i was walking her to her car i asked her out to which she was into. went on the date last night....
Which had to be the best date ive ever been on with someone ive just met.
i walked her to the door she went in leaving the door open for me to follow.
i did.. DUH!!!!!!!!!
we talked on her couch for hours talking, laughing and making out, etc.
question is..... i happened to notice she still has her ring on.
while she IS seperated and tech still married.... wondering what i should take from that if anything.
i asked her out to a christmas party next sat which i got a yes to.
any thoughts, suggestions, personal experience........?
2006-11-30 15:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This situation is nothing but trouble. If she isn't committed to the man she is wearing the ring for, then I doubt she will be committed to you.
Are you looking for a committed relationship? Will there be trouble with her husband? Are there children involved?
If she dates, while married, she will never work out what's wrong with their marriage. You don't want her on the rebound. That is so dangerous. Too many emotions and feelings to deal with.
Sounds like she is lost. Set her straight and send her back to try and fix her marriage. Especially if there are children.
I would call her back and tell her you have changed your mind and don't want to go with her to the party, because she is committed to someone else, and that the situation makes you uncomfortable...or however it makes you feel. Be nice about it and be honest.
She is lost and needs to be guided in making the right decision.
Don't help her make the wrong one. If you do, you will more than likely regret it. And so will she.
Good luck with your predicament. Hope this helps !
2006-11-30 15:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sure people will blast you because she is still tech. married but dont listen to that unless you think she will go back to him. She may still wear her ring because she isnt totally ready to let go and realize the fact that things didnt work out between her and her husband. If you feel like you are close enough to her then just ask her about it but dont do it so she freaks out on you just bring it up like when the time is right just be like so i notice you still have you ring on is there a reason for that. I wouldnt worry to much because if she wanted to be with him she would be with him and wouldnt be going out on dates with you.
2006-11-30 23:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced / Separated Women:
The fact that an official divorce has not taken place for any "Separated Women", she is entitled to wear the wedding-ring, if this is what pleases her as she is still married in the eyes of law.
So, better go slow and do not expose yourself as a gold-digger!
Have a nice day!
2006-11-30 23:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Hafiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wear a ring when I'm single because I don't like people hitting on me. If I want something, I'll go and get it. Sadly, most the time it doesn't work - but it may help.
This may be what she's doing, not towards you, but in general.
There again, if she's technically still married, that may be the reason she still wears the ring.
2006-11-30 23:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Monopolized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is still new for both of you. Take some time with her. I took my ring off the day my ex left. If she is going to get a divorce then she should not have it on as it no longer means anything, and if it does then she should try to get back with him and leave guys alone.
2006-11-30 23:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically she is still married. Did her husband leave her? Maybe she is upset, getting even. Or on the other hand, maybe she likes the ring. The most important thing in any relationship is communication.....Ask her!
2006-11-30 23:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was engaged for 4 yrs and broke it off. the very 1st thing i thought of was to take off that ring and give it and the wedding rings back to him. to keep the rings would show hope to salvage the relationship. if you don't want drama or heart ache, i'd leave her alone. she obviously has some type of issue with getting on with her life because that ring is a symbol of eternal love.
2006-11-30 23:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by punkbun03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, as a female, would not go near a man that was tech. still married but seperted. I would wait till a divorce was final. Cause you never know if she will go back to him. maybe just seeing her socially like at parties for a while first. but thats just my opinion.
2006-11-30 23:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by kristamin00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. it might be too soon in the relationship but u have a right to know if she is still harbouring feelings for another while using u as her rebound boy. if ur happy just to be a booty call or whatever just ignore the ring and have fun
2006-11-30 23:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is hard, even if you want it. She will either take off the ring in her own time, or maybe she likes the ring,..perhaps she bought it. She's going out with you, don't analyze it.
2006-11-30 23:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋