this gir and i used to like each other and talk every other day but then she started going out with this guy. i think they broke up now and i want to ask her out but im having trouble approching her because i dont want to come out and ask her right away
2006-11-30 15:41:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's women trouble?? You just wait, it gets worse. If you want to take it slow...do so.
2006-11-30 15:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man... it depends on when she ended the relationship. If it was soon like a month or so then you need to give it some time. You never want to be the rebound guy. If you want a relationship with this girl then its gonna take some time. Quick tip if she starts talking about the problems with the old bf dont try and help. I know that sounds cruel but it will send the wrong signal. And you might get a "your like a brother to me." once you get that it is not easy to get a relationship from that point. dont shut her out if she wants to talk about, but dont encourage the conversation. Long story short you gotta be patient. Start the whole friendship over and give her subtle, very subtle hints that your interested. but good luck man
2006-11-30 15:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by jake d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not,do it before someone else does!If not just hang out and offer her support especially if its a messy break-up.Take her out,not on a date.The best thing is to build on your friendship and then move from there.Try being a little flirtacious,if that gets no response then dont ask her out.Make her laugh!Good luck buddy.
2006-11-30 15:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by suzispeller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask her out. Nothing to lose, but don't rush into a serious relationship as she may dump you again. Evidently she is not ready for serious and may really be a nice dating friend.
YOU both sound too young fo rserious anyways so have fun and becareful.
2006-11-30 15:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. If she just broke up with the other person she'd probably be more than happy to go out with someone else. If he died it would call for a period of time of not asking her out out of respect, but break-ups are a-whole-nother thing and don't require any waiting time - in my opinion.
2006-11-30 15:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a friend first especially if she just came out from a relationship. Maybe going in groups will be easier for the two of you as it will not be too awkward and chances are she will be more than willing to join in. good luck!
2006-11-30 15:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by labrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe if u like this girl u will ask ur out.
it won't have anything to do with how to approche her.
if u like like like like her, u will ask her.
remember if it a negative respond don't take it at heart, see it as it her lost.
just try i think it will turn out good
u will never know if u don't try
2006-11-30 15:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her again, build a strong friendship, pop the question at the opportune moment (you will know when that it by instinct).
2006-11-30 15:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Isabela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound really, I dunno, "bitchy", I guess...but what is the friggin' problem? If you wait, you risk losing her to someone else! Do it, ask her out NOW before you lose her again! Life's too short, man...the next one to ask her out before you get your nerve up could possibly wind up being her future husband! You want that to happen? Don't wait!!!
2006-11-30 15:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by coffeefreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you use to be friends and talked all the time ...and she still went out with someone Else....shouldn't that tell you something ???
2006-11-30 15:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋