I met this girl at a hotel on business. She lives on west coast and I live on east coast. We clicked and had sex. Then she leaves to fly home. Then we text message each other back and forth and talk on phone for one a month and then she buys a plane ticket to see me. Then I run into hard times and I get defrauded out of 2400 bucks on ebay. Im upset and she asks if I still want her to come see me? I say I dont know. I just got taken on ebay for 2400 bucks. Then we both agree that she come. The next two weeks she text message me like crazy and gave me phone sex. Then the following day she tells me she has the flu. Then the day after she tells me dont be hurt but "im not coming to see you." I was cool and said ok hun. She is throwing away a 300 plane ticket instead of seeing me. Yet she still text messages me telling me she was afraid she would fall in love with me and didn't want to give her up her life out west. I think its valid. But it was only a visit to see me? What gives?
2006-11-30 15:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel like you are making more of this fling than it really was.
It was a fling. You both had your fun. Now, move on. She says she was afraid she would fall in love w/ you.
That is a line to let you off easy. Again.. Move on. There are others out there.
2006-11-30 16:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Because to alot of us girls we don't take it as just sex. We get all emotionally involved. It wasn't just sex technically because there was all the texting and what not, she thought it was more than that. That's what gives. lol Be niceeeeee.
2006-11-30 23:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said... a "brief fling" like what did you expect out of that? lol! get real.
2006-11-30 23:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES SHE JERKING YOU AROUND AND YOU JUST NEED TO
LEAVE HER ALONG. YOU HAVE SOME OTHER PROBLEMS
THAT YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH. 24OO ON EBAY THAT
PRETTY BAD TO SAY THE LEAST.
2006-11-30 23:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what gives...she doesn't want too get hurt ...she know she can't stay , and that's what happens if you start getting real close too someone...soo for her , it's just better this way ....for now ...
2006-11-30 23:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's being staight but i don think it has to do w/ the money in either respect
2006-11-30 23:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wellll
2006-11-30 23:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get used to it............ : (
2006-11-30 23:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋