Singles & Dating - 27 November 2006

i have been having a major crush on this hot rocker guy in my school, he's really unique, hot, popular and talented. he performs in our school band.i like him so so much but im too shy to do anything. he's always with his group.he doesnt have a girlfriend. there re so many girls in the school who like him too but it seems like he doesnt care abt having a gf cuz he's rejected to like all of them. do i still have a chance??my friend told me that she heard he has a crush on that new asian girl and she's not really pretty(if i dont want to say "ugly" and hardly talks to anyone). i think im prettier than her. so guys what do u think i should do?do i still have a chance??

2006-11-27 20:03:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to ask a question of my friends say about me jocks
I be frightening
Which makes the girls away from me
Although they often laugh when jesting
What are your suggestions ?

2006-11-27 20:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 20:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl i really like has started to act really odd around me. We use to hang together all the time, had heaps of lunches together, go to movies alot,and the odd dinner as well, plus coffess after work etc....lately shes being ignoring me heaps, like ive done something really wrong?....basically she talks to me like she doesnt really want to, or like she has to answer, she can be nice at times, but i can tell its not the real her.she also has stopped txtn me from about 20 times a da, to like 1-2 max, and i have to make the effort. Why has this suddenly happened?....we have so much fun together, i can only imagine shes heard something about me she doesntg like or something?.....it makes me angry so much!she refuses to acknowledge me aswell.we talk, but its not the same, but most importantly, she doesnt touch me at all, like she use to always want to, and also we dont hang out together now, been like this for past 2 week.s....what should i do?

2006-11-27 20:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a very difficult decision. I have a friend who i love. I want to be her boyfriend. But everyone is telling me i shouldn't because it could ruin my focus on my career. I'm 18 and about to become a Real Estate Agent. They say that it will distract me from reaching my goal. Or she'll just get in the way of it all. But i love this girl. What should i do? I need some advice.

2006-11-27 19:58:22 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Brightside 3

2006-11-27 19:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife told me she was pregnant 2 nights ago but I think she is lyeing to me cause I want a divorce. I havent had sex with her in a month ever since she found out about my adultery. I resort ot drinking at the house to get away from my marriage problems but its alost getting in the way of my parenting the children. How do I prove my wife is a worthless liar of a housewife? And can I sue her in court for this?

2006-11-27 19:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of almost 5 months, doesnt seem to care about me as much as he did before. Yesterday he didnt even talk to me during the day, but he flirted with one of my best friends. She just got here about 3 months ago, and now he seems to be so interested in her, but she is engaged! When she isnt around, he acts like he still wants me forever. I hate it, I feel like this relationship is going to end soon, even if I dont want it to. Help me figure this out please!

2006-11-27 19:53:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is a real problem where I work. These girls just won't quit following me around licking and sucking on them. I can't ban bananas and its too stupid to put them in detention for it. What other punishments should I give? How do I handle this appropriately?

2006-11-27 19:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How come a man can sleep with many different women and no one really see it as something big (he goes bragging about it, and his mates like praise him because of it) But if a woman sleep around she gets called a s.l.u.t, w.h.o.r.e and stupid **** like that when i man can do the same and he wont get called ****.

2006-11-27 19:52:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The reason why am asking these question is that, most men are good pretenders, and would do anything to covience a woman to rest assured the man she's with loves her

2006-11-27 19:52:21 · 10 answers · asked by spooky 1

how do i get the good man i.e christain man

2006-11-27 19:52:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 19:50:23 · 23 answers · asked by makemesmile 2

THE meaning I secretly hope it does?

2006-11-27 19:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a new relationship, should the guy do all the pursuing or is it ok for the girl to do some pursuing too? (as in making contact first, calling him, etc)

2006-11-27 19:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1

He broke up with me and came back after a couple months--he has changed for the better. At first I had feelings for him but after a week they seem to be gone. I now find myself afraid to commit to a relationship with him and I don't know where my feelings went. I'm not sure if they are covered by hurt/fear from the breakup or if they are due to fear of intimacy/commitment that I didn't realize I had. You see, I was hesitant at the beginning of the relationship----and it was only when my boyfriend started pulling away from me that all my intense feelings came out for him---and now that he is back I am feeling scared again. I don't want to lose him and I don't want to hurt him. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can heal/move forward with him/re-connect with my feelings/overcome my fear? I know if the feelings were there once--they have to be there again. I previously believed he was the one---he has all the qualities I was looking for and everyone thinks we are a perfect match.

2006-11-27 19:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by C 1

I just got out of a very long-term relationship a few months ago and I am 110% not ready for another relationship. However, a man I've casually dated for a couple of months (we both know and agree that there will be no monogomous relationship) and I have been having a sexual relationship with each other for a few weeks now. The relationship is strickly physical and I'm ok with this, however, I'm afraid my emotions may get the best of me in the long run. I've never been in just a physical relationship before. My question is, is it possible for women to do this? If so, how long does it usually last? I'm thinking on the lines of Samantha Jones (from sex & the city)..Are these women really out there, and is it possible I'm one of them?

2006-11-27 19:40:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an openminded but somewhat old-fashioned guy, and I'm not sure exactly what to do about this situation. I've been dating an 'older' woman for a couple months. I like her and am very attracted to her. We're honest and up front with one another, and speaking with her on the phone recently she told me that her 22 year old daughter who lives with her and who I've met a couple of times when over their house, is very attracted to me! I find the daughter to be very attractive also. But, I mean... really! Wouldn't this just complicate matters? Last Saturday evening I went over there thinking that her daughter would be working (she's a waitress at a restaurant near their home). I even asked first, just to make sure. But when I got there, the daughter had taken off work. The three of us hung out together, which I guess was OK, but I would've wanted more time with my GF. Anyway, I'm not sure what to do. It's turning into a BIG dilemma! I feel like I can't go there anymore. What do I do?

2006-11-27 19:40:06 · 8 answers · asked by mr_c1ass 1

we've been friends for a pretty long time and he says wsup everyday. or i say hi. but mostly him i guess. and he plays around with me a lot in language arts...[[: now that my secrets out thanks to a lowlife with a big mouth, he keeps his head down when he walks by but stares at me when im not looking.WHAT DOES THIS MEAN AND WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!

2006-11-27 19:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Annie 3

Ok I posted this about an hour ago and got pretty bashed by a lot of the men. The situation is that my boyfriend got the phone number of a woman at work and he has called her. I used to work for this company and I know that there is no work related reason for him to call her. I know a lot of people are asking why am I still with him if I dont trust him. Well, relationships are complicated and I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes its difficult. My question for all of you is how do I find out the truth? Asking him wont do any good because if he has something to hide, he will just lie about it anyway. Please no more "your crazy" answers from the men. I KNOW I'm insecure but I am trying to get past it. Please give me some good advice because my heart is breaking thinking he could be interested in someone else.

2006-11-27 19:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by meeahcat 1

ok alst friday i had my bday party. i turned 15. i invited over people and we had a fire and my mom was inside the whole time. well i knew that my x-gf had a bf and we like each other and we made out and i went up her shirt. she cheated on her bf then y do i feel so bad cuz i didnt do nething wron i was single and am single

2006-11-27 19:34:53 · 10 answers · asked by natealter1 1

A man meets a girl at a bar. They hit it off and go to his place after a few drinks.. The next day he is being arrested for statutory rape because the girl was underage and had a fake ID. Is he a pedophile? Should he go to jail? Does he deserve to be on the Sex Offender's website and be condemned for life? What do you think?

2006-11-27 19:34:29 · 20 answers · asked by Leslie 2

I have been asked this before by a couple of guys. Tonight for example I bought a winer cooler and soda and the cashier, at least in his thirties, (I'm 23) asks me if I'm married. He has seen me in there before a couple of times. I just think it's odd for him and the other guys to ask me or any woman they don't know at all this question, esp. when I'm obviously much younger than him.

2006-11-27 19:32:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls Only

2006-11-27 19:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by Proud Eagles Fan 3

would you wait around for her or would you date others?

2006-11-27 19:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 19:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by zanderzone55 1

I broke up with my boyfriend (mutual breakup, he agreed) just over two weeks ago. Of course I've been hurting a lot ever since and kept having that nagging feeling of needing some closure. Last night I called him and we talked for a while, about the breakup and what went wrong between us. I apologized for things I did that hurt him, but he did no apologizing on his part. That bothered me all day today, so I called him tonight to say I needed him to tell me he was sorry too, which he did. Then he said some things later in the conversation that bothered me, one was that he has a date with another girl on Saturday. (already??) and that he fell out of love with me about a week before we broke up, when we had a really nasty fight. I was still trying to patch things up between us. Him saying these things seems very passive-aggressive to me. I did want to be friends with him but now I'm having serious 2nd thoughts. Part of me wants to move on, and part of me wants him in my life. What to do?

2006-11-27 19:28:49 · 11 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1

My husband has suddenly developed premature ejaculation. I know he cant help it but does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can help him?

2006-11-27 19:28:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Pls tell me while making ???? what is expected from a man. any suggestions.

2006-11-27 19:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm really pissed off !!!

2006-11-27 19:27:52 · 2 answers · asked by helena 1