Girls Only
2006-11-27 19:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by Proud Eagles Fan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women dont like men who pretend to be someone they are not how about the old fashion approach hi my name is --------------
what is your name or hi how are you i would like to talk to you can we go out during the day time first and talk to her but a woman loves it when a man listen to her honestly and sincerely wish you luck
2006-11-27 19:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by jessie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women love confidence. have you ever noticed that a lot of women are attracted to obnoxious dudes. the big secret in picking up a girl is to hide your shyness and insecurities and just go all out and basically be somewhat of an asshole. don't act scared and shy-this equals lame to a woman. believe me no matter what you may have heard the biggest turn on to a woman is extreme confidence. I can't tell you how many times this has worked for me. For example I once told a girl in high school I wanted to ride her like a horse-she was a bit startled at first but ultimately was more intrigued and into me after I put my feelings on the line. Im telling you-being outgoing and super confident will get you farther than you ever dreamed!
2006-11-28 03:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by ineedhennessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIrst and foremost, whats your initial instinct? Talk to her or find the courage to talk to her.
Second, do you feel she is important enough, her crush that your harbor for her is important enough for you to do anything at all??
and Lastly, do you feel she could be someone of importance to your near future?
If in the end, you're answers to the above questions all point to her and not your hesitancy towards her, then you should definitly talk to her. If she means that much to you, I'm definitly sure you'll find a way to talk to her. Obviously you won't let someone who consumes so much of your time and mind get away without even a try, ;) Good Luck.
2006-11-28 03:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking girls about how to work up courage? That's a man's job, boy.
2006-11-28 03:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I feel that the best way to get around that is to first, think about what classes you are both in, together. Find out what makes her laugh. What does she like?
Maybe just spark up a general conversation with her, that is related to something she's showing in class, or what she's talking about, in general, with her friends, or just being around her, long enough to simply ask her something, out of the blue, like "What do you think of..." and just throw it out there.
You'd be surprised at the answer, if you keep it general, and not obvious, right away.
If you're with a group of friends, and you just happen to be in 'her space', think about what you want to ask, or say to her, and make sure you have a follow-up answer, or additional conversation piece to throw at her, in case she does open up and start a conversation with you.
It's best to just keep it general, though. You don't want to scare her off with your intentions, just yet!
It's good to think about wanting to have a 'friendship' with this girl, and just 'talk'. That way, she'll be inclined to want to get to know you, too, if the conversation is kept up, and interesting.
I hope this helped!
2006-11-28 03:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to get brave and talk to her. There's no reason to be shy. She's just a person. Or you could spend the rest of your life not knowing what might have been. Whic one is worse?
2006-11-28 03:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Wicked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comon buddy theres nothing to get shy abt all u need is to b confident.Let me tell u ,what u r afraid of is that she may deny isnt it,but until u ask her or tell her ur feeling how wud u know,what she wants.And wat will be worse ,if she denys ur life will never stop it will go on and may b u becom sad for some time,but for some time only,and if she gives +ve reply then u will be at 7th heaven isnt it ,so its better to know wat she feels and if u dont ask her u will regret it ,so give it a try ,u hav it all and wat u deserve u will get good luck n go ahead.
2006-11-28 03:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by neha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could 'accidently' bump in to her and say like "oh i'm sorry" and then start a converstation. Or if you dont wanna do that you could just look at her and when she realises your looking at her smile and wave.
hope this helps
2006-11-28 03:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think.
If you don't talk to her, what's the worst that can happen?
If you DO talk to her, what's the worst that can happen?
Right. Not much either way.
So if you want to talk, talk. I mean, she's not going to knock you down, jump on your chest and shoot you with her crossbow, is she?
Just say, "Tickle your a$s with a feather?"
When she says, "What!?"
Repeat yourself, "Particularly nasty weather."
When she gets all embarrassed, ask her if she wants to go out.
2006-11-28 03:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hey! maybe you should drop her a note? or drop her ur no?and yeah if she is interested she will call you! so at least you wont feel like a one-sided thing. so yeah i know how you feel! but yeah give it try!hope it helps!(=
2006-11-28 08:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by jt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋