My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 and half months, and I would never have guessed she was a virgin. She is such a beautiful girl on the inside and out, I mean she's gorgeous!!!!! And can have any guy she wants. She is 24 years old and wants to have sex; but every time we get close to having sex she freaks out! The last time I went down on her for the first time everything was going fine then her legs began to tremble; until she was on the brink of an orgasm, and sobbing, no, over, and over again. I immediately stopped and held her in my arms (like always when she about to have an orgasm!) I held her in my arms while she cried, and told her everything’s going to be okay. I've tried several times to get her to have an orgasm, but nothing works. She’s too afraid! I thought that maybe she was raped or something like that but she assured me that’s not the case, and that she’s never had an orgasm before, and gets a little frighten when she about to have one. I want her to be ready before we have intercourse for the first time but I a man and I need to get laid!!!! Don’t get me wrong I love her very much, and care about how she feels, but how can I help her over come her fear?
I’ve asked her more then once if anything happen to her sexually in the pass, against her own will. And it’s the same answer all the time “no”. The only thing I can come up with is that she was adopted when she was a baby into a really strict very religious family who never talks and (FROWN UPOAN) anything sexual. But (Violet) my girlfriend has nothing against sex, and we talk about it all the time.
Could it be that being raised in a in a strict family and never really talking about sex, be the reason for her problem??? Dose anyone know what it's like to be raised in a Family?? Please Share your experience
2006-11-21
08:51:39
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