Singles & Dating - 20 November 2006

See b4 we started dating he said the reason that he's single was that his previous girlfriend cheated on him. I trust him but this makes me wonder, and sometimes when his cell phone rings he doesn't answer it at all, whats up with that.

Or maybe I'm looking to much into this...Or I'm I?

PS. Yeah I'm A jealous *****!
But he's so sweet and I don't think he'd do anything to hurt me, but then again he is a man!

2006-11-20 08:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by clbell 1

I have seen some messed up stuff but I heard from my little brother, whos 9 years old, that he had sex with his 8 year old gf. I want to do something without compromising my brothers trust in me. what should I do.

2006-11-20 08:51:09 · 3 answers · asked by LJ 1

This girl that I like, she invited me to her upcoming birthday party. I don't want to go because there will be people there and I don't feel like socializing. Would it be too rude to say I don't want to come? And how can I say it in a nice way? Would it be stupid if I tell her I don't want to come because I'm anti-social? I mean, I still like her, but I just want to hang out with her.

2006-11-20 08:50:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm from Norway, and here there isn't much talk about black and white, but often I'll see something TV or the net that gets me thinking. I find some black girls very attractive (I'm blue eyed, blonde btw), but I've noticed that there are a lot of prejudices, at least in the US, towards white boys and men (and vice versa). I've read that some black girls think white guys only want them for sex. I think that is very judgemental. Also, I once knew this black girl who dated a white boy who she used because he gave her things. I hear about how some black girls say all white men think black women are irresistible. Sounds like white people in general are seen as dull, non-sexual (or too sexual), hateful etc. So, I wonder what people here (black girls in particular) think about dating white boys. Personally, I fall for a girl who's cute, sweet, smart, funny. I've never looked down on black girls for being black. That's just stupid! I think personality is a huge part of the attraction.

2006-11-20 08:50:32 · 18 answers · asked by norse04 4

i am 15 years old, and i have only gotten to second base. so keep it clean!

2006-11-20 08:49:29 · 13 answers · asked by Donivan 2

Quite often when my boyfriend and i go out he gets checked out by other women, and very often hit on the moment i walk off. So anyways I am a possesive person when it comes to the person i am with, but with these girls i never instigate a fight, or argument. I don't say anything rude to them or my boyfriend nor do i cling to my man to show her that he is taken.
My boyfriend said that it still bothers him some that he knows that even if i dont show it that it bothers me. Esp because i notice more of the women then he does (he can be oblivious).

Would it bother you men if you knew when women hit on you that your girlfriend was irked by it?
Oh and i never get upset at him, i just dont tend to like those women too much haha.

2006-11-20 08:49:05 · 13 answers · asked by attila 6

My boyfriend and I are very close and we've dated for 2 years now. He sometimes makes me feel afraid, though. I don't think he would EVER physically abuse me! However, he gets very angry sometimes and yells at me. He hates his job and he always takes his anger out at me after work. He yells about the condition of the house, if I'm talking to him too much...he basically runs in the next room and downloads stuff on his ipod all night. He doesn't like my hair straight or down....so when i wear it straight he won't look at me or talk to me. He hates certain clothes i have and he hides them so he will still find me attractive. he says that i only look good a certain way and sometimes i try to appease him because when i don't he won't look at me.
is this normal?

2006-11-20 08:47:56 · 18 answers · asked by O.K. 1

Ok, my long lost soulmate who has been gone for 4 years suddenly reappears in my life. (Just when I was getting to the point that I could think of him and not cry.) Well, he calls and says, "Do you think you could handle it if we 'hooked up' without 'hooking up'?" Naturally I'm not gonna say no and miss out a chance to see him and be with him, so... We agree to a date. Here's where it starts to get confusing: 1st: he picks me up for the date (he never did that before) 2nd He chooses a place for us to spend the night that we spent a CONSIDERAL amount of time when we were together. 3rd He informs me of his upcoming vehicle purchase which is my favorite vehicle and just like one that we shared when we were together. 4th He has pre-registered at the hotel and has bought a couple of things for me that are just to say "I remember" 5th He has candles in the room already AND acts nothing like this is a 'booty call' but is rather affectionate and loving BUT its been 2 days & no call...WTF?!?

2006-11-20 08:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by greeneyedbich 1

2006-11-20 08:46:09 · 25 answers · asked by Luis T 3

I am so freakng happy. I'm a legal professional and a few months ago, a second chair came in to help us on a case. Well, after some light flirting and numerous emails, we got all crazy about each other. I've been in love before but in my heart I knew it wouldn't last, my fiance passed away after a long-term illness. Well now I have a second chance and I'm not scared the only thing is he is 55, I'm 32, My father is 60 and my mother is 57. He and I are so happy, age doesn't even exist so is my concern just vapid and silly?

2006-11-20 08:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5

if someone is chasing you, is there a chance that they do really like you and its not all about the chase?

2006-11-20 08:44:27 · 32 answers · asked by Becky 1

Why do most guys like long hair on a woman?

2006-11-20 08:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

Why is it that when a guy has lots of girls hes called a pimp. But when a girl has lots of guys shes called a ho or a slut?

2006-11-20 08:44:21 · 13 answers · asked by LJ 1

sometimes my boyfriend makes jokes about me being needy or clingy, and im sure they're just jokes. I did ask him if he really thought those things and he said 'not in the least'. I know that his ex was both of those things and is one of the reasons that they're not together anymore.
So anyways when he makes those jokes it makes me feel uncomfortable about asking for things, or getting close. I told him this and he said i shouldnt because he's just joking because i'm not like that at all so when i do ask for things it's almost surprising for him.

Telling him didn't help too much (he doesnt make the jokes as often now) but can you all think of anything i could DO to make them stop?

2006-11-20 08:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by attila 6

2006-11-20 08:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by Greek Chick 2

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2006-11-20 08:43:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think my girlfriend would like
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/ProductImageview.aspx?IT=G&ID=0FEA633&MD=&GRT=&E=&SA=F&VT=ZV&I=0900631b81097cd0M.TIF&VAS=&AV=T&RGB=&AS=&AST=&BID=&VID=&PopUpBlocked=true&RU=PROD%257c11848%257c30878%257cDEP%257cG%257cSIZ%257c0fea633%257c4%257c20%257cunder%2b%2524100%257cJewelry%257cBracelets%257c30032%257cProductList&CmCatId=11848|30032|30878
it can be in Platinum or gold... Should I put it around the wrist of a teddy bear?
Also, what can I do when I am kissing my girlfriend to make it more enjoyable for her... She sorta sucks on my lips, and sometimes bites them...

2006-11-20 08:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by Zach S 5

I'm a single mother of two - ages 14& 15. I've been cheating on my husband with 6 different guys over the past 12 years. I'm currently involved with a guy that I think is really smart and who is in love with me, but I'm honestly only having sex with him because I know he'll be leaving for a job in another state in the next few weeks and he's "safe" to fool around with. I feel a little bad because I started the relationship (he was a perfect gentleman until I seduced him). I want to leave my husband - but I've never been in love with anyone and I'm not in love with the current guy. What should I do?

2006-11-20 08:41:25 · 4 answers · asked by wraith 1

2006-11-20 08:41:06 · 2 answers · asked by maskmanmikep@verizon.net 1

I have come to the realization that my boyfriend watches porn relatively often, and this makes me uncomfortable in a lot of ways. Its not good for my self-esteem, and makes me feel I'm not good enough for him, even though he's reassured me over and over that I'm great, he loves me, and it has nothing to do with me... We have a good sex life, and he is a great guy otherwise, so its a tough position for me to be in, especially because we've been together over 5 years so I have a lot invested in this relationship. I was wondering if some people who have dealt with a similar situation could give me some advice. How do you "get over" him watching porn? How do you deal with it mentally and emotionally by not letting it bother you? How do you put up with it when you don't like it- personally or for society? I'm certainly not uptight or a prude, but I just don't get it, what's so great about porn??? Please, don't suggest I try to get him to watch it with me, because he doesn't want to!

2006-11-20 08:40:00 · 19 answers · asked by neverneverland 4

Late last week, I was at a club with some of the girls (girls night out), and I wore my black Nine West go-go boots along with a jean skirt.
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The problem is a few guys wouldn't leave us alone, and when one of them grabbed me, I stomped on his foot with the heel and kicked him quite hard in his balls. I know I got them both good!

I don't regret it one bit, but could I have broken his foot or toe, and could I have flattened his nuts good?

And am I a b**** because it felt so good giving him a kick there?

2006-11-20 08:39:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

actually, she was supposed to be his ex, but she said they were still together...so I told her that we had been together for like 6 months, and she told me that they had been together like 9 months. What i'm confused about is that we spent like every waking hour together and i'm really close to his family. He claims that he just didn't know how to break up with her and he doesn't love her, and that he really wants to be with me yada yada yada... I guess my question is, should i believe him??? He seems sincere, but this chick keeps coming to me talking about how they were so in love and he's trying to get back with her. I'm just totally confused as to who to believe...

2006-11-20 08:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by Ms. Tesi 3

I really like this guy how do i figure out if he likes me without getting hurt?

2006-11-20 08:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 08:36:05 · 26 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2

I've just heard that Italian men if they see a beauty walking in the street could sing her love songs and express admiration and even sing parts of operas? is it true?

2006-11-20 08:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by zozza 3

This girl and I have been dating not too long. (>1wk) . She is likes me and I like her too. She's invited me to her place where we kissed, hugged.. It turns out that she's just broken up with her BF. I am afraid that I could be the rebound. She's one of my classmates. What bothers me that she keeps telling people that we know that we are seeing each other to prevent rumors from spreading. I don't know what to do. Should I abstain from her or what? I have started to have feelings for her. Your response in any shape or fashion means alot to me

2006-11-20 08:35:49 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1

My boyfriend is always teasing me at school,( You know, just playin around!) And, When he does, my friend starts chasing him! (By the way, I am in the 6th grade.) And when I confront her about it, she says she doesnt like him. My boyfriend and I think she does.
1. She is always staring at him.
2.She chases him for no reason.
3. She always asks me about him.
Do you think she does?

2006-11-20 08:35:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 08:35:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 08:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend & I have been 2gether for 7 months. He's a great boyfriend but for the first 2 months I was distant due to lack of interest in a relationship. During that time I SLEPT with a friend of ours that moved to Florida right after, and I told him about it 3 months later after we got serious. I felt bad for what I did & we worked it out.We were fine until i found out this weekend that during the first 2 months he was SLEEPING with the girl that braided his hair! I ceased communication with the guy friend even though he didn't ask me to, I thought it was right. He won't do the same for me.His argument is that the girl is in Memphis, she's harmless, and she didn't do anything but fill what I wasn't doing for him at the time. WHAT am I supposed to do????

2006-11-20 08:34:38 · 11 answers · asked by Cathy 4