I am so freakng happy. I'm a legal professional and a few months ago, a second chair came in to help us on a case. Well, after some light flirting and numerous emails, we got all crazy about each other. I've been in love before but in my heart I knew it wouldn't last, my fiance passed away after a long-term illness. Well now I have a second chance and I'm not scared the only thing is he is 55, I'm 32, My father is 60 and my mother is 57. He and I are so happy, age doesn't even exist so is my concern just vapid and silly?
2006-11-20 08:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is silly to worry. If you two connect and the age doesn't cause any life-direction-issues than you're fine. It usually more of a noticable difference with the age number when one person is just legal 18-22 and starting with their life, school, work being with someone who's established their life and found their career. You seem to have found your niche in life and so has he. Good luck.
2006-11-20 08:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is not so common that you can afford to put conditions on it. You should be prepared for your parents to be very uncomfortable with your relationship with this man though, as his age is much closer to theirs, the gap being 23 years. Another thing is, you don't say how long ago your fiance died. I hope it wasn't too recently. I must say I can understand any woman preferring older men to younger - I am the same myself, although as it happens my partner is 18 months younger than me. Had I not met him though, I'd have preferred an older man.
2006-11-20 08:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age Dose NOT matter! My mom's parents were 16 years different. My friends parents are 11 years different. I love my older boyfriend too!
2006-11-20 08:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by crazedrumr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this time I think you need to look at your future goals in family. sounds to me you have been very busy with your career. You are 32 what do you want from family? kids? something to think about. i can't help anymore without that info. i was with a woman 2 years before i realized my family goals.
2006-11-20 09:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes u happy go 4 it my bf was 12 years older than me and we were completly happy together...we only broke up cuz im 17 and hes 29 so if u can be with ur guy go for it dont care wut anyone else thinks
2006-11-20 09:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you don't care that you're 23 years younger than your fiance, then there's nothing to worry about.
2006-11-20 08:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very silly, because you have clearly said that you are freaking happy.
2006-11-20 08:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋