actually, she was supposed to be his ex, but she said they were still together...so I told her that we had been together for like 6 months, and she told me that they had been together like 9 months. What i'm confused about is that we spent like every waking hour together and i'm really close to his family. He claims that he just didn't know how to break up with her and he doesn't love her, and that he really wants to be with me yada yada yada... I guess my question is, should i believe him??? He seems sincere, but this chick keeps coming to me talking about how they were so in love and he's trying to get back with her. I'm just totally confused as to who to believe...
2006-11-20 08:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by Ms. Tesi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but it sounds like you've been dating an idiot. He's probably telling her (or someone else) that he doesn't want to be with you, but just doesn't know how to break it to you. I'd give the guy time to work on his communication skills before I went further. This way he could develop the necessary communication skills to convey his true intentions to other people, so that they would not believe something that was not true. You and this other gal need to join forces and embarrass him in a similar manner that he has embarrassed the two of you. He likes having two girls waiting in the wings for him. You sound like a smart girl--take measures to do whatever is in your best interest and forget about this loser. Good Luck to ya though.
2006-11-20 08:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on how much you want to be with this guy. If you can see yourself spending the rest of your life's together then I you should atleast give him the benefit of the doubt. I mean, ex-gf are crazy and from what you said she seems crazy. If you really want to be with him then be with him. If deep down you feel like he's being shady, then dump him. I hope it all works out.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-11-20 08:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the child is of age to have his own account let him and just watch his behavior.. in my opinion old enough to have a girlfriend is old enough to send email. Try checking your internet history (the clock with the arrow on windows xp) it will tell you the name of all yahoo emails entered and or get a keylogger which isnt recommended if you're just curious.
2016-05-22 01:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be a wack-o or she might be telling hte truth. Ask other people about her. Ask his family about him and her. What does he mean he doesn't know how to break up wtih her? It is simple. He just needs to say -- "I am not interested in seeing you anymore." And how did she get your email address? He may be playing it both ways or he may be in earnest. You could always ask him to call her with you there so you can be reassured when he breaks up with her fro good. If he won't do that, you have your answer.
2006-11-20 08:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and kick him to the curb! It seems to me that your "boyfriend" can't be honest about anything, and now you and this other woman are caught in the middle of his lies. Besides, he's the one who's making an idiot out of himself and played the both of you for a fool. Move on with your life and you deserve so much better! Good luck and I hope my advice helps!
2006-11-20 08:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to make your boyfriend understand the situation you are in and make him understand that he has to be honest with you. I personally would have an issue with him not breaking things off with her. However, she could also be crazy - if that's the case, he needs to be upfront with her and tell her that he is with you - not her. Then she would need to know that she couldn't contact me anymore. Hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-20 08:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do. Have him over to your house one night, knowing she is going to message you or email you. Have him read it, then have him reply to it and letting her know it's him. If she comes back claiming that you are the one doing that, then you log out and have him log in and send her a message under his screen name. Then you can see who is telling the truth and who is lying. If he refuses to do this, then he is lying to you and you are better off without him or her in your life. If he wants her, let her have him. He is obviously no good. But, for your sake, I hope he agrees to do this to show and prove his caring for you and not wanting her. Blessed be................
2006-11-20 08:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would arange for all three of you to be in the same place, at the same time (without this guy knowing both of you will be there), and say to him, flat out, who do you want to be with, you tell each of us it's them, so now choose.
then if he hesitates in the slightest, both of you dump him, and tell eveyone you know what was going on, including his family...
also, i wouldn't be happy with the family, you said you are close with them, i'm sure they'd know something was going on...
2006-11-20 08:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell u a definite, but i know some girls that have a hard time letting go of ther ex bf
2006-11-20 08:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its over!if u hav any doubt in him that he wud do this than he prob. is!follow ur heart!good luc
2006-11-20 08:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋