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Singles & Dating - 19 November 2006

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I just need to know so I can request a good slow dance song at a dance

2006-11-19 12:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by apbudge 1

Many of you may think I'm a stalker after I tell this story, but just to let you guys know, I am alot different now and I am very ashamed of how I was back than. Im here to get the best advice possible.

It was 3 years ago when I was in high school. I was 17 years old and back than I was not that sociable at all and had hardly any friends. So my skills in communication wasn't up to par with most 17 year olds.

This took place in my gym class. I have notice this girl I found very cute and for some reason, attracted to her but I never had the guts to go up and talk to her and the first mistake I have made was just i kept looking at her, this is pretty normal at first when you have a crush on someone but if you keep doing it, it may eventually creep them out and scare them, so this was my first mistake. Although, she didn't seem to notice me doing that as much, maybe she did notice but choose to ignore me and a couple times I did see her whisper something to her friend when I looked at her.

Everyday I would look at her a couple times, figuring out how I can get a dialogue going with her but never had the guts. So one day, I told one of guys I talked to in my gym class about her, so one day, they called her over and I was kinda freaking out about that 0_0.

So she came by and one of guys said "Hey, do you have a boyfriend"? She said " No, why?" Than the guy said "Oh, are you looking for a boyfriend?" she said " No not really"

after that both of the dudes I talked to about her said "Sorry dude". Than I told the girl I had a crush on to "uhh, you can leave now, go go" she turned back and kinda gave me that laugh smile as though she found it a little funny.

So I don't know why the guys had to do that, I felt like it might of be ruined and maybe at that point I should of just let it go. But, I really liked her and I didn't want to give up just yet.

A few days later, I told my friend(the guy I talked to in p.e.) about her again, but only because the semester was over almost and I wanted to find out if she was going to be in p.e. in the 2nd semester. So I asked the my friend to go up and asked her for me because he talked to her a few times before and about me sometimes. She was across the gym so he went to the other side and talked to her for a little bit, when my friend came back she kept looking at me 0_0......

It was really really strange, its like my friend told her something about me and now she kept looking at me like she really liked me or something. I told my friend to tell her that I thought she was the most beautiful girl in that classroom. But than...the next day I RUINED IT!! I BLEW IT and I wish I can travel back in time and fixed what I have done! I have weirded or out and this is how..

The next day, she continued to look at me and I was really really nervous. In fact, everytime her and her friends got close me, it was not intentionally though, I would just walk away because I knew they were talking about me right behind my back, I heard her say "This guy said the he liked me" Than I walked away. and headed to where im suppose to sit down at. she continued to look at me, intill the p.e. class was over and than..thats where it all started to go downhill.

The next day I toughen up and I said to myself "Im going to talk to her this time" but....than...she stopped. She stopped looking at me and everything and a few times I tried to go up to her and talk to her but she would always walk away, sometimes during Lunch I would see her with her friends and I would wave to her, but got nothing in return..nothing..and eventually and I was shocked about this, she told the principal on me.

The principal told me that she didn't feel confortable with what I was doing, he said that needed to stop staring at her and stop trying to pursue her.

At this point I was confused on why she would do this.

And this is where I should of stopped, I should of gotten the message that she didn't like me anymore and I screwed up and only a fool would continue to pursue, but i've always been a fool and said to myself once more "I ain't giving up".

Here is my BIGGEST mistake of all. Although it could of been a thousand time worse and I could of done something terrible instead of doing something flat out creepy.

My next plan was a letter expression my feelings towards her, I was going to write her a love poem pretty much and it took me awhile to put it all together. The first part was an Apology for making her feel unconfortable. This is probably where I should of stopped in the letter if I were to write to her but I didn,t after that I went on on how special she was and how beautiful she is to me and how she makes me feel.

and guess what? I got in trouble with the principal again and guess what? he had the letter I gave her. What do you know. He told me it would best if I was pulled out of that class. The principal said it was nothing serious and he said he just wanted to help me forget about her and move on. I didn't get in trouble or anything thoughtout this whole incident.

and my friend told me that she read the letter I gave her to the whole classroom in one of her other classes.

It was pretty hard for me to move on but I did eventually and along the way, I've met new girls and new people and started to become more sociable as time went on. During the 3 years I have been in a few relationships.

and I've been using myspace for awhile now but than...just recently, I found her profile and to my surprise, she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend looked really familier to me. From that point on, all my feelings for her came back...after 3 years..it came back and of course I've always thought of her from time to time but now....I don't know what to do.

I told my buddies about it and one of them message her "Nothing related to me" saying "Hey I think I know your boyfriend" or something along those lines but she never replied to him, so....she won't talk to anybody she doesn't know and I'd doubt if I tried anything, she would freak out all over again.

I've feel pretty bad about it and I wish I can go back and fix it. I wish I can just explain myself to her. But messaging her sounds like a really bad idea.

But this is where I need help here, what should I do?? and what would happen if I tried to message her?? or do anything? and what would her reaction be if she saw my profile??


I don't blame her, I just wish I wasn't so stupid back than and everytime I look back on it, I get upset about it because I know maybe me and her could of been friends or more. I've made alot of mistakes and I have learned alot these past 3 years.

Other girls have rejected yea, but not because I was a creep, because they just didn't like me, one way or another but I never let that bug me, but for some reason, thinking about this girl really upsets me. And I just wish somehow I can show her that I am no longer that creepy person.

I know what your thinking "Why does it matter"?

I'll be honest, it doesn't matter, its just when I think back on it, it really gets to me and I wish I can't believe I did something so freaking stupid.

2006-11-19 12:34:59 · 5 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1

why guys are scared to be in relationship with person with kids?
lets say me,? i am a hardworker, wonderfull mother, perfect friend, and just nice person, + very pritty. But as soon as i told them i have two kids they just runaway from me? Why?
i am not asking to take care of my kids, they have me and my ex-husband for taking care of them.....so why guys dont like that? all I ask is to Respect my kids, that is all.
Thanks.

2006-11-19 12:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. She made it seem like she was only in to me. She wanted me around every day. Till she started handing around this one girl. Then she would ignore me when they went out. I didn’t trust her. Because the first time I meet her she invited me out to this other place. When I got there she was making out with another guy. Then she would make comments that made me not trust her. That happen twice. Then I blow up told her off. Then I called and try to get answers. Then more she ignored me the more I called and text. I let my emotions take the best of me. Now I feel bad. It’s been 5 weeks since the break up. I want to call her. Should I try to apologize? Or just let her go. She is with another guy already. She jumps from guy to another. She is a very dependent person. She drinks every day, she doesn’t have any ambition ,she demanded my 100% attention . Till she was out with her friends. I treated her like a queen till I couldn’t stand the uncertainties. But I miss her.

2006-11-19 12:28:52 · 12 answers · asked by bob 2

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i like a guy should i tell him

and how should i tell him

and what if he doesnt like me back what do i say


Please Help im confused

2006-11-19 12:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with him for over three years, and im fairly close to them but unfourtunatley i cant spend too much money .looking to spend somewhere around 50.00

2006-11-19 12:28:01 · 6 answers · asked by tiffany m 2

iv been staying at my bf's house alot so i came by my apt to get somemore clothes.my best friend wanted to see me so we met at my place my bf tagged along because he thought that he left his poker chips in my freezer ( dont ask how or why because i barly understand the things he does ) my friends & i were talking my bf wandered in my room then comes out yelling in italian.i asked him wats wrong he says he was playing with some siccors and accidently stabed my pillow then he started playing with my stapler and ended up stapling his thumb.my friend laughs and calls him a clumsy idiot.(wich is partly true) then he looks at her and says Quote " have i slept with you ? you seem to look like the type of person iv had a one night with.you look really familure have i had sex with you ?" end Quote.my friend starts cussing him out and my bf just has a smug look on his face.
how can i get them to make up i always ask her what she thinks,& she would be insulted if i stayed with him.

2006-11-19 12:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by me 1

we have been together for 2.5 years and we have a baby on the way. all of a sudden he tells me he doesnt like kissing anymore. he likes little pecks but he doesnt like to french kiss anymore.. he use to love it...what happend?!?!?!

2006-11-19 12:24:16 · 13 answers · asked by KDUB100 2

I'm terrified of penetration.My bf is pressuring me into having sex and he's right.We've been dating for about 6 months now and things are going very well.

2006-11-19 12:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shauna O 1

2006-11-19 12:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got back with my high school sweetheart. He is in the Air force and left to Korea for a year. Should I wait for him? And is he really being faithful to me? I love him so much and miss him alot. What do I do?

2006-11-19 12:22:13 · 5 answers · asked by jenny21gon 2

Is the myth of a woman's sexual peak happening in their late 20s real or not? How many women see an increase in sex drive during this time? Why I ask is becuase the last few months i have experienced an increase in my sexual drive. I am almost 28 and have always had a healthy sexual appetite but lately it seems insatible. Is this normal? What else could be causing it? I am also wanting to experiement and try new things that i never have before.

2006-11-19 12:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by jbenishmlt 4

Whats the most sexy thing about a girl

2006-11-19 12:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by XxReally_Cute Xx 1

I just started going out with a virgo guy and his personality seems all over the place! What turns you virgo guys on? What doesn't? What do you like in your women? What kind of personality are you virgo men attracted to? HELP!

2006-11-19 12:21:56 · 3 answers · asked by Emmi 1

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ok...i have this crush...his name is Robby....we talk alot and i fell like i can really conect with him...and hes really sweet...but he only talks about just random stuff...like my day and school...but never about my whole life or anything..and alot of ppl have since i moved...but he hasnt...can u help me figure out wat hes feeling...like if he likes me or is just trying to be my friend or not?

2006-11-19 12:21:16 · 13 answers · asked by Christine L 2

I feel called to marry Isreal and treat her like the queen she is. HOw can I meet a Jewish girl?? I know it will be tough with her family, but it would be worth it....The blessings of Isreal with the grace of jesus... what a home it would be.

Any ideas welcomed

2006-11-19 12:19:36 · 8 answers · asked by David T 3

2006-11-19 12:18:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-11-19 12:17:26 · 7 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2

2006-11-19 12:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i had a boyfriend for seven months and we broke up on Oct. seventh....i've stayed in contact with him a little, but my mom says im not allowed to talk to him any more...she says he's a bad influence but she's never talked to him, she only hears what people say about him, but everything everyone says is a lie...but she wont listen to me and i am really mad, and she just took my phone away because my brother said i was planning on calling him...i dont think its right to tell someone they cant speak to someone...to me its just wrong! so is there anyone out there who knows if this is O.K or not?

i need some advice as to what i should do...i want to just call him but now that i dont have my cell i cant...and i dont want to disrespect my parents and make them mad, but i really want to see and talk to him again...but they get mad wen ever i just say his name!

2006-11-19 12:14:47 · 19 answers · asked by Mandi 1

Does sex hurt the first time????????????????
I think im ready to have sex and I have talked to my mom and she said that when Im ready to go ahead, and I have been even talking to my boyfirend and he said that he would go SLOW and make sure it didnt hurt. what should I do i dont know if it hurts or not??????????????

2006-11-19 12:14:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not a supermodel or anything, but for the longest time i thought I was moderately attractive. I've had a hard time finding a girlfriend and I'm trying to find reasons why. I am going to post a few pictures, I'd like to get some female perspectives. I'm not one of those people who is trying to get patpats, or trying to tell people that i'm ohh so beautiful, but I'm honestly trying to figure out is wrong with me. http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p142/Arkainis/DSCN0309.jpg http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p142/Arkainis/DSCN0311.jpg http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p142/Arkainis/DSCN0307.jpg

2006-11-19 12:13:41 · 15 answers · asked by arkainisofphoenix 3

i really really like this guy.. for like 3 years now. and at some point, i'm pretty sure he liked me too. we started out as friends, talking at parties and such... but a few years have gone by now and i only see him in the halls because we aren't in any classes together. he'll focus on me in the crowd, and is extra quiet around me. and if we ever talk, he'll look at my lips. (my friends tell me all this- before they even knew i liked him) he's really shy, and according to my friends, treats me differently. he's had gf's, but he's single now... anyway, i was wondering how i could get him to loosen up and notice me WITHOUT asking him out right away. (that would be awkward since i haven't talked to him for so long). also, do you think he likes me? i'll give lots of points to the best answer if it helps...

2006-11-19 12:13:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never really get scared to go up to my crush and talk to them even if they reject me i don't get hurt that much and move on quikly to the next guy .or like one time at a dance i went up to a boy i talk to and his group of friends and asked them if they wanted to see me dance they were very impres.but alll my other friends would die if they did that.

2006-11-19 12:12:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok..so this girl is asking me out but she had sex with 2 guys already and she smokes weed and cigarettes and shes a bit of a tomboy..shud i go out with her..if i kiss her..what kind off illness can i get? aids? or hiv? help me pls!!!!!!!

2006-11-19 12:11:32 · 25 answers · asked by ^_^' 2

how important is it to them? I think with most guys it's probably the most important thing, and everything else can be forgiven. But how much does it count with women?

2006-11-19 12:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by CheckTheCoolWax 2

Why is it time I like a guy he turns out to be a as***** they flirt with me and I am not supposed to think anything of it? Please give me any answer.

2006-11-19 12:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by Mari E 1

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