Singles & Dating - 19 November 2006

i seem confedent around guys but im really not!
i always turn down guys because im so scared
can u please help

2006-11-19 13:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Roxy 1

Boyfriend of ten months broke up with me. I haven't done anything wrong, he's just young and hasn't been in a steady, long relationship. The last few weeks have been rough cause i tend to vocalize problems, to try to work them out together to get past them. He told me to do that, but when i do it, he gets angry and says i'm getting on his nerves. MAny times i should have broken up with him, but I kept holding on, trying to make it work. Anyone that knows of our relationship says i shouldn't even be with him, as i can do much better. I didn't listen. So why does it hurt so much?

2006-11-19 13:31:34 · 20 answers · asked by smooches! 2

"the one"?

2006-11-19 13:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5

I recently saw my lover's porn history and found that he frequently watches porn that involves sex with older people. Mostly it's old women - really old women... But it also includes sexy women over 50, older men with younger girls, older women with younger girls and family sex.

What does this all mean? Should I be worried?

2006-11-19 13:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by gina j 1

After dating a few people, i've discovered that my ex is the only one who i can say really loved me unconditionally. I messed things up numerous times, but he's still willing to get back with me. Sholud i go back to the one who's been there through thick and thin?

2006-11-19 13:30:39 · 15 answers · asked by smooches! 2

She already said she doesn't have boy friend feelings for me....But she keeps on telling me things she doesn't tell any body else....And she always has to ask me if I like her.......

2006-11-19 13:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by keithr2003 3

how do you know if a girl likes you what are the signs that shes redy to have a relationship ?

2006-11-19 13:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by FROST_X 2

2006-11-19 13:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by fmg_1981 1

Im with my fiance 8 years,we met at age 16 and I knew from the minute I saw him,we'd be together forever.

2006-11-19 13:27:19 · 21 answers · asked by Princess Katie 4

We're early 20's and in end of college. together about a year. i live w/2 roommtes but am looking for a new place closer to school. he still lives at home w/parents but moving out but the end of the school year b/c of a job and getting a higher degree. we spend about 2-3 nights together now and see each other every day anyhow, so i think living together would be sensible. how should i go about asking him his opinion on this topic?

i posted this question 2 days ago and due to the responses i got i just wanted to add the following? i think we are both financially ready. i am NOT lookin for this to lead to marriage i am WAY to young for that and i do NOT want it. he wants to see me every day, even when i suggest that we spend a day apart b/c i was afraid he would get sick of me. maybe you think a year isn't a very long time but i think we know each other well enough for this to happen. last the reason i ask this is not to be told i am doing the wrong this just how to say. thanks :-)

2006-11-19 13:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by soccer2music 2

Okay, so over the summer I became extremely good friends with this guy, who I then began to like as more than friends. I finally desided to be honest with him and told him I liked him, which he was fine with. We were still perfectly fine, until one day he stopped talking to me and told me we could be friends LATER. (idk wat that meant) He didnt talk to me for like 2 months, and then he finally just started....what can I say to pursuade him to come back and be friends again? Did I do the wrong thing by telling him? Why didnt he want to be friends for like 2 months...wat was the point?

2006-11-19 13:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by as 4

ok i get online then my bf comes online and then he has to get off right away wat is that is it a sign or wat can someone help me?

2006-11-19 13:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this boy we are talking right now but i dont want to get attched to him cuz i dont know if he likes me or how he feels about me and some boys are so indirect that you cant even tell and even if they do they wont admit its hard to decipher whether or not and i dont want to tell him how i feel and feel dumb cuz he doesnt feel the same way and i would ask him but i dont want to cuz i he says somethign like i dont know waht do you mean or somethign indirect ima just feel hurt and shot down....so i can i tell are there any hidden signs

2006-11-19 13:25:12 · 4 answers · asked by lilmizzd2002 2

My boyfriend and I have just started to become sexually active. For the 3 times we've been intimate..he has taken over. He wants me to do the work or take charge next time. What are some techniques, positions, and tips I can do?

2006-11-19 13:24:59 · 3 answers · asked by Chyna Sierra N 1

ok i like a guy who has a lot of friends who are girls and he treats them all very well and is really nice to all of them anyone else would think hes flirtting but everyone knows better if you were in his situation how would you act toward oe of the girls comparatively if you liked her? please give as much input as possible and be specific if you can. thanx

2006-11-19 13:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by sweetmelody14 2

what do you think about that girls??

2006-11-19 13:21:10 · 12 answers · asked by pelospelitos 1

i am absolutly in LOVE with this one guy and i am making it completly obvious to him... but he doesnt get it. I really want him to like me back cause i asked if we were friends and he said ofcorse we are friends... how do i get him to like me? PLEASE let me know.. i love him

2006-11-19 13:20:56 · 12 answers · asked by Kerr 1

im in love with this girl and shes moving in 3 days i fill lost with out her and its horable i met her at 4-H and i realy love her i never asked he out cauls i was so nervis im 16 and shes almost 20 i dont know how to ask her to stay i know she loves me but wont say it cauls shes scared what her family and friends will think. iknow she loves me cauls she ran away at easter and staed the night for like 3 days so we could stay together we hade so much fun and thats when i sad i loved her and the look in her eyes was so sad like she was going to cry then like a mothe later i wrote her a poem she did cry and i dont know cauls she whants to be withe me too or if shes scared to hurt me i need your help cauls i love her pless help

2006-11-19 13:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by cwk16wv 1

2006-11-19 13:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by mrlebowski99 6

2006-11-19 13:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by Agnon L 5

is 15 to young to have oral? i no sex is bad, but ive done this, and i regret it, a lot, but do u think 15 is too young?

2006-11-19 13:17:20 · 27 answers · asked by Steph 2

i just too k this new job thing...and i called off 7 out of the first 9 days and they fired me. they never told me nuthin about absence policy.

but my son had a bad splinter...

what is wrong with these corporate whores who demand perfection??

2006-11-19 13:16:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

his name is jon but i keep mixing his name up with other people i know .he has the personality of the person in this vid.except he can cook and hes not a blonde.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGrEsgLVJtg

2006-11-19 13:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by me 1

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

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16 minutes ago
then about 3 weeks she sends another one that says this

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

2006-11-19 13:14:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the problem.
I like this guy at school and he likes me. We're freinds and everything but i want to be more then freinds. He's always asking me if i want to make out with him. I want to but i dont want to be freinds with benifits with him while hes going ou with someone. He doesn't understand and I dont want to tell him straight out. What should i do?

2006-11-19 13:13:14 · 17 answers · asked by nickleme10 2

OK. Last night I was at a concert, where a lot of drinking was involved. I almost kissed my friend (or rather: she almost kissed me), but I didn't let her. I'm pretty sure I was right. Is a little regret ok to feel? Did I really do the right thing?

2006-11-19 13:13:08 · 12 answers · asked by dreamteam847 2

2006-11-19 13:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by smooches! 2

for two 12 year olds to fall in love? not sexually though. i'm not the 12 year old though. just curious, s it possible without it just being "puppy love"

2006-11-19 13:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 13:10:17 · 2 answers · asked by Jake B 1

what type of girls do u like??

2006-11-19 13:09:09 · 8 answers · asked by kati d 1