Okay, so over the summer I became extremely good friends with this guy, who I then began to like as more than friends. I finally desided to be honest with him and told him I liked him, which he was fine with. We were still perfectly fine, until one day he stopped talking to me and told me we could be friends LATER. (idk wat that meant) He didnt talk to me for like 2 months, and then he finally just started....what can I say to pursuade him to come back and be friends again? Did I do the wrong thing by telling him? Why didnt he want to be friends for like 2 months...wat was the point?
2006-11-19 13:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by as 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you did not make a mistake by telling him.It was the best thing for you to do. You can do nothing to get him to come back to you and you shouldn't have to. If he wants to be friends with you then he wouldn't do what he has done to you. You can never tell about boys so who knows why he didn't want to be friends for two months.
2006-11-19 13:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i think you were honest with this guy and he in turn was half honest with u. i think he said he wanted to be with you later because he probably didn't want to hurt you. he has probably been seeing other people the past couple of months. or maybe he had a girlfriend on the back burner, you never know unless you ask. if i were you i would just be honest and ask him whats up? if he's worth liking or having as a friend he will be straight with you. if not then i wouldn't try to persue a relationship with this guy.
2006-11-19 21:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dude was in some one elses pants. sorry to be so blunt, but come on. two months gone, then he comes back, man he struck out, remembered you, and deceided to sweet talk you, so your pants may be a easy target.
Come on people, wake up, hand some faces, do not mean they are YOUR shining night in armor.
2006-11-19 21:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably with some other girl and she found out. i think if he wants to use you like a light switch(on when he wants you, off when he don't), then you need to find another guy.
2006-11-19 21:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's obvious that he didn't really want to have any type of relationship with you because if not, he would of been like all nice to you now that he knew how you felt about him and maybe he would have asked you to be his girlfriend.
2006-11-19 21:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by TiGgEr_LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was uncomfortable withyou liking him so he thought he coldjust wait till you got ove them then be friends again.
2006-11-19 21:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by sweetmelody14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a weirdo.
2006-11-19 21:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ASk him. you obviously dont have much to loose. if he isnt able to he isnot worth your time.
2006-11-19 21:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by agentaita1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** him and move on he's obviously not worth it.
2006-11-19 21:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋