My boyfriend and I have just started to become sexually active. For the 3 times we've been intimate..he has taken over. He wants me to do the work or take charge next time. What are some techniques, positions, and tips I can do?
2006-11-19 13:24:59 · 3 answers · asked by Chyna Sierra N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not really something you can think about cause then it kinda just ruins it
but its not as scary as it sounds i mean yeah of course its not scary. but dont be scared of doing something wrong, take your time and enjoy it yourself
good luck♥ im sure hell love it
2006-11-19 13:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be loose and into it. I'm assuming you are attracted to him. If not, don't do anything, you shouldn't be with him. If you're just nervous, try this. Pick some really sexy music that's got a lot of energy (U2 is my personal favorite, but I think I'm a bit older than you are). Wear really sexy clothes and lingerie that you can peel off. Start off with some dirty dancing. Let yourself get carried away with it. Take off clothes a little at a time. Scented candles or candles and incense are great too. Give him a massage with some lotion--that NEVER fails! Sit on top of him and massage yourself too. Having a mirror or two strategically placed can be really great too. Imagine yourselves as the stars of the sexiest movie you've seen. Be the goddess you are. Gorgeous, powerful. Sounds like that's what he wants, and you will love it too.
And be the one to put the condom on him. That's very sexy too.
If you're looking for positions and things you can always google up some videos on the internet, but I think being naturally inspired is much better.
2006-11-19 21:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try other things that oyu both like then you will find the right one but why does he do that it should be up to him to please you.
2006-11-19 21:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by loverboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋