After dating a few people, i've discovered that my ex is the only one who i can say really loved me unconditionally. I messed things up numerous times, but he's still willing to get back with me. Sholud i go back to the one who's been there through thick and thin?
2006-11-19 13:30:39 · 15 answers · asked by smooches! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.
Make sure you don't go back just for comfort.
2006-11-19 13:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by loveseat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point is he might be there for you through thick and thin but you dont mention wether you love him or not, if you do then go for it but if not this means that you would only be using him because you feel safe and secure and this would not be fair to him, he sounds like a really nice guy so think about your actions before you make a decision.
2006-11-19 23:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned the hard way that theyre the ex for a reason. It didn't work out the first time because you were incompatible. It won't work again. Youre just romanticizing him because he's safe and you're afraid to take the risk of getting hurt by someone new. Better the devil you know than the one you don't or something like that.
2006-11-19 13:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need 2 thank about what u are doing first u need 2 find out if u only want him cuz he is there 4 u. or if u really love him. cuz u dont just want 2 get with someone just because they are there 4 u ,and u never know there maybe other things that are wrong with the relationship just think about it u broke up 4 a reason
2006-11-19 13:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with what your heart tells you. Because only you can decide that. But from what you wrote my opinion is yes because you said they have been their for you through thick and thin. And that sounds like a keeper to me.
2006-11-19 20:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've realized your faults and are willing to NOT put him through the same issues that have occured in the past and learned from them than yes! He's got a big heart to forgive you for your mistakes.
2006-11-19 13:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by kz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you would be wise to stop and consider why you messed up.. you did it once for reasons known only to and your ex.. If you have got over whatever it was that caused you to stray then go back and start over. IF THOUGH you still have those feelings which caused you to stray then do yourself and your ex a favour and don't go back. You'll just cause more pain for yourself and him
2006-11-19 21:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he the ex? There must be a reason, and don't forget it. If all else fails keep him on the side burner and keep looking for Mr. Right. If you stop looking for him he will find you.
2006-11-19 13:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by mga1550 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should never go back to your ex if it didn't work the first time its highly unlikely it will work second time around, you will find someone for you but don't look for someone like your ex or try and compare them to your ex were not all the same we have good and bad qualities in all of us, don't worry it will happen for you.........
2006-11-19 22:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But ... of course, it ain't easy to find someone who really loves u "unconditionally" these times...actually, i consider it is a blessing!.
2006-11-19 13:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋