Ok..so this girl is asking me out but she had sex with 2 guys already and she smokes weed and cigarettes and shes a bit of a tomboy..shud i go out with her..if i kiss her..what kind off illness can i get? aids? or hiv? help me pls!!!!!!!
2006-11-19 12:11:32 · 25 answers · asked by ^_^' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a great catch?! If you set your standards this low...look around I'm sure you'll find someone better. Those girls bring nothing but trouble with them...I wouldn't even go there if I were you, you deserve better!
2006-11-19 12:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by daff73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human saliva contains every kind of bacteria you can think of, it also contains blood cells, therefore, if the person has aids, you will get it, if they have strep throat, you will get it, if they have an std, you will get it, same with colds and coughs.
If you are thinking that going with this girl is a good idea because she sleeps around and you might get lucky, you are probably right, but worst case scenario is if she is an aids carrier your 5 minutes fun will turn into a death sentence. Not so bad scenario, an STD, you get a big penicillin shot in the butt; Best case she is clean and you have fun...
So what are you going to do?? you have a 3 in 1 chance of death......LOL
2006-11-19 12:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no silly the only way to get HIV is through sharing needles with her andsex or if she bleeds into ur open wound. if u like her than go out with her but u can't get anything from kissing her. so if u like that kind of girl than go out with her just don't have sex with her because then u might get HIV
2006-11-19 12:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you can. saliva is a body fluid, which means that you can get anything from the common cold to AIDS from a kiss.
the bad thing about AIDS is, you often don't find out you have it until about 5-10 years down the road. that means that you can spread it to others and not even know it.
AIDS as you know causes recurrent viral pneumonia, Kaposi's sarcomas (huge skin cancers that look like prunes), brain damage to the point of dementia, and increased susceptibility to other viruses, cancers, and bacterias. those who can and are willing to receive treatment have to take 40-50 pills a day to lengthen their lives. however, there is no cure and the disease is fatal. and contrary to popular belief, the virus can eat through latex. researchers wore two pairs of gloves ("double bagging!") and the virus was still pentrating the two layers of latex. that's really creepy to think about.
AIDS isn't the only thing to worry about. there's herpes, which is freaking' gross and incurable to boot. there's crabs, which are curable, but in the meantime (several weeks) your genitals itch very very badly. (i know that b/c a friend of mine's husband (now ex-husband) cheated on her and got crabs, then purposely gave them to her. she couldn't hardly function she was in so much pain. and then there's chlamydia, gonorrhea, and a bunch of other not-fun stuff, most of it incurable.
point is, if you are really that uncomfortable about it, don't go out with her.
she seems to be going through the "i have a low self-esteem so i'm going to sleep with whatever moves and take whatever drug is offered" phase. she's probably actually a good person. you sound like a decent guy, so if you really like her- tell her (and i know you don't want to man, but bear with me if you really like this girl, this is how you do it.) that you do like her, but you want to take things slow and get to know her first. let enough time pass until you two have decided whether you really like each other or not. if you do, make up some sob story about a female cousin of yours that got gonorrhea and couldn't marry the guy she was engaged to. say you'll get tested if she will. and even if you are a virgin, do go through with it. (you've lied to her enough already)
2006-11-19 12:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aids and hiv are transmitted through the blood line not saliva. but many other things can be transmitted by kissing. If you really think she could have hiv or aids encourage her to go get tested asap.
2006-11-19 12:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by nickieandsarahsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get mononuleosis along with the usual flu or cold or even AIDS if it is deep kissing and she has it and you have bleeding gums. you can also get herpes. AIDS and HIV are the same thing. look for a decent girl . a virgin is best.
2006-11-19 12:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. she's at risk of having at least one type of std. if she's had oral sex, she could have ghonnerea, which you can get from kissing her. if you like her and you are considering going out with her and you're worried that she does have an STD, ask her politely if she has been tested for HIV. if she's offended, then she's not the girl for you.
as for the smoking.. you can't get a disease from that. if you don't mind it, then whatevuh.
2006-11-19 12:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What all can you get from swapping body fluids...and would french kissing fall into this category? And then where does it go from there????...........????? I think if you play with fire you take the chance you could get burned.....There are more choices of girls I do believe. A few minutes of stupidity can lead to a lot of misery and who knows what. Don't think it can't happen to you that is a mistake many have made. Only you control that portion of your future....make a wise choice, please!
2006-11-19 12:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about hiv or Aids but you can pick up on a little something called mono. It's not as bad and it's fixable.
2006-11-19 12:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mary Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously repulsive to you so why would you go out with her?
Saliva is exchanged during kissing and some viruses are known to travel with the saliva. Cold virus, Flu virus, mononucleosis, to name a few.
2006-11-19 12:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋