i really really like this guy.. for like 3 years now. and at some point, i'm pretty sure he liked me too. we started out as friends, talking at parties and such... but a few years have gone by now and i only see him in the halls because we aren't in any classes together. he'll focus on me in the crowd, and is extra quiet around me. and if we ever talk, he'll look at my lips. (my friends tell me all this- before they even knew i liked him) he's really shy, and according to my friends, treats me differently. he's had gf's, but he's single now... anyway, i was wondering how i could get him to loosen up and notice me WITHOUT asking him out right away. (that would be awkward since i haven't talked to him for so long). also, do you think he likes me? i'll give lots of points to the best answer if it helps...
2006-11-19 12:13:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him, and honesty is the best. If you have to break the ice use some white out. I take it you only see him now during school. Here's how to use the white-out. Buy a new bottle somewhere at the store's you go to or at school if they sell it. Walk over to him when you see him again and ask him to open it for you, then tell him the truth after he opens it, I asked you to open this just so I could talk to you, so do you like football? And ask. Don't be shy Talk to him like a person.
2006-11-19 12:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Vernon T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you should go for it. You obviously have really strong feelings for him and your right with the assumption to take it slow. You should hang out more get to know each other a lot more and all over again. Do school activities with him, get yourself interested in some of the things he is so you two have something to start a conversation over. Try surprising him with things that you know about him that he thought you forgot or things no one else knows. Then after some time you should ask him out and the worst thing that will happen is he's not interested in you that way. So at least you will know for sure and won't be wasting your time and energy thinking about him and can move on. Good luck and have fun.
2006-11-19 20:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not TOO shy, since he's had a girlfriend before. You might get rejected by asking him out, but isn't that better than 3 years of uncertainty?
2006-11-19 20:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off do u think he likes you? not by whast your friends say but what you fell. second if you like him have one of your friend or his friends tell him you like him. this might presuade him in to letting you know if he likes you or not.or ask him out. now adays that stuff doesnt matter who asked who things like that. but just becasue he is shy doesnt mean you got to walk on eggshells so he doesnt not like you. i mean if he likes you and you like him one of you got to step up to the plate and ask the other or you will never know what it would be like
2006-11-19 20:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by loveinit2345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can get him somewhere with you privately and talk to him what you feel about him.
2006-11-19 20:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Neji H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you don't want to ruin your friendship. I have been there.
2006-11-19 20:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋