Singles & Dating - 17 November 2006

I'm 22 and waiting until I'm married to have sex. I'm currently dating a girl who has lived with a guy, slept in the same bed as him and had sex several times with him over 2 years. She's only 20. She's a Christian now though but I can't get over the fact that she has been with another guy intimately!!! Are there any guys who are or have been in my similar situation? What helped you get over that? I need some real, Christian guy advice. Serious answers only please.

2006-11-17 06:41:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 06:41:15 · 14 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1

fire_child answered idk, I am not sure what that means.

2006-11-17 06:39:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little under five months, and we're just now planning a two-week vacation to Thailand together in February. I wonder if it is too soon to plan a get-away together? I've known him for a while - we work in the same building and started dating after I broke it off with my ex. We spend most of our spare time together and do the back-and-forth between his place and mine each night, so I'm familiar with his habits and quirks.

We have the same goals and expectations in terms of travel, so I thought he'd make a great traveling partner. I adore him, but I just worry that it may be too soon to plan a vacation away together. Has anyone had any good/bad experiences regarding this? I know it's been a short time, but I feel really secure in this relationship, even more so than in my past, five-year relationship with my ex.

Thoughts?

2006-11-17 06:39:05 · 8 answers · asked by Ehlena 2

I have a boyfriend of one month, and we we're sitting together and he kept putting his hand beside him on the seat, playing with his jeans, and stuff. I really don't know how to "de-code" the signal(s) so couold anyone offer some tips so I could know and how to respond?

2006-11-17 06:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a bf. But we always fight. We love eachother though. Its been 4 and a half years, but we always have stupid little fights and I always end up feeling so low about myself.

I know its my fault because i always ask stupid questions to get him mad, but i cant help it.

Does anyone know where im coming from?
What can i do to stop having these negative thoughts and just be happy?

:o(

2006-11-17 06:37:39 · 17 answers · asked by Miss L 1

what would your dream first date be like? where would you go?
and finally what was your first date like and where did you go?

please answer them all :)

2006-11-17 06:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im going out tomorrow on a date with a girl that i adore!We are going through a serious and real relationship and I dont wana ruin anything tomorrow.She is the type that goes out with men for the sake of mature realtionships and not only sexual satisfaction.I havent talked with her abt sex but i really do not know whether i should french kiss her tomorrow or just back off a lil bit until we get to know each other more.She has explained to me that she wants to have tomorow a mature chat along with a nice dinner but the kissing part is still kinda vague and i dont wana push her away.So should I go for it tomorrow or just back off(I sometimes end up in bed due to a simple kiss and i dunno what to do )

2006-11-17 06:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no money, am not 21 yet, and one of my roomates (the one I hang out with) is going to be out of town. : (

2006-11-17 06:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Indiana Jonas 4

I am very afraid of people leaving me. My ex-fiancee used this weakmess. He needed my money, so he coerced me into giving him money and threatened me to leave all the time. He not only took away 4000 US dollars from me, he also beat me up badly, cursed me all the time, and emotionally abused me cruelly. he now works at a U.S. university as a post doc. I asked him and his father to pay me back my money, but they refused. He even threatened me. I know he is afraid that somebody might find out the unhumanely things he did to me. I was in a much better shape before I was involved with him. Now I am emotionally devastated and financially broke. I can't forgive nor forget his cruelty towards me. I want to write to his professor and collegues to let them know the truth. Can I do that? I don't think such a beast should be a professor. Should the woman take all the pain and let the man get away with everything? He faked his bachelor's degree paper too. Should I tell?

2006-11-17 06:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by Sally 1

I recently , by accident , discovered my mate signed up and made a generic profile on MAte 1. I am upset about this and he thinks I am over-reacting... Is it ok for your mate to browse online date?? or ( as I see it) ... Dating is Dating... if your chasing then your not taken.... ???

2006-11-17 06:35:14 · 23 answers · asked by c_leoo 4

Wow my friend whom has not even asked me to be his g.f yet is driving me crazy, ok i love him but he does these things that oh my goodness drives me mad, like his ex lives dwn the street so he likes to taunt her so he drives dwn the street playing his music all loud, oh and this guy can eat, alot tht is a lil grossish, oh and if he dnt get enough sleep he takes out his lil grumpy mood wit me but oooh no i cant complain about his complaining, oh and if hez hungry watch out for him!!!! Feed him quick or else he will lose it, oh and last but not least, man o man does this man have road rage like a mo fo!!!!!!! Ahh I love him but I hate him at times and hez a total charmer wow great buttkisser too!!!! I need advice on things I can do to blow off some steam before breaking up with this guy. HELP!!!! Oh and hez 23 and im 24 in case ya'll wanted to kno.

2006-11-17 06:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by ))-->rOXY 3

well this guy asked me out 2 be his lady and well i like him but i think deep inside i only think of him as a friend he is really nice and he is very difrent from all other guys i've ever met. :p

2006-11-17 06:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by princess 1

2006-11-17 06:33:30 · 10 answers · asked by Hank S 2

or don't u feel ur less then other girls which look better than u?this really interests me

2006-11-17 06:32:50 · 17 answers · asked by :(_I,suffer 1

2006-11-17 06:31:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 06:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by lucky_b3 1

My husband lent me his car, i drop him off at work then went to work. I had to pick him up after work in the night, after work i went to get a spa pedicure done since our Anniversary is coming up. I did not tell him, i told hm i would be in the office. till he finish work then i'll pick him up. Where the spa was located the is no reception for cell calls......1/2 way throught the process i check my phone and notice 10 miss call from my husband.......when i do get reception he called again and yell at me.........her got vex and didn't speak to me going home and he said " that's is i feed up" i don't want to tell him i went to a spa....... cause he know i was waiting for him to call and come pick him up.....

2006-11-17 06:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4

2006-11-17 06:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you think a lady should partake in a date. What do you think that a man would always want his woman to wear on a date and why?

2006-11-17 06:29:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

OMG! I broke up with my BF about 2 months ago, and i can't get him off my mind. I've called him and texted him, but his mom told mine he dosen't know what to do. We go to different schools so i don't see him anymore. I wrote him a letter and was going to leave it on his doorstep, but i don't want to do that if he hates me! I was horrible to him and called him like once in 2 months, but we went out for 8 MONTHS! I really don't know if i should call him or let him call me when he's ready. HELP PLZ!

2006-11-17 06:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant take rejection cause i've never had a boyfriend. i soo want to be swallowed up into the ground cause one of my guy mates told him, wat if he hates me? im 16, helpxxx

2006-11-17 06:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy but i can't tell him i 'm 2 scared. i was liking him since the first time i saw him

2006-11-17 06:29:04 · 21 answers · asked by tini_the_queen 1

i love a girl!...she dont know me but i love her...she's beautiful,kind,good listener, i know all this because i've been watching her with her friends....owh, and she's talkative too, i would really like to hear all her story!...even if it is boring...but she dont even know me......

2006-11-17 06:27:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf has a job and now I'm getting a job. I'm only asking for 20 hrs and for his job, it's more of whenever they need him. This week he worked from Tues. to Fri 3-9. This is a good week. So, what we are afraid of is the fact that we're never going to see each other. I mean with both of us having school in the morning then going to work at night, i just don't know how we are going to manage. i don't want the job but my parents are forcing me to get a job. But what hurts the most is that he's going to get tired of not seeing me and leave. And i love him so much. i have never felt this way for someone before. i can't even go one day with out seeing him but i know that eventaully everything will be alright. What i really want to do is save up for me and him to get an apartment but that's going to take a while and also i got school to pay for. i don't know. I'm just afraid that i'm going to lose the only person i ever loved. Does anyone who's been this have any advice?

2006-11-17 06:27:04 · 5 answers · asked by ronnie 2

I have been given these tablets by my doctor will they help me get better and take away my past life thoughts that i am having too

2006-11-17 06:25:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what makes a guy stare at you? and how do you know if a guy likes you by the way you dress? im asian and brown, will this attract guys to you or am i not what guys find attractive, could you tell me? how can i make myself known cause im the only asian girl in my sixth form and i am wondering do guys like people like me?

2006-11-17 06:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing a girl for the past few months and we gotten to the point where we cuddle when we're together, hold hands when we go out, and make out, but she doesn't want to rush into a relationship at this time. She is pessimistic about what is going to happen if we were to be 'officially' together, like her being hurt. She feels this way because of a really bad experience with her ex-boyfriend. We are very compatible, could talk about anything, and also love to spend time together. She also told me she will be committed to me, as in only seeing me and not seeing other guys. I want to make this relationship official but she is hesitant. What should I do? Any comments?

2006-11-17 06:24:46 · 20 answers · asked by LostInTheFog 2

I kow that I don't want to be with him anymore because he has hurt me so much and I know he will contiue to cheat because I found out that this is the way he is. I want closure and to be able to completly forget about hi. Please help!!!!

2006-11-17 06:23:48 · 28 answers · asked by stephanie c 1

I am planning to change my name due to professional reasons. I am an Asian decent and need to have a western name. You know what they say...when in Rome...etc. Anyways, I like the name Evan but working in the Financial Industry, I fear that the name Evan sound too boyish, do you think?

So I am thinking about the name Howard. Is it a good name? I'm 24 years old and plan to use this name to the end. Image a fifty-year-old man sitting behind a desk giving you advice on how to invest. Would such a name Howard match such a man? Is Howard a good choice?


What comes to mind when you think or hear of the name Howard?

2006-11-17 06:22:48 · 12 answers · asked by Inquisit 2