how do I get over a cheating borfriend that I loved and adored so much. I fill lost and hurt without him.?

Question

I kow that I don't want to be with him anymore because he has hurt me so much and I know he will contiue to cheat because I found out that this is the way he is. I want closure and to be able to completly forget about hi. Please help!!!!

Answer 1

Move on with your life. Start going out with your friends and have fun. It will take awhile to get over someone you love but the sooner you go out and live your life again, the faster you will get over him.

Answer 2

You do have your closure. "I know he will continue to cheat because I found out that this is the way he is." That is your closure. Knowledge is the key to 'do something' to 'get your barrings straight' again. He did to you what he did to all the girls before you, and what he will do to all the girls after you. You leaving him was the best thing you could have done for yourself. Lift your chin and see him for the discusting pig he is and be thankful that you caught him and left him before he could bring any diseases home to you. You just may have saved your health and life by doing this for yourself. You do miss him, but more then anything you are heart broken because you think you are the one that he should have 'changed' for. How could he do this to you? You deserve better then that, doesn't he see that? Doesn't he see that you are different and special? And as it does ALL women he has bruised your ego. Its ok, it has happen to me a time or two or three. If you truly want to forget him, look at him as a creep who is going to die of some deadly disease because he can't commit to one woman and he can't keep his pants zipped up for no one. This was a sure fire way for me to curl my nose up at my ex's that cheated and once I realized that I had NO idea where they had been, they were NEVER touching me again. And I had no problem seeing them as a cuddy infested creep that I wanted nothing to do with. YOU are better then him and you are better then this way you are feeling. Cheer up, there are still nice guys out there, you just have to weed through the bad like we all do. Blessed be................

Answer 3

What girl has not gone through "the cheating boyfriend"?, and the only thing you can do is ventilate with your gf's, family and go out, shop, get a new hairdo, go to the gym, if you are a student....engross yourself with school and if you are in the workforce, engross yourself in work...basically keep your mind busy, busy, busy...you will see even if it takes 6 weeks or 6 months, you will triumph! you will forget! Remember...a cheating partner can only bring you down, lower your self-esteem and worst case scenario...can also pass on to you an STD if he or she is not careful. Your emotional and physical health is more important than this guy, a partner should make you feel better about yourself in every sense. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Write your self a letter ,
To my best friend Stephanie,Because you are my best friend , I got your back , and I am never going to allow ---his name-- or another man to do this to you again. I will choose carefully in the future who and what I allow in my life .I do not deserve for some one to do this to me , Even though I feel such intense pain right now I will get through it ,I will be stronger and wiser ,And yes I will go through the stages of mourning but I'll come out O.K. and now that I've taken control of my destiny and made the decision not to let someone break my heart when ever he gets the urge,I am left with the knowledge that I am capable of opening my heart and truly loving some one Only when and if I find some Worthy and capable of the same. I expect love and respect in return for mine. and this is a list of all the reasons why I won't except less;

and actually make a list of every ugly moment every lie and every time you even flinched with pain and every time you feel tempted to call or give in or when your having a good cry read your letter ugly list included plus read it everyday for at least a month and later when it stops hurting and you run into him and old feelings rush in read it again everyday until you love yourself to much to take that crap and sign it Love, Your friend Stephanie
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Answer 5

Start dating other guys. Keep telling yourself that you do not deserve a cheating boyfriend. Time will heal the wounds although it may not feel like it at the moment. I am a believer in the rebound thing because it actually does help. Just go out and have fun to distract your mind for a while.

Answer 6

When you give yourself to someone something so special as God gave you, it was intended for married couples. They become a part of you, one flesh. When he cheated on you, he lost respect for you and broke the trust. If those bonds are broken you have nothing. Give yourself a chance and be open to dating other people or you will never get closure.

Answer 7

Sorry...Time and your friends is the only answer . STAY BUSY. Do not allow yourself to sit around and think about him. Join something that will keep you busy. My best friend moved away and we did everything together. I got involved doing some direct marketing sales and I'm busy every night. Good Luck! I know you don't want to hear it but there will be someone 100 times better come along, be patient

Answer 8

time will help heal that situation, i had two really bad relationships like that, and i thought i would never get over it.. but i did.. you need to decide that he is not worth crying over anymore, because he's not crying over you, be strong and get past it. if you have anything that reminds you of him, get rid of it, or throw it in a box, and hide it away until you do want to get rid of it. or if you decide to keep it, when your over him, open it and say i will never make that mistake again... just try to take one day at a time move forward, not backwards. im sure he hurt you alot, and its ok to hurt for a while just don't hurt forever, let him go... good luck and remember you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince...

Answer 9

It is going to hurt very much to get over someone that was so close to you, but in time that hurt will leave. You have to surround yourself with positive people and enjoy yourself as much as possible. In time, you won't miss him as much. You shouldn't feel lost without him, because you are a whole person on your own! good luck

Answer 10

Saty busy, busy, busy. Do whatever you have to do to keep your mind off of the loser. Get involved in your favorite hobby and stop thinking about him. Get out and meet new people. Hang out with your friends and family because they can always cheer you up and make you feel good again. Eventually, the pain will fade and you won't even be able to remember the loser's name. Good Luck!