My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little under five months, and we're just now planning a two-week vacation to Thailand together in February. I wonder if it is too soon to plan a get-away together? I've known him for a while - we work in the same building and started dating after I broke it off with my ex. We spend most of our spare time together and do the back-and-forth between his place and mine each night, so I'm familiar with his habits and quirks.
We have the same goals and expectations in terms of travel, so I thought he'd make a great traveling partner. I adore him, but I just worry that it may be too soon to plan a vacation away together. Has anyone had any good/bad experiences regarding this? I know it's been a short time, but I feel really secure in this relationship, even more so than in my past, five-year relationship with my ex.
Thoughts?
2006-11-17 06:39:05 · 8 answers · asked by Ehlena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO AHEAD, ENJOY. TRIPS ARE NEVER BAD. JUST DON'T SET YOURSELF UP FOR FAILURE BY PUTTING ALL YOUR EXPECTATIONS INTO IT. ALSO, DON'T FORGET TO TAKE A BOOK/ IPOD FOR THOSE AKWARD SILENCES. YOU SEEM TO LIKE HIM, SO STOP OVERANALYZING AND HAVE FUN.
2006-11-17 06:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by prettyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are mature adults and have discussed this trip in detail, I am sure. It should be a time for fun and relaxation. It doesnt matter that it's only been 5 months. My parents were engaged after 5 months. Sometimes traveling together can bring up some added stress, so you may want to prepare yourself for that. Bring a book, an Ipod or something on the plane, it's going to take a while to get there and you may not want to talk to him the whole way. Also, be as comfortable as possible on the plane, and try to enjoy your trip as much as possible. I am so jealous, I wish I could go to Thiland !!
2006-11-17 06:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way... Planning a vaca together will Be an amazing adventure together, but if you are worried, take a girlfriend with you! Vacations can make or break a couple, if you two are really in a good place together, then it will go smoothly, but if either of you are having doubts about this relationship, then this will be an ending pt and you will have seriously wished you'd taken someone else.
2006-11-17 06:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO. If there are times during the vacation you want some alone time, just say so, and make sure he's free to ask the same.
But if you get along so well, and love to travel, go for it.
It's really up to yourself if you have a good time or not.
2006-11-17 06:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think 5 months is too soon. It sounds like you have built a pretty close relationship pretty quickly, so i say, go for it. Anyway, going to Thailand sounds like a hell of a lot of fun.
2006-11-17 06:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by SimAlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are fine!! go, trust me.. i did!! its been long enough.. when you do go it will give you the opportunity to see if its something that you want to last for a long time or just a mistake and something you know longer want to waste your time on.. its all about learning dear.. goodluck and HAVE FUN!! i hear thailand is beautiful<33
2006-11-17 06:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, if he already invited you on trip, I dont think of you will scare him off by potential of inviting him on one too. in case you think of it's going to be a competent thought, and which you will nonetheless be collectively on the time, then decide for it. it's going to be a competent thank you to get to be attentive to one yet another extra useful.
2016-12-10 10:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you think that he is right for you and he won't break your heart in amillion pieces and you truly love him that is when you should
2006-11-17 06:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋