Singles & Dating - 16 November 2006

So last night my crush and I were talking on the phone about R. Kelly and his little pervie stuff. We were laughing and all. Since he is like 8 years older than me, I made a joke that if he and I ever had sex, he would end up being a child molestor. This was definitely a joke, but turn out, he got extremely mad at me. He was like a TOTAL PISSED OFF. So like for the nest 15 minutes, he kept going about how rude and insensitive I was and on and on and on even though I had apologized and said to him that it was only a joke. Now I am pretty upset about it. Do you think I was being insensitive for real or was he too uptight?

2006-11-16 12:48:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 12:47:34 · 4 answers · asked by Cops 1

Okay so there is this guy and i liked him sooooooooo much you can't even imagine. He kissed me on monday and again on tuesday, but on wednesday i called him and asked him to go to the dance with me and he said he doesn't like me anymore! My friend said that he still doesn like me but i am almost posotive he doesn't like me cause he is always ignoring me now! What is going on??


Please Help Me!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 12:46:30 · 13 answers · asked by lalagirl 1

a lot of boys at my school like me but my mom and dad said im to young for a boy frined but i want one my older cousin said i should sneck and have a boy frined.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 12:46:23 · 3 answers · asked by zanisha11 1

what race of women do men like most(asian,latina,black,chinese,japanese/ ect. me personally i am latina and no guys like me, i am 5'10'' 125 lbs, blue eyes, black hair and c cup my brothers friend say i am hot but there r only 14 and ppl my age dont like me

2006-11-16 12:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Jamie f 1

I have a male friend who is also friends with my husband. He just got married 3 mos. ago. He told me that he's not in love with her, doesn't trust her, and they have nothing in common. He just told me that they have more bad times than good. I have been married for almost 17 yrs. I've never cheated. I do have feelings for my friend. I've never told him, nor has he told me he has feelings for me. He doesn't spend as much time with me as he can, nor does he talk to me on the phone as much as he could. But the way he looks at me, I just don't know if I'm reading more into this. Should I tell him how I feel, even though we can't be together because I'm not a cheater--How can I know if his feelings for me are more than just friendship--I don't understand you guys---what should I do

2006-11-16 12:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know how to love because i am scard of it

2006-11-16 12:44:12 · 21 answers · asked by Dark~Deadly~Dangerous...I;m 3D 1

you guys are TOO mean.

2006-11-16 12:43:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long Story! Ok, 5 years ago she was dating (not committed) to another guy for a few months when we met. We did sleep together but the other guy asked her to be her boyfriend and she accepted. A year later she was cheating on him with me. We were seeing each other for like 8 months. (I was seeing other people and not committed to her at all at that time). It was killing her to be cheating on him and even hard for me to watch her pain so we stopped seeing each other. It was VERY hard to get over her. Now 3 years later we both just got out of relationship (hers was the same guy). I am over my ex (she was crazy!!) and now we have been seeing each other again (two weeks now). Here's the deal, He (here ex) did something messed up like 5 days ago and hurt her. She wants to deal with it alone. She feels she needs to get over him before we are together and I have been very supportive. I feel I really love her and always have...Am I crazy for putting myself in the same exact position to get hurt again or just wait it out and see how it goes? Give me your honest opinion anything will help. Thanks!!

2006-11-16 12:42:52 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Blonde 1

2006-11-16 12:42:25 · 7 answers · asked by hi miley your so kewl 1

Does he like me or am I imagining it?
Okay so there is this guy who is now single for like a week now and well on Monday we went to dariy queen with the school a few kids got to go and so we sat together on the van u know someone to talk to. We talked well then we got there and the whole time he would hold doors open and let me go first with every thing. So I sat down with my food and then he came and sat by me we talked then our principal gave us little tokens so we could get dessert and he asked me if I wanted dessert and I said yes and he actually went and got it for me I was so surpised then we talked and had a great time. I think he was staring at me yesturday at lunch so maybe he likes me. My friend talked to him about me and a couple of other girls who like him he said no way in hell would he go out with them. Then she asked about me and he changed the subject quick so what do I do do u think he likes me or what

2006-11-16 12:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

first contact?

2006-11-16 12:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends and i were discussing, so i wanted to get more insight.
thnx

2006-11-16 12:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women, please help, My girlfriend loves talking to me.. every day on the phone for three hours straight! She ignores it whenever i actually have to go do things. I don't want her getting mad at me for cutting a conversation short because when i have to leave I HAVE to leave. I tell her the truth and she don't like it. What do i do?

2006-11-16 12:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by Cold Fart 6

Is it cheating when your b/f hides things from you while he is chatting on-line or using Yahoo Messenager? I have caught him twice making "play dates" with other females! He says he would never go through with them and that its all in fun. Also signing up for dating services and saying he is single. No we are not married but we have been living together for 8 yrs. I am ready to blow his computer up! Yes we have a very good sex life too. And have done other adventerous things with another couple. So Whats up with this???

2006-11-16 12:39:45 · 21 answers · asked by Sweety 2

2006-11-16 12:39:42 · 37 answers · asked by loveless 1

2006-11-16 12:38:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do to become friends with a girl I dont know?

2006-11-16 12:37:41 · 7 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

2006-11-16 12:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 9 months left for Thailand for a LONG holiday (8 months). We're still together and we love each other to pieces... but if ever i see anything that belongs to him or go to his house and see his room, i break down and cry and feel like a big chunk has been ripped out of me. Do you think i'm just dead soft and get myself together and stop being so pathetic or do you think this is normal?? Any advice to get on with things?

2006-11-16 12:33:10 · 29 answers · asked by honeypot56000 2

Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 2 1/2 months ago. At first we didn't talk and she started dating someone else a couple of days after we broke up. She told me then that there would never be a chance for us to ever be together again. She worked at the same place I did and quit cuz she got a job somewhere else. I gave her a hug the last day she was there and it turned into a long hug where she started to cry. Lately she has be calling me and we have talked almost everyday for about a week. She came into work a couple of days ago and gave me three hugs that she initiated before she left. She called me yesterday and wants me to help her with getting her brakes fixed so she is going to pick me up tomorrow so I can help her. She is still going out with this other guy. What does all this mean, and what do I do if I still love her and want to get back with her. We were together for 3 years, and I have always thought of her as the one that I wanted to marry someday. Thank You

2006-11-16 12:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by fxtrader 1

ok...there is this guy from church...i like him ALOT...i think he likes me...but idk...he flirts w/ me...and i flirt w/ him back...weve been friends for like 6 yrs...and every sunday in church i sense someone staring at me...then i look up...the guy that i like is staring at me...then he looks away real fast...it happens all through church...i want 2 go out w/ him...im thinking of having my best friend do it...but idk...i would do it myself...but im too much of a wimp...should i have my friend do it...o ya...im a freshman (14) and hes an 8th grader (14 also)...we are from different schools though...what should i do about this whole deal w/ me and him??...and do u think he likes me??...please help...thanks

2006-11-16 12:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by lil_hott_stuff 1

Right now I have a crush. We've been flirting and talking and stuff, and things have been going so awesome that I was getting close to asking him out. But then this girl who I REALLY hate somehow found out that I'm crushing on him, and she went right up to his face one day and told him that I like him. Now I feel awkward around him, and I hardly ever talk to him. I basically just avoid him as much as possible. But this could be bad, because he could think I'm not into him or something. He seems the same, but he's gotten more quiet and he keeps looking at me more. What should I do? Should I act like nothing happened or dive in and ask him out?

2006-11-16 12:29:18 · 8 answers · asked by Gizelle 3

I dreamt I was Having sex with a total stunner, she had the most amazing A*se I've ever seen and was so sexy. But it wasnt my Girlfriend. I feel I have cheated on her, although it was beyond my control. I dont know whether or not i should tell her. I woke up and didn't find my GF as attractive as usual, and I feel so guilty now. Am I vain, or am I thinking too much into it? Will she label me a pervert? will she summise that I want to have sex with someone else?

2006-11-16 12:28:05 · 28 answers · asked by Proinsias 2

I don't know what to do. The thing is I love my bf very much, we have been together for about a year. I really can't see myself without him but at the same time, I don't think he is for me. It is jus't the way he is, like I am into guys who show they care rather than say it but he is not good or into showing his feelings. We have talked about this and he always says he will try harder to but he doesnt' I don't think you can change a person. So I don't know what to do...I love my bf and want to be with him but I also would like a bf that is caring and shows his love for me just by doing little things.

2006-11-16 12:25:48 · 10 answers · asked by cutiepatootie179 1

just found out my boyfriend has some friends that I knew nothing even heard of them. These are not new friends, we have been together for a while nowabout that he hangs out with regularly. I have never met them or and this is so strange and sudden. He also hangs out at this methodist center and I never knew that he went there why would he not tell me, he is not even methodist?

I even asked him about who he was with today (he was with a male friend of his, which i am certain of) and he says that he was alone at his apartment and he was not with anyone.
What does this mean?
WHY DOES HE HAVE TO LIE ABOUT SOMETHING SO SIMPLE? He says that he wants me to trust him but how?????

2006-11-16 12:24:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sheesh...........i just want to know.........GOSH

2006-11-16 12:24:15 · 21 answers · asked by . 2

2006-11-16 12:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by pinkjonsie 1

I want to get him the right gift. I thought about breaking up but want him to know I feel different now.
He's the 1 who wants to celebrate it. I could care less.
See i thought about breaking up cuz I have a problem with the whole long-distance thing. I cheated on him then but not now and now he's back home. HELP?????

2006-11-16 12:23:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can i 4get my ex if i love him so much.He was actually my first love and he told me he loved me too but i dough it 'cause he hangs out more wit his homegurl than wit me.We had problems 4 two weeks and didn't talk in those 2 weeks then we talked about everything that was going on b-tween us and we got to the point that we weren't gonna get mad at eachother no more but 2 days laters i saw him and he was doing the same s**t n that hurt me and i had to broke up wit him. We lasted 1 month and the day after we turned 1 month i broke up wit him. I'm not planning to get back wit him 'cause being in that relationship hurts me a lot but the only problem is that i don't know how to get'em out of my mind and heart...HELP PLEASE!!!

2006-11-16 12:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by ***i <3 Mi BABi*** ^:J&K:^ 2