i dont know how to love because i am scard of it
2006-11-16 12:44:12 · 21 answers · asked by Dark~Deadly~Dangerous...I;m 3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r made of love - you already embody love it is not something you need to know how to do....i get love from you in your question..it is gorgeous!
better you just keep not knowing how to love or you will do all that stupid fake stuff everyone does..
your question is lovely and everyone who reads it can feel your love and your beauty!!! ask them....it is true!!
just keep not knowing how to love ....you are doing great
2006-11-17 06:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure? Have I've been (in) love, lust or love, yes! But sometimes I question, if I put my whole heart in it? When the going gets tough, I tend to get going....it just hurts to much and I don't feel like dealing! But I have someone that just won't give up on me, or let me go, hey maybe that's love? Don't Liston to my ramble-just do it!!! As they say it's better to have loved then to never of loved at all! Something like that-It's true & Scary !
2006-11-16 20:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love passionately. There is no systematic way to love. It's a feeling of goodness that you want to share. But, the irony is you can't love anyone else unless you love yourself first. I'm sorry to hear that you are afraid of love. It actually never hurts. If it does then you're loving too much which isn't healthy to your mind, body, or spirit. Take baby steps...love will find it's way to you and then you won't be afraid of it.
2006-11-16 20:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can't be taught. Love is the one emotion and feeling that every human being seeks to have. First you have to love yourself before you can love someone else or expect someone to love you back. It's normal to be scared of ebing in love because your afraid of being hurt. However, you have to use your judgment and you will know when you are in love. You can't rush it because that's when things go wrong. Life is about taking risks and you have to get to know someone really well and then trust that they will be honest and won't hurt you.
2006-11-16 20:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember! you must first love yourself before loving anyone else. If you are afraid of getting hurt, maybe its because you've been looking at the wrong guys that's why you are feeling insecure. ALSO stop looking for love he will come to you when you are ready, you'll see!!!
2006-11-16 20:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always loved with all my heart, can't stop myself. Even though I've been rejected, dumped, mistreated, and crushed. I've cried myself to sleep for months on end over ended romances, but I've never been able to not give all that I have. Loving isn't about what you can get from someone, it's about what you can give. It's being patient, understanding, forgiving, caring, listening, sharing...letting someone get close to you....close enough to hurt you, but trusting in them that they won't.
2006-11-16 20:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself first... and then the urge to love another human being will come as a consequence.
Just remember that true love cannot be planned or foreseen. It just happens, and you will feel it when you least expect it.
2006-11-16 20:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a scary thing if you try. I was scared at first too but when I got sick of being tired I just went for it and tried to be smart about it and come to find out I AM IN LOVE!
2006-11-16 20:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Bre Bre 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lose the fear you have that keeps you at a distance and unwilling to allow yourself to be vulnerable to pain and hurt if it does not go your way. There is no pleasure without the possibility of pain. Such is life.
2006-11-16 20:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you find that special someone you will know right away how to love. All you will want to do is make that one person in your life happy no matter what.
2006-11-16 20:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by BRENDA P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋