Women, please help, My girlfriend loves talking to me.. every day on the phone for three hours straight! She ignores it whenever i actually have to go do things. I don't want her getting mad at me for cutting a conversation short because when i have to leave I HAVE to leave. I tell her the truth and she don't like it. What do i do?
2006-11-16 12:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by Cold Fart 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest and explain to her exactly what you just said. Well maybe in modified girlfriend terms...if she doesn't like it or get mad at you for it, that's her problem because it's not like you're trying to be mean, and it's not like you don't want to talk to her. She'll get over it, she has to. Don't take any crap for it later either. Not saying that she does that, but if she does. Be the dominant one and don't let her control you!
2006-11-16 12:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if telling her the truth doesn`t work then i`ve always heard a little white lie has never hurt does try saying something like so and so needs to use the phone like your mom are someone but if it was me and i was your girl i would want you to tell me the truth and if it makes her mad then o well she will get over it if theres things you have to do then go do them as long as it ain`t stupid things she should understand but sometimes you have to put your foot down and just let her get mad she`ll be ok .how can you talk on the phone for 3 hours omg!!! thats really crazy it does m e good to talk for an hour but 3 i would go in a coma anyways i really hope i could help you
2006-11-16 20:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, is she talkative. What if suddenly u have to go to the loo..? Good thing, u told her but too bad if she didn't like it. There's nothing much u could do could u?
If she truly loves u, she should be everwilling to release u for a while. Otherwise this whole relationship should be given a second thought. Good luck.
2006-11-16 20:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how are you cutting the conversation short and what are you saying? Women tend to take that as if you aren't listening to them. WE LIKE TO TALK. WE are emotional beings therefore we express ourselves freely. That doesn't mean we are weak or nagging. That's just who we are. Try participating in the conversation instead of just listening. You might like it! Then she not take it so bad when you tell her that you have to go.
2006-11-16 20:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by BreezyBaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really gives u a hard time and you really must go..just be like ohh my stomach hurts...I gotta go to the bathroom! Weird but it will work ...she can't do nething when nature calls! Instead of talking so much..bring up the idea of texting..much easier, quicker, and less invasive =)
2006-11-16 20:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can't possibly be three hours of things to talk about EVERY DAY. Be firm and just tell her you have to go
2006-11-16 20:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her nicely that you really need to go and it's important. If she doesnt stop dont answer the phone
2006-11-16 20:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain it to her, and tell her it is not against her, you love to talk to her, but you can not ignore your own responsibilities and she wouldn't want you to or she does not care about you as much as she says she does.
2006-11-16 20:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say up straight "I don't want to hurt your feelings but when I say I have to go don't be offended if I just go. It is nothing about you, I just have to go to work(Or wherever)" If she doesn't accept this then she is a bit unstable, this is not normal behaviour.
2006-11-16 20:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain it to her the way you explained it to us. If she can not be happy with the truth, what more can you do?
2006-11-16 20:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by MyName 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋