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Right now I have a crush. We've been flirting and talking and stuff, and things have been going so awesome that I was getting close to asking him out. But then this girl who I REALLY hate somehow found out that I'm crushing on him, and she went right up to his face one day and told him that I like him. Now I feel awkward around him, and I hardly ever talk to him. I basically just avoid him as much as possible. But this could be bad, because he could think I'm not into him or something. He seems the same, but he's gotten more quiet and he keeps looking at me more. What should I do? Should I act like nothing happened or dive in and ask him out?

2006-11-16 12:29:18 · 8 answers · asked by Gizelle 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

8 answers

This is a very very common problem that I personally have seen and even dealt with. Conveniently from the other side of your problem (I am a male.) So hopefully I will have a fresh view for you.
Guys generally are put under the impression that it is their job to "Ask a girl out" if you will. If I was the guy that you had a crush on, then I would prefer that you would tell me, or make it painfully obvious, but do not press the subject anymore. If I like you back then odds are I will start showing it in my actions. If you see him starting to act less comfortable around you or anything, then there is a chance that it is because he is shy and uncomfortable around girls (usually only happens in younger guys, high school or below) or if he is an older man and starts to act like this, he is probably trying to avoid any confrontation in fear that it would make situations between the two of you worse. I am not sure if this helps you, but I hope it does.

2006-11-16 12:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by ambhelp 1 · 1 0

that is knd of like me.I always talk to my crush on the computer.I bet he knows i like him.'Cause at school,he she's me staring at him everysingle day!He doesn't talk to me at school which is kind of weird.But anyway,just wait a while and when your ready go ahead and talk 2 him THEN maybe ask him out

2006-11-17 14:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by s_lopez_2006 3 · 0 0

umm...acting like nothing's happen AND ask him out.
he might think ur not interested if you keep on avoiding
him. and you don't want that!!! so keep on talking to
him and act like nothing happened! you can ask him
out though, then he'll think that you're confident...if you
want him to think that
good luck~~
[:

2006-11-16 12:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0 0

well i know how u feel .....but once you see hwo thigns owrk more you learn to just be your same self ...i think you should write him in note and have him read it in your presence if you cant sya anythign to him just say i know you know i liek you and if you dont know well now you now so how do you feel about this and how do you feel about me but ye definently ask him how he feels ...cuz ull never know by being silent and good luck

2006-11-16 12:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by lilmizzd2002 2 · 0 0

Ask him out

2006-11-16 12:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0 0

wow that sounds virtually precisely like the area this lady in my gymnasium classification is going with the aid of. does your overwhelm handed off to be named sean? haha in simple terms thinking cuz thats the lady in my gymnasium classification's overwhelm. im sry i dont rather understand elementary methods to end this. in simple terms be extra careful whilst telling people who you like next time. as for suited now, overlook approximately it. thats the terrific i will thinkk of. in case you dont react to their teasing like they like you to, then they are going to end making exciting of you. it ought to take some days, even with the indisputable fact that it will all blow over. good success!

2016-10-22 05:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

you should just be your self and stop ducking if he don't like the real you oh well!!!!!! and let things ride by they self.

2006-11-16 12:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by LADRESHA D 1 · 0 0

Just tell him how you feel!

2006-11-16 12:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0 0

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