How can i 4get my ex if i love him so much.He was actually my first love and he told me he loved me too but i dough it 'cause he hangs out more wit his homegurl than wit me.We had problems 4 two weeks and didn't talk in those 2 weeks then we talked about everything that was going on b-tween us and we got to the point that we weren't gonna get mad at eachother no more but 2 days laters i saw him and he was doing the same s**t n that hurt me and i had to broke up wit him. We lasted 1 month and the day after we turned 1 month i broke up wit him. I'm not planning to get back wit him 'cause being in that relationship hurts me a lot but the only problem is that i don't know how to get'em out of my mind and heart...HELP PLEASE!!!
2006-11-16 12:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by ***i <3 Mi BABi*** ^:J&K:^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chalk it up to experience, and consider the loss his. You did not say but I suppose "first love" probably also meant first sex? You were serious about the relationship, but he was merely sewing more wild oats. Realizing this was a one sided affair should help ease the pain. You will never forget him, but he was truly not Mr. Right. He just had issues with his homegurl...and used you. Sometimes the truth hurts, but you can be wiser next time you get involved with someone. You are experiencing a very common array of emotions and it shall pass, but not without leaving a scar on your heart. Learn from this and put it behind you and move on. The only one hurting here is you and it is not worth the energy exerted.
2006-11-16 12:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible. There will always be a place in your hear for your first love. That's just life. Because you care for each other like that, doesn't mean that you are good for each other. If you can be friends, then be friends and maybe in a few years he will grow up enough that the two of you can give it another shot if you two happen to be single. If you can't handle seeing him anymore, let him know it hurts you too much to be around him, knowing that you couldn't make it work as lovers, because you care for him so much. Then stay away from him. Good luck. Life sux sometimes.
2006-11-16 20:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by cbr♥fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no what to say but move on i spent a whole summer waiting for my first love but he never loved me so just try to move on!
2006-11-16 20:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Casey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with other guys...eventually youll get over him.trust me that happened to me 2
2006-11-16 20:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by sk8r_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST NEED TO FIND SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ELSE TO FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-16 20:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRINK THREW IT
2006-11-16 20:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was an a** hole let go
2006-11-16 20:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by xx2dreamer2xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋