Singles & Dating - 15 November 2006

i'm just a very plain girl, and i never seem to get any attention (except much older guys where i work). i dont know why. or what to do. i mean, i have a great guy and i love him and wouldnt do anything with any one else, but still, it feels good to get noticed, kinda like a little mini ego boost, ya know? i refuse to dress slutty, but i dont have the body to pull off anything sexy. how do you get a guy (any guy) to notice you when you're the plain jane of the group?

2006-11-15 05:32:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to put this poem before class starts and while nobody is there. This is to prevent anyone from seeing who put it. As for people reading it nobody really cares about that stuff. Also it will be addressed to her but my name won't be written and shes always sitting in the same place since the beginning of the year. Also tell me how i should decorate the poem. I have an idea but i want other opinions.

To Pamela, the Princess of Mexico

When i think of the perfect woman
You are the only one that comes to mind

With the intelligence of a genius,
Eyes of an angel,
Hair as soft as silk,
And a smile that lights up a room,
No wonder you are God's only work of art

You're an amazing woman, an amazing person
You're special and irreplaceable in my heart

2006-11-15 05:32:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 05:31:44 · 12 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

i keep meeting the same type of men over and over again. are there any men out there who want to marry first before having sex with a woman. i am not even a very sexual person-i went celibate for 13 years before meeting one boyfriend. How long should you hold off in having sex with a current love interest?

2006-11-15 05:31:28 · 17 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1

I have tried lovehappens.com, as well as plentyoffish....and myspace

what now

2006-11-15 05:30:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 14 and i like this one girl that's 13 and she likes me and we both have over protective parents. i want to ask her out but both of our parents won't let us date. what should i do.

2006-11-15 05:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by zemke14 1

2006-11-15 05:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-11-15 05:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

mine is smile and sense of humor.

2006-11-15 05:28:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 05:28:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my grildfriend want to get engaged for a few years. we have been talking about marrage for a while now. i went out and bought a engagement ring and want to propose to her.

what is the best way to approch her and the best way you prefer to say?

if i were to do it today on a wednesday would that be fine?

2006-11-15 05:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Through The Eyes Of The Dead 2

I was dating someone online for 3 mos, who just recently was diagnosed w/blood cancer. Is there a cure to this, or it be an error? does a person die shortly, my boyfriend wants to break things off, he just feels -- things are not going to go as we hoped. I am just really devestated, and not able to let go of things or forget my feelings for him....please help me and give a explaination to blood cancer, I want to be on his side -but, dont want him to push me back


I spoke with him, and asked him, to make things easier on me, please tell me" not to speak to you ever again, and to never call you". he wouldn't give me an answer and just said, "just do as your heart tells you, and to forgive me, because I found this out". On the dating site, where we met, his profile was hidden before and now he has "deactivated it completely". I am just sooo heart broken, How can i forget 3 mos of every night talks we had, "all" night long, literately every nite....

2006-11-15 05:27:11 · 7 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1

2006-11-15 05:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

He has pulled me over again, now it was in the middle of the day. He knows the car, its an old green impala. I wasn't drinking that time but still don't have a license/insurance.

I'm gonna get a different car and put on dark tinted windows so I can go out drinking again. I won't meet any broads staying home drinking alone.

What can I do to spite this cop? Find out where he lives?

2006-11-15 05:24:35 · 20 answers · asked by everyyoungwomansdream 1

The guy has green eyes

2006-11-15 05:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for several months. Everything was going off great! He was the sweetest, most romantic guy I have ever met!! We would talk every day, and hang out almost every day. About a week ago he started having problems with his job, which has been frustrating him, so I noticed that he becamed a little distant from me. About three days ago I was kind of frustrated and I talked to him that I felt he was a little distant from me. He told me that he was really stressed with his job, and fel that he had no life and also felt bad because he wanted to give me attention all the time and he could not. He said he needed some time off to figure out what he wants to do with his life. I feel really upset right now. I dont know if its really over or what....
What should I do???

2006-11-15 05:23:48 · 7 answers · asked by marcela r 2

my bf and i had a long converstation last nite. he said that he doesnt want to be boyfriend and girlfriend but that im still his girl and he doesnt want to lose me. i dont know what to say or do. he just wants to do his own thing. but yet he doesnt want lose me what do i do. he know he has it good and doesnt want to lose me what do i do?!?!?! im so confused please help

2006-11-15 05:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do?? no matter what i always get overlooked on having morals compared with looks evry shallow girl gets the guys...and most of my friends are pretty should i not be friends with pretty people?

2006-11-15 05:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm having trouble sleeping at night. I've tried everything but doesn't work. I'm not stressed or anything. I just can't sleep!!

2006-11-15 05:20:20 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

we broke up not to long ago and i miss him like crazy and pretty soon his is going o be leaving for the army and im scared im not going to see him again because theres no telling what could happen to him.....so i need something to show him that he is my world and im be here waiting for him!

2006-11-15 05:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffany S 2

When did you loose your virginity and how? any regrets?

2006-11-15 05:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by lamante121 1

Meaning, guys - could you see yourself having a long-term relationship with someone who you were able to have sex with very easily?

2006-11-15 05:18:09 · 38 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

ok guys im doing a servay of wot age u lost ur virginity 4 school...if u fink im bein dodgey u dont need 2 answer but it's quite important and i dont want 2 go up 2 my mum etc and ask them so if it makes u feel better i lost myne at 17.

2006-11-15 05:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We love each other so much but we live so apart from each other. Should i end the relationship to someone near me or continue with the long distance relationship?

2006-11-15 05:17:13 · 7 answers · asked by Missy 1

I just have a question if this happens to anyone else at times and if so, should I even let it bother me?
There is a woman I am dating who at times I will get ahold of and she may be running an errand or something or another and she says she will call back later...and then for some reason may not that night. Now, its not like it happens all the time but it will happen on occasion and I don't know if it has anything to do with the time because she has called me later at night as well....or could it be just that it may have gotten too late since we last spoke and she felt it was too late to call in case Im sleeping?
It really seems like nonsense to bring it up to her, because it isn't like she doesn't call back at all and it could be just that something came up. It is just sometimes I feel like Im the one doing the calling but that really isn't the case and should this be something I should be concerned about or how do you all handle this situation ...do you just not let it bother you?

2006-11-15 05:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by chewey 2

Hi there =) !
So my situation is I met a girl in a party from university (2 months ago) and we start to talk like friends. I've asked her to go out for a coffee but only a month after i invited her she finnaly have time to go on a date (in my opinion she was testing me and testing if she was really atracted for me). The date was good, we talk and laugh for like 4 hours without stop. I know she is atracted to me but it seems to me that she is a little shy when she see me in the university. She's like the kind of girl who knows a loooot of ppl because she's really sweet with everybody, but not the kind of girl that go out with much guys, and with me she's shy. So my problem is how to get the girl :)
I really like her like no other girl I've ever have fallen in love. Today I was talking with some other girls and when she arrived I was testing her and it seems to me that she was jealous. Is that a good sign? We have saturday an exam. Should I ask her to study together? Thanks :)

2006-11-15 05:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a few years, and have been officially together for a few months. He is now leaving to go into the army, and i wanted to get hi9m soemthing special. I bought him a new watch (his is trashed). It was kinda expensive (like $350). and i think it may be too much (not money wise, but as a present). I dont want him to think im trying to keep him form leaving, or buy his affection. I dont know if i should give it to him or not. What does everyone think?

ps I know he cant take it to basic, and i know it would get beat up but thats what its for..to be used not looked at.

2006-11-15 05:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by AliceA. 1

I am staying for an hour and 40 minutes and 3 guys wanna see me during that time but i cant let them find out about eachother what do i do?

2006-11-15 05:15:01 · 9 answers · asked by godscutie415 1

this would be an actual offense of an agreed upon behavior standard

2006-11-15 05:14:51 · 9 answers · asked by oneman 2

my bf wants us to live together but its only been 4 months. i told him when we have r 7th then we should think about it more, but he wonts say anything after that he just looked really mad at me and acted as if i have something.what should i do?

2006-11-15 05:13:59 · 38 answers · asked by zevion 1