Blood Cancer?? Is he tryin to push me away or testing me???

Question

I was dating someone online for 3 mos, who just recently was diagnosed w/blood cancer. Is there a cure to this, or it be an error? does a person die shortly, my boyfriend wants to break things off, he just feels -- things are not going to go as we hoped. I am just really devestated, and not able to let go of things or forget my feelings for him....please help me and give a explaination to blood cancer, I want to be on his side -but, dont want him to push me back


I spoke with him, and asked him, to make things easier on me, please tell me" not to speak to you ever again, and to never call you". he wouldn't give me an answer and just said, "just do as your heart tells you, and to forgive me, because I found this out". On the dating site, where we met, his profile was hidden before and now he has "deactivated it completely". I am just sooo heart broken, How can i forget 3 mos of every night talks we had, "all" night long, literately every nite....

Answer 1

I hate to say it, but I would let him go. The odds are that he will not make it. He might live for a couple of years maybe more or less.

The problem is that you only know him for a few months and at that not in person. You will drain yourself and make him feel guilty for making you suffer. It is better that you let him go and keep the time you had together as one of his ways of living on.

Blood cancer is really something like leukemia. There are other cancers that start in the blood stream. Some can be treated and some not so much.

Look at the links in my source list for more information on blood related cancers.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 2

have you ever met the guy? sounds like a particularly cruel scam to me. Got too far into it with you, now needs to regroup and start a new profile. Sorry to be so skeptical, but online is Indian country.

Answer 3

properly... your question is packed with gaps. yet whilst he replaced into clinically determined with maximum cancers, and definitely is then he ould be going to the docs allot, and getting scientific care, he would additionally want you to to be there for him. make constructive he does not have an ailment, in line with probability attempt chatting together with his mom or something, considering if he have been ill and he would in all probability tell her too. if no longer then she would ask. Ask approximately appointments and stuff.. yet this does not in all probability look to hassle you, your extra asking approximately your self and your realationship. in case you certainly think of that somebody would be LIEING approximately maximum cancers then the lack of self belief is going the two procedures. and perchance that would desire to be your first clue.

Answer 4

Well, maybe he's afraid of how you'll react to it. Some people feel that being sick is an inconvenience to others. If you really love this guy, you need to let him know that. Let him know that this doesn't change the way you feel about him.

Answer 5

Chances are if he was an online relationship and referred to it as "blood cancer" he was probably yanking your chain for sympathy.

Blood cancer is leukemia, honey..

Answer 6

Lukemia can be cured, depends on how far along it is. i think he may be full of it, because he should want you to be with him if he really doeant have much time left. Maybe ask him for some kind of proof, call him house and ask his parents if you can do anything for him because of his cancer, and see if they go WTF?

Answer 7

leukemia is a deadly illness, there are no known cures. there are treatments to help prolong his life. leave him alone this is serious; hes in shock and overwhelmed. . now he needs to focus on himself and getting better.