i'm just a very plain girl, and i never seem to get any attention (except much older guys where i work). i dont know why. or what to do. i mean, i have a great guy and i love him and wouldnt do anything with any one else, but still, it feels good to get noticed, kinda like a little mini ego boost, ya know? i refuse to dress slutty, but i dont have the body to pull off anything sexy. how do you get a guy (any guy) to notice you when you're the plain jane of the group?
2006-11-15 05:32:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i have a great guy, but i always felt like i missed out on the dating scene. my bf was a really good friend before we started dating, so i never dressed to impress him, i just kinda got his attention because of my personality.
it just make me sooo jaded when some gorgous girl walks in the room and all the guys stop and stare and talk about her, i just wish that would happen for me at least ONCE!
2006-11-15 07:05:42 · update #1
A great smile will get them everytime!
2006-11-15 05:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to dress slutty to get noticed. Also, sexy is a state of mind. If you don't feel as if you have a the body or looks to pull off looking sexy then you won't and that could be why you don't notice other men looking at you.
2006-11-15 05:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A self esteem boost comes from the inside, and will never be fufilling from the outside. Perhaps it's time you stop wanting other's attentions, and give yourself the attention you crave. The minute you touch your stomach and say "You're a beautiful girl today" and practice it hard, so will other feel this. People are not attracted to someone who is drained of self-esteem, they are attracted to inner life and strength. The first place to become beautiful is inside, and to become beautiful, you must nourish yourself by dropping negative self-attacking behaviour. A psychologist can help you find this self-esteem seriously, it's hard to find it simply from a paragraph like this.
2006-11-15 07:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, be thankful for your blessings ( a great guy , who loves you) and appreciate what you have. Why seek the attention of others when you already know that you are beautiful enough to attract a decent man? Let me say this gently, I hope you won't mind, people who seek attention still want to prove something to themselves and to others. Feel secure about yourself. You don't have to prove anything. I'm sure you are a wonderful woman, don't go looking for two "birds" in the bush, when you have already one good "bird", in your hands. You might lose him.
2006-11-15 05:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to dress slutty to get attention. you can be sexy by wearing stylish clothes that fit you, and that accentuate your best features.
make-up, if done properly, will enhance natural beauty, rather than obscure it when too much is used.
change your hairstyle or color, (it's an option)
as the others stated: smile
2006-11-15 05:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that if you seem like your always having fun people gravitate towards you, no matter if your plain of not. Smile be happy guys want to hang out with chicks who are positive, not someone who brings everyone down. Try it:)
2006-11-15 05:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try coloring your hair, some colored contacts if you wear glasses, mini skirts with cute tights and boots, mixed with cute sweaters and tops. Go to the MAC counter and experiment with some make-up. You can email me a photo of yourself I am at calirulesgirl76 at sbcglobal (.) net. I do make overs on everyone!
2006-11-15 05:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by rulesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little makeup, a smile, a conversation...........Dress to impress, not slutty as you call it but dress as if to say that you are in the room and you are important and you are all about business
2006-11-15 05:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so damn plain! Thats why. Also cause "but i dont have the body to pull off anything sexy".
2006-11-15 05:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple google search : "How to stop a room full of under-sexed men" -- that's my advice there fussy britches...
2006-11-16 04:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by SkiHard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋