Hi there =) !
So my situation is I met a girl in a party from university (2 months ago) and we start to talk like friends. I've asked her to go out for a coffee but only a month after i invited her she finnaly have time to go on a date (in my opinion she was testing me and testing if she was really atracted for me). The date was good, we talk and laugh for like 4 hours without stop. I know she is atracted to me but it seems to me that she is a little shy when she see me in the university. She's like the kind of girl who knows a loooot of ppl because she's really sweet with everybody, but not the kind of girl that go out with much guys, and with me she's shy. So my problem is how to get the girl :)
I really like her like no other girl I've ever have fallen in love. Today I was talking with some other girls and when she arrived I was testing her and it seems to me that she was jealous. Is that a good sign? We have saturday an exam. Should I ask her to study together? Thanks :)
2006-11-15 05:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well trying to make her jelous and acting like you are interested in a bunch of other girls is immature and mean. If you truly love her, you won't do things like that. Just keep going slow. At least she has morals and isn't trying to sleep with you and marry you on the first date. Just keep talking to her, getting to know her, make her feel comfortable. Ask her to study and have a nice picnic or nice dinner while you study. Be romantic and take your time. IF you love her she is worth it. BUT quit acting immature and palying games.
2006-11-15 05:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, big turn off. It may be that she wants to put most of her energy into school until she's done. Ask her to study together, and keep it mostly studying. If it comes up, ask her if she likes you! What's the worst that can happen. If she says no, well then at least you'll know and that will not be the end of the world, you will live. If she is putting school first, respect that and do the same thing and then you'll have a shot at a loving and successful future together.
2006-11-15 05:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"when she see me in the university". Do you realize that you are not talking in proper English? Many Americans have been raised to speak properly or not at all. So, how you speak is a reflection on you....maybe she's not sure she likes this about you. "we talk and laugh for like 4 hrs without stop". Hey, buddy, your sentence construction needs some help. Go out with an English major!
2006-11-15 05:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sure sounds like you guys hit it off well with your first date. ;o) Don't be playing that jealous thing with her cause you might chase her off. Some women that's a turn off. Go ask her to study with you. Have a great time. good luck ;o)
2006-11-15 05:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't play games. Treat her like you would like to be treated. Be nice and polite. And above all treat her with respect. And if she is your soul mate believe me nothing can get in the way of an honest, pure and beautiful relationship. Give her some time to get her thoughts and priorities in place.
2006-11-15 05:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by kadesh_barnea2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly just be nice to the girl. Take her to a movie or out to dinner as friends and your next date could involve being more than friends
2006-11-15 05:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by lovetobake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep asking her on dates if she accepts she is interested. and slowly it would become a relationship if its meant to happen if not in time you will know. things would also change in school as the relationship progresses or not.
2006-11-15 05:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by charo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it sure is.
ask her to study together, it can be your chance of having a good time with her.
2006-11-15 05:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Moon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
noooo shop it that length its so lovable. infact enable it advance slightly longer. i see contained in the 'dry' photograph its extremely flat. ruffle it up slightly for some greater quantity. it is going to seem greater thick and healthful and informal. wtf is sophie B on approximately? hahha
2016-10-04 00:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is y is she shy if she has already been on a date with u??could it be becoz she doesnt wanna be SEEN with u???
2006-11-15 05:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋