What should I do???

Question

I have been dating this guy for several months. Everything was going off great! He was the sweetest, most romantic guy I have ever met!! We would talk every day, and hang out almost every day. About a week ago he started having problems with his job, which has been frustrating him, so I noticed that he becamed a little distant from me. About three days ago I was kind of frustrated and I talked to him that I felt he was a little distant from me. He told me that he was really stressed with his job, and fel that he had no life and also felt bad because he wanted to give me attention all the time and he could not. He said he needed some time off to figure out what he wants to do with his life. I feel really upset right now. I dont know if its really over or what....
What should I do???

Answer 1

I think you need to be supportive, but also obey his wish to stay away a little. He's not mad at you, he's just trying to get his life back on track and he told you this. I don't know everything about this person, but since they last their job, they may be having financial problems that they don't want others to know about cause they feel like a failure. I would call him every now and then to see how he's doing, see if there's anything you can do for him, and see if maybe he wants to have a night in with you. To me it sounds as though he still cares, but is ashamed of something. Hope this helped.

Answer 2

Just give him time. I don't know if you have ever felt like this before, but sometimes, peoples heads just get full of relationships, family, work and life in general.You don't know what to do, and feel miserable a lot of the time. It means that you just need a break from everything. Its basically like a very very very mild form of temporary depression.

Just send him a text every two or three weeks asking how he is, but don't ask to meet up with him, or say anything else, or mention what you have done, or any problems you have. It sounds like he has enough troubles of his own, which he needs to sort on his own.

DON'T BE UPSET THOUGH. He cleary doesn't want or mean to hurt you. I know how you must feel, but you must give him time to sort his head out.

Answer 3

your man seems a little depressed, a man feels he needs to have a good job. to support his girl friend or family. if things are not going right it gets a little stressful and depressing, my friend has gone though the same thing as you, it will be tough at times but all you can do is support him and be there for him, and understand what he is going through, dont leave him it may make him feel like a failure, and he cares alot for you, so just stick by him, withlove and support . hope this helps

Answer 4

Give him the space and move on with your life. Stop paying so much attention to him being distant, don't analyze him, men hate that. As for wanting to give you attention all of the time, don't expect that from anyone as your relationships will never be healthy. If you need more help, I am at calirulesgirl76 at sbcglobal (.) net.

Answer 5

Let him go. Holding on tight to someone who wants to be set free is counter productive...the more he will struggle to be out of your reach. But open your palm and let him go, and he will fly but will always come back to you when he realizes that he has wings with you.
Don't hold him back, he will return if you were meant to be with each other, if not, then there are still many fish in the ocean..

Answer 6

it is probably not over he is just stressed that he can not provide for you like he use to so just let him go through what ever it is he is going through and just support him at anything he asks you to do he is not cheating if that is what you are thinking men just have a different way of handling stress

Answer 7

if you like him let him do what he wants, chill