Why doesnt' she call sometimes when she says she will call back?

Question

I just have a question if this happens to anyone else at times and if so, should I even let it bother me?
There is a woman I am dating who at times I will get ahold of and she may be running an errand or something or another and she says she will call back later...and then for some reason may not that night. Now, its not like it happens all the time but it will happen on occasion and I don't know if it has anything to do with the time because she has called me later at night as well....or could it be just that it may have gotten too late since we last spoke and she felt it was too late to call in case Im sleeping?
It really seems like nonsense to bring it up to her, because it isn't like she doesn't call back at all and it could be just that something came up. It is just sometimes I feel like Im the one doing the calling but that really isn't the case and should this be something I should be concerned about or how do you all handle this situation ...do you just not let it bother you?

Answer 1

well you have a right to be questioning this situation...but is depends on what kind of relationship you haev, if you have a very open relationship, then you need to tell her rite away that this is bothering you, because if you do not tell her, she will keep doing it and eventually you will explode with all the hatred that you have been keeping inside....if you have a starting out relationship, then i think that she is just nervous and she doesn't want you to feel like she is clinging to you...what you need to do is, either way, you have to tell her...if she doesn't respond or tell you a very legitimate reason, then i don't think you sould be carrying on the realtionship, if she has nothing to offer you but hatred and unworthiness, there is something unhealthy with the relationship and you'd be better off with her...although it may be a bit rocky, you'll get past it

it is always better sooner than never...eventually you will look back at this and remember that you were right for having a problem with her, but that only makes a relationship stronger and healthier

Answer 2

She could just be busy...try not to call let her call you for once she knows you will call her but flip it stop calling as much let her call, people respond well to this because they are so confident that that person will always be there to call whenever but when you distance yourself it is kinda a slap in the face. However if she still doesnt call after this dont call she has just prooven what you are to her I wouldnt bring it up just yet.

Answer 3

Dude, did it ever occur to you that she's not calling because she has another boyfriend? Sounds that way to the Old Broad...and I'm straight up with you. Leave her alone for a while and see if she calls. That will tell you something.

Answer 4

If you don't know her well enough to bring it up, you should just continue dating to see if she's thoughtless or inconsiderate. She might make a point to return your calls as the relationship takes on more meaning. If not, you'll have to decide if she's thoughtless, or this is just a quirk you can tolerate.

Answer 5

It is hard to say without knowing more about the relationship. Some people are scattered brained. However, my first instinct makes me wonder how interested she is in you. But like I said, I don't think I know enough to say one way or the other.

Answer 6

If you want her to call you more often dont answer the phone when she calls everytime, if she wants to see you tell her your busy got a date with another woman, give it back to her and see if she comes around

Answer 7

it could be either: she is avoiding u on purpose or she has a lot on at the moment. If i were u i would ask her if she needs any help with nething, see what she says, and u will know how she feels

Answer 8

Chill out dude, if it was meant to be it will be. If not move on brother.

Answer 9

i would not worry about it.... she probably gets busy and at night your are probably sleeping and doesnt want to wake you.