i'm 14 and i like this one girl that's 13 and she likes me and we both have over protective parents. i want to ask her out but both of our parents won't let us date. what should i do.
2006-11-15 05:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by zemke14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you jus need to talk to her during school and get to know her and when you feel that you really like her and its not jus a physical attraction, talk to her father and tell him that you would like to 'court' his daughter.... jus be real, if you go to him and you have no fear but at the same time you are respectful, he will respect you back and he'll prolly let you go out with her...but all of this applies only if you truly like her, but you're a young buck so you dont really know what love and liking a woman is anyway
2006-11-15 05:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by ballin4eva87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the hurry? The reason the parents are against dating is that you're too young...yet. I know you don't want to hear that. You've probably heard it enough already. There's a reason why the accepted age for dating is 16. That's because you're emotionally more stable, at that age, to handle a relationship. If you've noticed your friends, and their relationships, things aren't going so well for them. There's lots of cheating and going from one relationship to another. They can't handle the idea of sticking with one person. Their emotions aren't mature enough to keep them with one person for very long. Your parents have a job to do and that's to keep you safe...from yourself as well as others. They know the emotional rollercoater that you're going through. They were that age once, and know those feelings. So, for now, just accept the fact that dating is off limits, and make the most of the time you can spend getting to know this gal. Be her friend, because that's what she really needs. If you guys can be best friends, that goes a long way towards when you both are ready to date. You'll already be comfortable with one another, and will know things that other couples will only be beginning to learn. What should you do? Just relax. Be friends. And be honest with everyone around you. Be the best student, friend, son, and guy you can be. Respect other people's feelings. You don't have to date to be able to see this gal, since you both seem to go to the same school. Being exclusive at this early time of your life is not wise...for you or for her. You both need to be friends with lots of other people. While it's a good thing to "save" yourself for your future wife, you don't have to put a limit on those you are friends with. But, if you're gonna be friends with other girls, you need to let them know that you don't want anything more than a friendship with them. Just know that everything is temporary, and that this won't last forever...even though it seems like it will. <*)))><
2006-11-15 05:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't date. If you like a girl, you would never want her to go against her parents and get into trouble. The only thing you can do is meet at school or group events with a bunch of friends.
2006-11-15 05:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the parents go on dates with you until you are older.
2006-11-15 05:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do group dates. Let the parents know who you are with, where you are at, and when you will be back. I am sure your parents will agree to something that can be reasonable. good luck
2006-11-15 05:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lady C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet in school ! You got pause, right? An advice for you: Always leard better to soft youre parents heart! Hint! Love, is never agree with Learn! Small chances here!
2006-11-15 05:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see the reason why your parents should not let you date....longs it's all harmless fun then what should be the problem....just show both sets of parents that you respect eachother and them and won't do anything to disappoint them...at your age it is normal for you wanting to date
2006-11-15 05:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 would not usually reccomend it but if you really like her then you have to go behind your parent's back. IT WORKED FOR ME.
2006-11-15 05:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, just because you cannot go on a date dowsn't mean that you can't be gf and bf. So, ask her if she would like to be your gf! Good Luck.
2006-11-15 05:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay friends, and let your parents see how mature you are together and maybe they will be more lenient.
2006-11-15 05:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋