my bf and i had a long converstation last nite. he said that he doesnt want to be boyfriend and girlfriend but that im still his girl and he doesnt want to lose me. i dont know what to say or do. he just wants to do his own thing. but yet he doesnt want lose me what do i do. he know he has it good and doesnt want to lose me what do i do?!?!?! im so confused please help
2006-11-15 05:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. He doesn't respect you.
He doesn't want you, now-he wants to put you on a shelf for later.
Don't let him do that. Get on with your life-that doesn't include him.
2006-11-15 05:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 04:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by broadway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be in your face 24/7 honey. You have to give a man some space even if you're married to him. If you love him and trust him, then you'll be able to do that. In the meantime, take some time for yourself also. This makes for a healthy relationship. Godloveya.
2006-11-15 05:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through some thing just like that maybe if u ask him how much time he wants so u can narrow it down and then decide if u want to wait for him and also when the allocated time is up u can confront him if his act is still all over the place i didn't and months went by and eventually he found someone else don't be me i suck
2006-11-15 05:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is let him go sounds like he wants his cake and yes girl he wants to eat it to I had the same thing happen I feel he still loves me but wants to do what he wants when he wants no restraints and that is crap remember what you are worth and don't settle for less move on let him go it will hurt but you must let him be, if you truly love something let it go if it returns it was meant to be if not it was never yours.
2006-11-15 05:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by chrissylynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to date others, then you should too. It doesn't mean y'all have to lose contact. Just take a break and see what happens. Don't stick around and be his "girl" if he's dating other girls though. He has to be willing to let you be by yourself for a while too.
2006-11-15 05:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to explore other girls, but keep you waiting at home alone in case he needs you again. It's called "having your cake and eating it too." You need to tell him either he's with you, or he loses you. Don't let him mess your around.
2006-11-15 05:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he wants to play the field and stay with you. dont let him treat you like that. if he loves you and wants to be with you, there is no way that he needs a break, he will do anything to keep you and be with you if he was in love with you. i have been there. my guy broke up with me, 2 weeks later he wanted me back and i couldnt because it wasnt the same.
2006-11-15 05:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just feeding you the ol' male game BS.....He's got someone else in mind, you may not know it but he does.....follow him closely and monitor changes in usual routine
2006-11-15 05:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. He wants to see other people but doesn't want you to. Dump him.
2006-11-15 05:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋