Singles & Dating - 7 November 2006

Okay so this guy that I am talking to came over the other night after work and we just hung out,watched TV, and talked for like 2 hours and then we were talking and hes like are you ready for the next step and i was like what step and hes like a relationship and i said yea im ready for one then like a few seconds pass and im like well what about you and he said i dont know....why ask if you dont know??? and then hes like i didnt expect you to say yea..and then he leans in for a kiss and im like uh i need to go make sure my straightner is off and then we just went back to holding hands on the couch i dont get it why would he ask and then be like "i dont know"...and he is the one who has been calling and asking to come over and saying he misses me but then hes like i dont know if i want a relationship....whats up with that?

some info:
we are in our 20's
he has a kid

2006-11-07 02:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by Monica H 1

I dont know if this is even the appropriate forum to ask this in....

Last night I tried calling my fiance. Couldnt reach him for a few hours. It was an emergency so I needed to reach him asap. I knew he would prob be at the coffee shop studying so I drove to the coffee shop and thought I would catch him there. No big deal.

When I pull into the parking lot and as im walking past a restaraunt right beside the coffee shop I see him sitting there having dinner with a woman.

So I walk in and confront him. Maybe I should have trusted him and not said anything and waited. But I couldnt help it.

Come to find out he met a bunch of people from work because they just closed a big deal and they were all having dinner and they ended up being the last two to leave. This girl was his intern. I am completely humiliated.

What would you women do? Would you believe him if hes never given you a reason to not trust before? I am so confused and hurt. I dont know what to think.

2006-11-07 02:51:48 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

i bumped intomy ex at a fair i wa swith my new bf he was with the girl i thought he wa sinto (when we were dating) i asked whetehr iit was her and she sed yes. he didnt look happy but wa\s annoyed i questioned him and stormed off.

but i left a text saying i onyl wnated the truth and he replied immediatley when he got home .

i phoned him up and he seemed stressed and wasbeing rather nice to me. and he said well ur happy with ur bf sou get what u want? his gf had dumped him because of whta id done. but he didnt seem bothered.

i asked y he said in past that he still loved me and yet goes with another girl and he just sed well y has it been a month wihtout u contacting me?


heklp people help help

2006-11-07 02:50:31 · 11 answers · asked by lola f 1

I met a guy at a party a fortnight ago and I have a date with him on Thursday :) We're going to see the Xmas lights being switched on in Oxford Street, London (his idea). I kinda have 2 questions, firstly, what should I wear? As i presume we'll go to a bar/for dinner afterwards but it's gonna be blimming cold outside on Thursday night.

Also, I've not really been on a "date" as such before. I was with my ex from the age of 17 through to 23 and we never really "dated" as such, we went to college together and lived near each other so never really had dates, we more "hung about" together. My second question is therefore, how can i stop being so nervous about it and what should i expect from it?! Should I just chill out, take it as it comes and do what feels natural?

2006-11-07 02:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Jellytot 2

mine are:
my sis
love
and umm well yeah its ice-cream...lol

2006-11-07 02:49:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Madly in love with someone but refused to date them? I don't think it's possible.

2006-11-07 02:49:30 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6

a guy kept texting me, talking to me on aim, ALL THE TIME. worried when im not in a good mood. That kinda thing. Alot of things he did, kinda hinted, or made me think he liked me. He just got a girlfriend, last week, after a month of leading me to believe he liked me.... what was it all supposed to mean?

2006-11-07 02:49:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my boyfriend for someone else and now we are together..and i feel like i did the wrong thing and i feel nervous everytime i get around him..was i wrong to end the realtionship for someone else?

2006-11-07 02:48:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 02:48:10 · 11 answers · asked by michaela s 1

After writing a question, someone told me that maybe I should start calling just a couple of times week. I had a previous issue of calling too much that caused a break and now we are back together and I don't want to loose him again. I have been calling once a day. Is it a good idea to cut back on calling to 2 times a week and if I do so, will he think its weird or welcome the break?

2006-11-07 02:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3

jus curious becuz i'm 16 & jus wanna hear from different guys. Who knos i might take into consideration on what they say. Thanx chicos.

2006-11-07 02:47:10 · 12 answers · asked by waves 2

Usually, when I meet a man,they usually say that they want to be my boyfriend, or plan to live with me, That they want to go out., but ALL i want is a friendship first, they are usually very FAST.How do i say that ?????

2006-11-07 02:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i've been dating this guy for like 3 months and 2 days well ryan my boyfriend of 2 years called me last night we hadn't talked for 7 months..come to find out he still loves me and he appologized for not having any contact with me and i told him i love him to what do i do? i love both of them

2006-11-07 02:45:00 · 10 answers · asked by shayshay<3 1

I know this sounds very weird, but... There was this guy I used to go to school with in USA, who I was pretty good friends with and we used to talk a lot with each other. I used to like him a lot. Later, I moved to Europe from the time I was in third grade and now it has been over eight years that I have not seen him. This year I went back to USA and met my ex-classmate. I realised that this same guy joined the school I was in right after I left and we called him and talked tonns and tonns about nothing and some more nothing. I was shown some pictures and I didn't get to meet him, but I started getting a crush on him. I am so CRAZY ABOUT HIM. It is weird, but I can't stop thinking about that guy - he is so charming. So, now I will visit again in a couple of months and I have no idea what to do when I meet him. How do I talk to him, give him signals or - I don't know. Advise needed!

2006-11-07 02:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really do like him but he has a girlfriend and I can't stop thinking of him. What do I do?

2006-11-07 02:42:26 · 5 answers · asked by andre 1

2006-11-07 02:40:54 · 17 answers · asked by Michael M 1

if a guy keeps texting you to meet him for drinks, but your in a serious relationship and he knows this, why is he asking you out to meet him for drinks in the first place?

2006-11-07 02:38:55 · 49 answers · asked by Becky 1

2006-11-07 02:37:53 · 33 answers · asked by lara c 1

2006-11-07 02:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 02:37:02 · 24 answers · asked by rdwngfever 2

The most important things?

2006-11-07 02:35:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I give my hands to you before my heart

2006-11-07 02:34:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 02:34:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been working at this place for about 3 years now and the family that owns the business is really nice. They're like my 2nd family. Anyway, one of the daughters and the mom always joke about me marrying the oldest son. What's up with that? We've been txting and we're on eachother's top 8 on myspace.
Someone hit on me on me and he admitted that he was jealous.
Is it okay to flirt back? What's okay here?

2006-11-07 02:34:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 02:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by Pete Allison 6

***Please NOTE that this is not an internet based realtionship. We've lived together and are planning to get back together soon*** Say, miles away from each other we have no option of having sexual acts - or do we??

2006-11-07 02:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2

i alredy told her that dont call me if u dont call me but she reguraly calling me and dont have so much guts to her call becoz i still luv her a lot even i cant live with out her

2006-11-07 02:32:23 · 11 answers · asked by saahil k 1

Trust ISSUE...?
so my boyfriend and i have had a rocky past... more so for me than for him. 2 years ago we had some "complications" and since then i've had some what of a trust barrier. nothing has happened in the two years since, and i have forgiven him, but i have not forgotten. now we have TRUST ISSUES. is it my fault that i have a problem trusting him completely, or should he accept that what he did had consequences, and realize that it's going to be a little more difficult to earn all of my trust back?

2006-11-07 02:31:49 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-07 02:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by katie l 1

After month of trying to persaude me to live with him, I finally moved in with my boyfriend in a circumstance where I had no where else to turn to.
I moved country to come and be with him and now at my time of most need of his support he has expressed a desire to be alone.....have his "independence".
He is a sensible guy and by no means do I think it's anything other than "All the right things, just at the wrong time". Because he still wants me to wait for him while he has his chance at doing what "he wants".
I have never let him down, always been there for him and we couldn't get on better together and now such a shock to my system.......
Do I take this as a sign to cut and run........or do I be patient even though the outcome is unsure for me?
I am 22 and he is 24.....I'm a New Zealander but moved from Switzerland to be with him.

2006-11-07 02:31:25 · 9 answers · asked by jessieket04 3